Boot Camp Diary

[sixtyfwee]

Ok this seems like a bunch of fun! I have been looking for a structured way to attack this scene for quite sometime.

I am 26, Irish, and have a spent the past year going through ASF, the David DeAngelo series, and finally attending a Ross Jeffries Seminar. I have a truckload of knowledge on this, but not nearly enough field work - AND THATS WHAT COUNTS!

I have my own company, drive a sports car, and am reasonably well off compared to just about anyone else my age, all of this is self made also. I have, however, always sucked with the ladies.

A buddy of mine is also taking the course and I'm sure he will be along to post his results too.

BTW, if there are any other Irish people on here feel free to msg me.

I'll post up my progress so far in the next article.

Show Me The *****!

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[sixtyfwee]

Week One

Week One,

Hmmmm, 50 Hi's and 2 hours of EC work. That doesn't seem so bad. Im starting on a Monday, and building up to a climax on the following Saturday - its the way the social scene works here.

For this week most of my work at this is in bars and clubs.

Sunday - One Hi 30, Mins of EC play, hmmm, maybe this will be harder than I thought?

Monday - 2 Hi, 30 Mins of EC, not too bad.

Tuesday - One night off

Wednesday - 4 Hi, 30 Mins EC play - Actually opened a four-set here becuase it was an oppertunity too easy to not take.

Thursday - 10 Hi, 30 Mins EC Play - These hi's are getting alot easier.

Friday - Tomorrow is my buddies birthday, I expect to be drinking, and I do not like to mix drinking with sarging, tonight I want the remaining 33 Hi's - Oh hell yeah this will be fun. By midnight I had clocked up 10, kinda cheating by getting in the way of girls on the stairs so they were forced to interact

Got to the niteclub, and I'm on fire! There will not be an oppertunity missed! I managed to get another 15 between the smoking area (rocks in ireland) and the dance floors.

Augh its 3am, and im on extra time the club is closing, aint no way, I'm not gonna get the next 8. So I walked through the bottom area of the club, tapped any hot women I saw on the shoulder, smiled said 'hi' then walked off. Success - I got the 50

Hooooooooo Yaaaaaaaa

This week was a bunch of fun, I didn't bother with counting guys, cos I can say hi to them at any stage, and I also tried to avoid sub 4's, I find them waaaaay too scary. I got an amazing buzz from completing this mission, it was only after I got rid of all my dumbass inhibitions and just went on instinct that I started having fun.

Saturday, I did a load more, but I was drunk so that does not count, Sunday I was hungover, so no work.

 

[sixtyfwee]

Week Two

Nearly up to date, after this post, I will be adding in real time.

Mission: 10: 2-10 minute conversations - I'm only going to talk to women, because I am bound to talk to men along the way.

Monday: Settled in to the week, there was a nice three set, but I got lazy, Aurgh that sucks, time to reassess why im doing this - need to be outside my comfort zone more.

Tuesday: Night Off

Wednesday: Missed a chance to open a 2set, sitting across for me, stupid - will modify this behaviour for thursday. Opened a cute HB7 in the smoking room of a bar, 5 minute convo, opened with a smile and a Hi, she was the only one there so used that with - 'All alone out here?' then followed articles advice. Found another bar, sat at a table with a two fives, was going to open, but left it too long as they were already leaving. Will fix this behavioural quirk.

Thursday: Got a quick 10 minute conversation in with new girl in business opposite mine, she was a UB1 ewww, still counts tho.

Now we are up to date, Im going to get ready to go out later, some live music, then a club, Im gonna totally reframe myself, I want to get atleast 2 more opens and convos in tonight, so that I can blitz this tomorrow.

Hell Yeah! Fun Fun Fun!

 

[sixtyfwee]

Gah,

The nite was ripe for the picking! I got Two convos early on, a nice move on a group who were in the pub after doing some sponsorship thing, nice situational intro. Then just before the band started, outside with some smokers, i never have a light, makes entry easy, because of the band, i could run with the whole 'so girls are like groupies?' to start the convo.

