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fyzix

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Well, I'll start off by introducing myself. I'm a 20 year old computer systems (READ: business programming) from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. I'm a fit, decent looking guy (some mild acne, but it's under wraps now), I like to dress well and throw money around. I was an AFC since I was 17 and I wish I would've found this site earlier.

When I was growing up, I was always the skinny nerdy kid with THICK glasses and a crummy haircut. I was picked on quite a bit and had low self esteem. However, I still remained fairly outgoing and made it throught the junior high gauntlet. High school was much better, I got contact lenses and started filling out. I had tons of friends and my self esteem had a huge boost. This was the summer I was 17.

I was flying high, a junior DJ. I was seeing two girls at once and I was the envy of all my friends. However, I fell in "love" with one of the girls and ended up coming on too strong. We broke up, I was crushed, my self esteem was back to normal.

I encountered sosuave in May and have been lurking around here ever since. I have used many of the tips to my advantage however, nothing solid has surfaced.

When I encountered Walden's boot camp journal, I knew I had to try it. I currently have three active numbers. I'm planning on NEXTing two and I have a date with the third tuesday night.

Anyways, reguardless of the date, week one: day one begins tommorow. Wish me luck!
 

fyzix

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Week 1 : Day 1

Haven't been out in public today besides a short errand. I said hello to one person. Had too many things to take care of at home today, so hopefully I'll get an opportunity for some random greetings tommorow.

I'm off to my date shortly, with all the material I've read recently things should go fairly well. Just to clairify, I picked this girl up at a club last weekend. I do have somewhat of a DJ starter kit that I've developed from articles I've read and the small amount of experience I've developed from using the advice.

I'll update about how my date went later.

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Well the date could've gone better. The girl is really into me, but the circumstances are terrible. First, she called me an hour and a half before the date to bump the time to 9:00 from 9:30. I was working on a small web project and was frustrated with it, so I ok'd it (semi-afc). I get to the coffee shop where I was meeting her and she arrives 10 minutes late...WITH ANOTHER COUPLE, a friend I knew from when we met and her bf. I was dissapointed. Never the less, I tried to make the best of the situation, if not for practice only.

Well the girl's pupils are as big as saucepans all night, unbelievable. Excellent response to kino, found out some likes and dislikes, got in some good neg hits and had about 60+% eyecontact with her.

When the coffee shop began to wind down I suggest we go for a walk and offer to take her home, and let the other couple be on their way. She accepts to the walk and I can tell she wants to accept the ride, but she can't, her parents would be upset. I took her for a short walk, we began arm in arm, but she eventually slipped her arm around my waist got very close (it was chilly, I had my jacket in the backseat of my car, but we would've had to turn around). As we were on our way back from the walk she asked me what I was doing tommorow, I said I was booked solid (I am) and we discovered we were planning on going to the same bar on thursday (not good, wanted to nail down some digits) however, I did not commit to any future plans. I closed with a kiss on the cheek and a hug and said goodbye.

From hearing about her c*ckblock parents and other behaviors, I assume she has not had many boyfriends and probably is still a virgin. For this reason only, I may keep her around, I'm a virgin too and I wouldn't mind f*cking her for my first.
 
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We´ll be waiting.
 

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Week 1 : Day 2

My boot camp exercizes are going pretty well today, I've said "hi" and/or started short conversations with about 10 people. This includes sn older woman (35ish) at work who I noticed has been checking me out. She responded with a big smile and a hello back.

I've always been good at casual greetings so this is a cakewalk, cold approaches are going to be the real challenge, I only have done a few of those in my time.

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Work went well, talked to some cute girls there that I wouldn't have talked to normally. I also found out from a female friend that I was voted the "hottest guy in the store" which made me quite happy.

I'm off to a local pub tonight. I'll definately get in some "hi"s and might try some CAs to jump the gun.

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I didn't stay at the bar that long tonight. Chatted up the waitress a bit and talked to a couple of cougars. Besides that there was nothing there. Oh well, tommorow night I'm hitting a well known meat market, should have better results.
 
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Week 1 : Day 3

Well, I'm planning on grabbing digits from a couple of girls at work today, we'll see how that goes. I'm going to keep up the greetings and begin on CAs tonight. I'll be hitting a local meat market, so I should be able to get some numbers.

I'm also planning on taking V, the girl I met for coffee on a REAL date on Sunday. I'll be calling her after work to set it up.
 
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