BOYfriend destroyer! How to!

[mongolboy]

Aight so i met so many fcking hot girls that had boyfriends ofcourse.. but anywais i was wondering if anybody in here has an experience on how to do dis so maybe the can offer me some advice and for everybody else too! I THINK THIS IS A VERY ESSENTIAL POST ! EVEN THOUGH IS KINA EVIL

 

[mongolboy]

So anyways today at school i met this 9.5 Azn cheerleader girl nam sayin but i started flirting with her about how she is special than all these other girls I know. She started giving me some IOI's but i was like can i have your phone # she said i have a boyfriend.........BOOM like a blow to my heart i was sad but nways i told her she would be so mine if she didnt have a bf. What should i do?

 

[Lord Shinra]

"If she dont have a ring, it dont mean a thing"
Walk in with that mentality.

 

[fresh_to_death]

Dude, don't try to steal(SAVE) a girl away from another guy. That's the stuff lames are made of. The most you should do is attempt to convince her to mess around and if she goes for it bang her and leave it at that.

 

[Mad Manic]

So anyways today at school i met this 9.5 Azn cheerleader girl nam sayin but i started flirting with her about how she is special than all these other girls I know. She started giving me some IOI's but i was like can i have your phone # she said i have a boyfriend.........BOOM like a blow to my heart i was sad but nways i told her she would be so mine if she didnt have a bf. What should i do?

Start making statements about her bf to get her talking about him. Then reframe him as a loser nice guy without doing it deliberately, but in a way that shows you're on his side. Then frame yourself as some cool, badass, un-AFC type who isn't a pushover but in a negative light so it looks like you aren't bragging.

e.g.) "Ohh that's cool you have a bf, I bet he treats you like gold ehh hehe"
... "Yes he's a sweetie he takes me out a lot and usually pays."
"Ohhh wow pays ehhh?! What a nice gentleman he is always paying for his girl he must be madly in love with you and want to keep you forever, man I wish I could be more like that haha"
... "Hehehe yeah I guess he really likes me"
"Obviously he seems like he's willing to do anything for you! Don't leave him he seems so nice, I'm not the type to pay all that much and be tied down I like to keep my options open, I'm a girl's nightmare when it comes to commitment haha *wink*"
..."Ooooo ok he can be a bit too clingy though I mean it's nice he pays for meals etc. but I like my own space too he can be like that ..."

etc.

But it's not a 2 min job, you'll need to spend quite a lot of time running the bf destroyer, maybe whilst ur venue changing. But reframe him as an AFC chump but BE ON HIS SIDE and frame yourself as a DJ but not boasting, almost unintentionally as if it's a bad thing relative to the bf.

MM

 

[Mad Manic]

Dude, don't try to steal(SAVE) a girl away from another guy. That's the stuff lames are made of. The most you should do is attempt to convince her to mess around and if she goes for it bang her and leave it at that.

That's all very well in a nicey nicey world, but most attractive young girls have bfs and/or getting laid anyway. So you're gonna search for a LONG time to find a girl sitting on her ass with no bf or sexual options.

MM

 

[Maxtro]

Wow that is some complicated stuff MM. Most important thing for the BF destroying is that your game and confidence must be strong. If it isn't then don't bother (speaking from experience)

 

[mongolboy]

OMg yall that is some good stuff yall just feeded me! Definetly going to try that **** out but im not going to be all desperate and make her my one itis even though i want 2 lol! BUt nways MadMan ur a genius wonder why the call you that. ANY MORE SUGGESTIONS ?

 

[Maxtro]

Going more from experience; don't let her become oneitis, but you know that already. Try not to learn too much about her relationship past with the guy. I just learned that my target (who's BF is oversees) used to live with him. Just the fact that I'm learning about how close they are or was, causes me to doubt myself.

There is more I want to add but I'm not going to hijack your thread.

 

[Mad Manic]

ANY MORE SUGGESTIONS ?

Yes, go out there and approach, approach, approach.

 

[mongolboy]

Definetaly ive been getting better at talking to girls and establishing a communicationg cuz i could just tell by the results..... SOON i prolly wont give a fuc about getting rejected anyways because i got another 100 hoes to talk to nam sayin today at the lunch table lol i was sitting with like 20 girls and i was the only guy in there haha shows that all those other mofuc's are AFC"S but nways Thank you guys for the SUPPORT. MUCH LOVE.
ANY MORE SUGESTIONS ?

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

after you use the boyfriend destroyer change subjects quickly, ask her a question or go into any other topic, have a little conversation, get her laughing, and then after that insert an innocent "i enjoyed chatting with you, I would like to talk to you again, what's your #?"

if she says no again, EJECT!

hb: I have a boyfriend
homophobe: Good, i only date girls with boyfriends
great! he can bring us breakfast in the morning
*do these with a smile*
"we are not talking about your boyfriend...we are talking about us getting together"
"what does he have to do with us getting together?"

