Born Again Virgins

[Desdinova]

The woman I'm dating is a "Born Again Virgin". In other words, I broke her 4 year streak of celibacy. She's now heavily addicted to my c0ck.

I know where a lot of chicks fit in. Virgins and low-mileage chicks are usually the way to go with regards to catching their life-long high interest. Women who fvck on a regular basis and have had numerous men in their sexual history are pretty much hopeless when it comes to catching their interest.

But a chick who's kept herself celibate for an excessively long time? Where the hell does she fit in here? From what I gather with regards to how her interest is panning out, she may actually fit in with the low-mileage chicks.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

born again virgin? she probably rode the d-carousel so hard from 20-25 that it caught on fire and imploded. This is fake low mileage but then again the most important thing to do is to keep vetting her to see if she has truly turned the page on that part of her life and is looking to not ever go back.

 

[Desdinova]

I'm not too sure about her riding the c0ck carousel. She doesn't appear to have any male orbiters. She seems to just have a few close female friends, although I've been taken by surprise before.

I'm wondering if she remained celibate due to the fact that she hasn't been able to find a suitable candidate since the last alpha male who showed up in her life. I can't help but wonder if remaining celibate for such a long time is the equivalent of pushing an emotional reset button. If I didn't fvck for 4 years, I'd certainly feel like I have a clean slate.

I'm interested to see how this chick plays out over time. I haven't seen any major red flags yet, so that's a good sign.

 

[zekko]

But a chick who's kept herself celibate for an excessively long time? Where the hell does she fit in here? From what I gather with regards to how her interest is panning out, she may actually fit in with the low-mileage chicks.

I would think so. The fact that she hasn't been banging a bunch of dudes makes it more likely for her to form an attachment after sex. These girls are rare, but not everyone fits into the PUA stereotype machine. Life is (thankfully) more varied than that.

What chick is this, Des? I don't recall reading about her. I like to live vicariously through your exploits, lol.

 

[YawataNoKami]

There is no such thing as a born again virgin and reformed slvt" is the more proper term.I always laugh when I hear that term. It's a pathetic way for a used up woman to try to create more value for herself. It's like me going out tomorrow to buy a 20 year old used car and telling all my friends that it's a born again new car, even though it has 200,000 miles on it lol. "No guys, for real, it's new, it's reborn! Don't worry about that fading paint and engine knocking, it's really new now!"

That's a perfect example of western women trying to avoid the consequences of their actions. It's actually worse then just being honest and admitting an mistake. I couldn't take a person seriously who claims to be a born-again virgin.


These so called "born again slvts" , I mean "virgins" should just accept who they are. They're just living a lie and I'm sure deep down inside they know they feel like sh1t. If they claim to be a Christian, then ask them to justify their concept of being a "born-again virgin" Biblically. And watch the hamster wheel spin like mad...

It's a bullsh1t concept of course. Remember...when a female brings up bullsh1t like this, either ignore it or question it. Never accept. Slut shaming needs to make a comeback. Other than that, leave them to the born again beta suckers.

If she ain't a virgin she should come clean with it, don't trust whatever a woman says about her sex life though, if you see her for the long term, better have her investigated and her background checked.

OP pump and dump her.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

There is no such thing as a born again virgin and reformed slvt" is the more proper term.I always laugh when I hear that term. It's a pathetic way for a used up woman to try to create more value for herself. It's like me going out tomorrow to buy a 20 year old used car and telling all my friends that it's a born again new car, even though it has 200,000 miles on it lol. "No guys, for real, it's new, it's reborn! Don't worry about that fading paint and engine knocking, it's really new now!"

That's a perfect example of western women trying to avoid the consequences of their actions. It's actually worse then just being honest and admitting an mistake. I couldn't take a person seriously who claims to be a born-again virgin.


These so called "born again slvts" , I mean "virgins" should just accept who they are. They're just living a lie and I'm sure deep down inside they know they feel like sh1t. If they claim to be a Christian, then ask them to justify their concept of being a "born-again virgin" Biblically. And watch the hamster wheel spin like mad...

It's a bullsh1t concept of course. Remember...when a female brings up bullsh1t like this, either ignore it or question it. Never accept. Slut shaming needs to make a comeback. Other than that, leave them to the born again beta suckers.

If she ain't a virgin she should come clean with it, don't trust whatever a woman says about her sex life though, if you see her for the long term, better have her investigated and her background checked.

OP pump and dump her.

Maybe she became desensitized to c0ck and wanted something more meaningful. Hence the born again virgin stage. She wants to get hooked on the c0ck of "the one". Someone can choose to do this even after going thru a slutty phase of several years.

 

[speed dawg]

The woman I'm dating is a "Born Again Virgin". In other words, I broke her 4 year streak of celibacy. She's now heavily addicted to my c0ck.

