Boys will be Men

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http://www.linktv.org/programs/boys-will-be-men

A 1-hour documentary on the state of boys and young men in society. As someone who works closely with young fellas this hits close to home.

Needless to say it's refreshing to see more awareness of this problem. Also I feel fortunate having grown up during an era when it wasn't nearly as extreme as it is today. When I was a kid, women were still struggling for equality. Nowadays they seek supremacy, and that sh*t's gotta stop.

Pass this vid around, post it on your facebooks. Help raise awareness about the plight of tomorrow's men.
 

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BULLSH!T!!!

teasing among boys is normal - in any country. (this coming from a guy who got beat on since grade one)

Life is cruel - the weak disapear, and the strong survive.....NATRUAL SELECTION.
Manhood is't something your born with, it's earned like anything else.

Now as an adult...i take teasing as people trying to connect with each other in some way. i've learned how to make fun of my self (and others) and now i'm better off because of it.
 

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My dad always told me when i was a child there would be people who picked on me because of my race. He told me to never start a fight because that person gets in trouble. He also told me never let anyone take advantage of me. If they try to take your money or anything of yours physically, let them know that although you will have 2 black eyes, they're going to get a black eye as well.

The next time it happens they'll think real hard, "Is this guys sandwhich worth a black eye? probably not. I'll take another persons sandwhich that's free."

I was never picked on ever but at the same time that attitude got me suspended like a bazillion times which had me known as a badboy.
 

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I loved that documentary !!! I agree 100 the world would be a lot better place if boys AND girls learned to work as a TEAM instead of survival of the fittest.
teasing among boys is normal - in any country. (this coming from a guy who got beat on since grade one)
Yea, but boys need to be taught NOT to tease each other. This documentary proves that boys have better friendships with each other and are much more productive when they work together and are sympathetic and trustful of each other.

Life is cruel - the weak disapear, and the strong survive.....NATRUAL SELECTION.
Manhood is't something your born with, it's earned like anything else.
true but how does that relate to teasing ??? Usually its the guys who do the teasing that end up as losers and the guys who get teased that end up successful (no proof to support this).

Now as an adult...i take teasing as people trying to connect with each other in some way. i've learned how to make fun of my self (and others) and now i'm better off because of it.
There are lots of people I come across in the work place like this. Guys who tease each other and think they are being friendly. The reality is no one likes being around guys who are always disrespectful except other guys who are like that.

If you find yourself having to tease people to get along with them that is a deep rooted psychological issue.

(this coming from a guy who got beat on since grade one)
People connect through beliefs, values, opinions and preferences. People DO NOT connect with others that constantly feel the need to make them the butt of a joke.
 

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ehh yes this is true.

But girls dont have it any easier in school or growing up. Girls are so two-faced to each other its appalling. All the b1tching and backstabbing and teasing.

Either way its 10x better to be in american schools than NO school at all like eastern european countries. LOL
 

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
ehh yes this is true.

But girls dont have it any easier in school or growing up. Girls are so two-faced to each other its appalling. All the b1tching and backstabbing and teasing.

Either way its 10x better to be in american schools than NO school at all like eastern european countries. LOL
True story.

Aside from physical fights, girls have to go through so much more in the education system then guys. And not having school only leads to dysfunctional socialization.
 
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