EXPANDED

1. Use boyfriend destroyer (most BFD's are funny so it should get her laughing)
2. change subjects right away! don't even waste a second or 2 after the boyfriend destroyer or if she replies to it. The worst thing you can do is stare at her dissapointed she didn't give out the # or ask for it right away or beg for it (this of course will happen to most guys as they are probably nervous and are not prepared for the rejection even though they know it is a 50/50 chance). After she starts laughing at your BF destroyer change subjects right away. If she laughs at it and replies quickly to it (I can't, it wouldn't be fair to my bf) change the subject immediately. Get her talking about herself or you do the talking (the other day I saw this great movie bla bla bla bla) get the conversation going again
3. Have a little conversation, keep attracting her, ask for the number again in a nonchalant way like if you totally forgot/can't remember asking for it earlier. Don't use the same # close you used earlier. If she says no again EJECT. Don't waste your time time to search for the next target.

the above is for most people, I use direct method so this is what I do

homophobe: "We got two options now. We could split ways and we might never see each other again. And my guess is we would do just fine. However we would never know what would have happened if you gave me your number and we would have met again. So what's your number?"

if she doesnt give out the digits time to EJECT. "I enjoyed chatting with you but I got to go meet my friend, good luck" (put hand on her shoulder) or

"I didn't notice this before but you are actually pretty sexy. Anyway, it was a pleasure chatting I have to go find my friend. Bye."

 

[mongolboy]

WOW JOE GREAT ADVICE! DEF. and expert in this field i can tell would realy like some more advice from you if that is possible ! BEcause of this my game prolly get much better on girls with boyfriends now sounds all robotic and **** but it gonna work man i trust you JOE !
ANY MORE SUGGESTIONS KEEP IT COMIGN THIS IS AN IMPORTANT THREAD THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS MAY HAVE A BF !

 

[mongolboy]

I Hope every1 can learn from this thread because you will be much more confident going into an situation like this even if you are already there are still people that are not experienced at this field i mean come on this is a touchy subject right here that must be handled delicately SO KEEP THE SUGGESTIONS COMING APPRECIATE IT EVERY1 MUCH LOVE.

 

[Bible_Belt]

This may be less relevant to cold approachess, but reverse psychology works for me. I compliment the other guy as much as possible. My previous hb9 gf just left me for her baby daddy but keeps messaging and texting me. I keep telling her what a great guy he is and that I like him so much that I am going to stay away from his woman. This is driving her nuts. It's the opposite of the validation she would get from jealous AFC behavior.

 

[mongolboy]

Thanks bible_belt great example right here. Reverse psychology has always been an favorite of mine and from my experience it works pretty good. Just met another girl at 24/7 ftiness that has an boyfriend but =P but i dunno give a fuc cuz i know i got more replication value than him so i got all the confidence i need
KEEP THE SUGGESTIONS COMING

 

[realsmoothie]

The one thing that helps with confidence in dealing with hotties with boyfriends...

Remember that the good ones almost ALWAYS have a boyfreind. When they dump one... they've already got another in mind and may already have dated him.

It's sad, but true. Use it to your advantage.

 

[mongolboy]

realsmoothie good suggestion you got there, totally agreed. I knew that kinda anyways but u really made it clear and stick it in my head bro. Ye from my experience i found out that confidence is the key for EVERYTHING!
KEEP THE SUGGESTIONS COMING GGGGET THAT MIND WORKING YALL. MUCH LOVE

 

[mongolboy]

So anyways check this out yall, my game has been getting better i noticed and the reason why is because i had some stomach problems and it looks like its getting cured. NOW WTF? whats that got 2 do with confidence? well i noticed that as my body got better, so as my confidence and my outside elements nah mean? SO in order to get all that confidence and style and sht........ you gotta clean the inside out firste get fit, you will feel much betteR!

 

[Play the Game]

Personally i use the "don't ask, don't tell policy." Even if i hear stuff about him, indirectly, i just block it out of my head.
I'm not into destroying the bf per say, because it makes you look weak and insecure. I like to make the the girl like me more than her bf and just slowly take over his role. If you try to manipulate it will be obvious, and you want to disassociate yourself from all the drama involved in the previous relationship as much as possible. That way you're the CLEAN SLATE she can run away to. Plus the guy will usually get more pissed off and jealous when he hears about you, that will create even more drama.

If a girl likes you she won't mention the bf... and you'll notice pictures of him disappearing when you come to her place.
If she's mentioning the bf, it usually means she's not interested in you because:

a) you're pushing too hard for a date / relationship [excuse to get you away from her, creep!]
b) she was never interested in the first place [you're only a friend, she doesn't see you as anything more]
c) She's a Drama Queen: you're the audience [you're one of the girly girls]


Remember: You have to build attraction from the start, that way you're put into the potential bf category at the beginning of the game!

- PTG.