I know where a lot of chicks fit in. Virgins and low-mileage chicks are usually the way to go with regards to catching their life-long high interest. Women who fvck on a regular basis and have had numerous men in their sexual history are pretty much hopeless when it comes to catching their interest.

But a chick who's kept herself celibate for an excessively long time? Where the hell does she fit in here? From what I gather with regards to how her interest is panning out, she may actually fit in with the low-mileage chicks.

I'm not sure I'd believe a word she says regarding her sex history. None for 4 years, now she can't get enough? Seems a little far-fetched. Even the MOST disciplined people can't just turns off urges like that.

 

[Desdinova]

I'm not sure I'd believe a word she says regarding her sex history. None for 4 years, now she can't get enough? Seems a little far-fetched. Even the MOST disciplined people can't just turns off urges like that.

First of all, I need to clear something up. "Born again virgin" is a term that I chose to use. She never used the term.

As far as a woman going for 4 years without sex, you have to remember that women's bodies and sexual stimulation works differently from men. We think about sex multiple times a day triggered by physically attractive women. Women need a LOT more to make their panties wet. For them, it's more about the entire package than physical appearance.

She works in a field that is highly dominated by women, so her interaction with men is limited. If there's no men around to present her with an entire package, then it's very easy for her to go an extended period without c0ck.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

First of all, I need to clear something up. "Born again virgin" is a term that I chose to use. She never used the term.

As far as a woman going for 4 years without sex, you have to remember that women's bodies and sexual stimulation works differently from men. We think about sex multiple times a day triggered by physically attractive women. Women need a LOT more to make their panties wet. For them, it's more about the entire package than physical appearance.

She works in a field that is highly dominated by women, so her interaction with men is limited. If there's no men around to present her with an entire package, then it's very easy for her to go an extended period without c0ck.

"girls" are using the term "born again virgin"... It is a period of celibacy used to cleanse themselves. Usually after being too loose or slutty with sex or having a string of bad boyfriends who used them badly.

If a girl does cleanse herself through a celibacy and know she is done hopping on strange and different ****s, she can get hooked to your ****. It will be like heroin to her...

If she goes back to her cheating ways though cheating will be like another drug to her, but she supposed to have given that drug up thru her celibacy.

 

[WanderingMan]

Agree with a lot of what's been said so far.

Why did she go 4 years without having sex?

In all reality, this seems unnatural to me, and somewhat of a red flag.

No boyfriend in 4 years? No short term/long term relationships?

What is the reasoning?

I see you say she's 'not around' other guys, but chicks run into c0ck every day of their lives - everywhere. I don't think it's a bad thing to have self control and abstain - somewhat, but 4 years? It just seems extreme, and as I said - unnatural. Like the Alcoholic who can't have an occasional social drink, it's either the whole bottle or nothing at all..... just a train wreck waiting to happen.

 

[zekko]

Wow, usually the complaints here are about women being too slvtty and riding the c0ck carousel. Now people are complaining because she isn't out there getting fvcked enough. This place is messed up.

 

[G_Govan]

As far as a woman going for 4 years without sex, you have to remember that women's bodies and sexual stimulation works differently from men. We think about sex multiple times a day triggered by physically attractive women. Women need a LOT more to make their panties wet. For them, it's more about the entire package than physical appearance.

There's a tiny sliver of truth in this but the major issue is women don't just have sex when they're horny, like men.

They'll have sex for maintenance and/or benefits (typically resources/attention). Men simply cannot function sexually if we aren't aroused, not the case for women.

I wouldn't believe a word if an attractive woman told me she was voluntarily celibate for 4 years. She'd have to have been locked up, confined in some way or suffering from some kind of medical condition.

They are not the stoic creatures that men are (sometimes forced to be). They need male attention like we need sex and won't be satisfied unless some guy is busting a nut in them or on them from time to time.

I think she's running game on you and she's using the one thing she knows will have the most dramatic effect.

 

[Lexington]

There is no such thing as a "reclaimed virgin." Either a person is a virgin or not. Now this woman claims she has had a 4 year interlude from sex. Of course, there is no way for you to verify this short of doing some serious digging into her past.

Chances are she was a slvt in the past and she is embarrassed about her sexual history. Why else would she take such a drastic step? How old is she? Is she at an age where she is looking to lock down a provider? Like WanderingMan said, c0ck is always available to an attractive woman. Unless she was in convent or something, I doubt there were no attractive men in her life.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

There is no such thing as a "reclaimed virgin." Either a person is a virgin or not. Now this woman claims she has had a 4 year interlude from sex. Of course, there is no way for you to verify this short of doing some serious digging into her past.

Chances are she was a slvt in the past and she is embarrassed about her sexual history. Why else would she take such a drastic step? How old is she? Is she at an age where she is looking to lock down a provider? Like WanderingMan said, c0ck is always available to an attractive woman. Unless she was in convent or something, I doubt there were no attractive men in her life.

Women do this... They may have gotten desensitized to c0ck riding so many c0cks and want to reclaim themselves and save it for "the one". Women do this. They might shut off for 6 months, a year, years even. No matter how attractive you are, your not getting through unless she really likes you. This is when they have made that decision to stop hopping from person to person and find one that they work well with.

Through repeated conjugations they will become bonded to the new c0ck, it's chemistry in action.

Some women do this thing, and like you I believe they had a slvtty streak to do this, or they got used one too many times by the non-giving super Alpha's and just want a good man for themselves. Sometimes women do things that they want to do and still feel like $hit... Women are not men.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

i had the same experience with a broad last year. she said she didn't have sex for 3 years and she is a very moral girl, blablabla. of course, before she had a boyfriend with whom she basically lived together for 2 years, and they mated like rabbits. so she was no virgin.
i think what she wanted to achieve with this moral value raising is that she became christian and she thought she should be like this.
i didn't really care if it is true or not, i just wanted to screw her. and i did at the 3rd date. fisr date we kissed, second date i bit her neck a couple of times and sucked on her boobies, and the third time se was begging me to put it in after a more intense make out session.
something felt weird and i asked around and i found out she was lying, but she was doing it with guys from a social circle that had very low chance of telling the religious aquaintances that she actually uses the D intensely.

so don't trust these fakers. she either is a virgin, in which case i could believe her if i cared enough, but if she is not, there is NO WAY you could know for sure. and if she says it, and wants you to know this thing, it's just an attemt to raise value. mostly lies though.

 

[Yewki]

Wow, usually the complaints here are about women being too slvtty and riding the c0ck carousel. Now people are complaining because she isn't out there getting fvcked enough. This place is messed up.

We're talking about two extremes here. Extremes tend to be red flags.

 

[Boilermaker]

Wow, usually the complaints here are about women being too slvtty and riding the c0ck carousel. Now people are complaining because she isn't out there getting fvcked enough. This place is messed up

So, in order not to be messed up, we either need to prefer sluts who ride the c0ck carousel, or neurotic hermits who do not get intimate for years on end and get addicted to one penis all of a sudden?

To the OP:
My impression is, she is either lying or too messed up to be involved with. Nothing stable, long-term or rewarding can come out of it.

 

[Desdinova]

To the OP:
My impression is, she is either lying or too messed up to be involved with. Nothing stable, long-term or rewarding can come out of it.

This covers pretty much every woman out there. If I were to avoid a woman based on stuff like this, I'd end up being celibate for the rest of my life. IMO, it's better to take the chance and wait to see if anything else fvcked up comes along. In the meantime, I'm getting laid.

Dating any woman is a risk. You risk ending up with a morally fvcked up woman, risk ending up with a psycho bytch, or risk having your heart broken if you get emotionally involved. There's little room to win regardless of what you do.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I'm planning on giving one of these born-again virgins a really great injection of my fat juicey c0ck. Her's is only 9 months, and believable. She was just tired of laying with casual partners, wanted the next time to be with someone who it would be more meaningful. That was her reason.

 

[zekko]

So, in order not to be messed up, we either need to prefer sluts who ride the c0ck carousel, or neurotic hermits who do not get intimate for years on end and get addicted to one penis all of a sudden?

I don't believe I said that. But I don't think that a woman not having sex for a few years is really a red flag (putting aside the argument that she is lying for the moment).

If she were a real virgin, she would be prized by many men, and no one would be complaining about her not having sex often enough. Many men here on this forum have gone years without having sex. Now it's true that women can get sex more easily than men can, but women are also supposed to be more selective than men, and are not supposed to be giving it away to just anybody.

Many men have gone without sex while they were working on their careers or building a business. I don't see why women can't get similarly distracted with other things, especially since they supposedly do not have as strong a sex drive as men.

The main warning sign I might be concerned about is this could point to her having a low sex drive, but Des is getting laid so that doesn't seem to apply, at least not right now. Although she may want it less often as the novelty wears off, who knows?

This covers pretty much every woman out there. If I were to avoid a woman based on stuff like this, I'd end up being celibate for the rest of my life. IMO, it's better to take the chance and wait to see if anything else fvcked up comes along. In the meantime, I'm getting laid.

Yeah, as far as red flags go, there are far redder ones out there.

I think it was a mistake for you to use the term "born again virgin", however, especially since this was YOUR description of her. Usually this applies to a group of women who decide to "reclaim" their virginity - a nutty little subgroup of females. Unfortunately the term seems to have been a distraction for many in this thread, or even caused a complete misunderstanding for some. When you use certain buzzwords, the knee jerk reactions will come out.