The goddahm mofo niteclubs were packed and doors shut early, last student nite before exams, so no more. Bloody shame, still tomorrow, i'm gonna do an 8pm-3am sarge-athon to get the numbers good.

6 ta go - sahow me da pink!

 

[sixtyfwee]

Is the saturday, tonight and one other to go. I'm in a great state, my frame of mind is solid. My guides tonight are:

* No one or thing can alter my state, I am the only one who can do this.
* I see what I want and go for it instantly, no hesitation, I can think about it later.
* I dont know what the night may hold, but I will roll with it.

HoooooYaaaaaa Bootcamp!

6 Convos - All Glory!

 

[comote]

Good luck sixtyfwee, I am not irish but I will keep reading your posts on this. It is good to see someone post actual field work. One thing that helps me when I am not at the top of my game is to go places out of town or just somewhere that I won't go back to.

 

[Life-Trainee]

What? A diary? Women have diaries, men have logs!!

 

[sixtyfwee]

Lol, I dont give two ****es whats its called! Anyonewho stresses over a word......... ;P

Week two is complete.

Thank the gods!

Approach one (no 5) was sweet, some randomer honeys were colleting bar stools, I grabbed one near to us, ran it over, and opened with 'COOL! why are we collecting bar stools?' was easy from there.

Number Two (6) was some really really HB10 (best in my career) from estonia, i noticed her cigarettes were foreign, and opened with 'what kinda weird smokes do you have?'

Number Three (7) came and sitted at my table, actually a bunch of em, would have been a fool not to say hello

Number Four (8) was a randomer in the smokers area, so be it, she was cute-ish! Needed no open, my bud was alreay there.

Number Five (9) was some dopey WP who happened tyo steal my santa hat, her buds were average, but fook it, twas only a chat.

Number (10) was some dramitically hot chic HB(9), chatted for bout 10 minutes then left. In fairness at this stage of the night, women are latching on to any single bloke, easy money.

Had a bunch more......


Bring On Week Three!

HooooooYaaaaaa Show me da Pink!

 

[sixtyfwee]

Just read my post, sucks, no *****.

Hmmmm good work, but, want more. Closes would rock, cant wait!

 

[sixtyfwee]

For any one following this, and indeed myself, there are an important series of changes that the bootcamp has already brought about:

1. The process has changed my view of the whole game, from one of 'useless' knowledge gathering to action. This is self sustaining at the moment, and I suspect it will just become 'me' later in the BC.

2. My brain has moved away from viewing this as difficult, its a lot of fun, and i'm, for the first time, detatched from any rejection.

3. Instead of using situational pulls, im now able to recognise oppertunities that I would not have seen, and in many cases create these oppertunities.

4. All areas of the game are getting hooked up, things that didn't make sense before due to my lack of field work, now make sense, and there is a huge impotus to use more.

 

[comote]

Congratulations on the great work last night. That rocks man. It looks like you are getting more concerned with the process rather than the result(which I think is good).

 

[sixtyfwee]

Hola!

Back again, week three, 10 convos with women I would consider dating. Hmmmm, yup I can do this. Problem is my idea of a woman I would consider dating is astronomically high, I guess this means 10 convos with 10 stunners. Gonna have to look hard. Any way here is the week so far, and what is comming tonight.

Monday - Out, but the night was very quiet and the ONLY worthy girl I saw was with her borefriend.

Tuesday - Night Off

Wednesday - One and a half hours for sarging - (will cover in more depth later)

Thursday - Speed Dating - I love this concept, 20 women that I can try stuff out on, none of them count for the bootcamp tho, that would be cheating.

Friday - 8pm-3am sargefest

Saturday - 8pm-3am sargefest

I'll cover my thoughts for tonight in a followup post in a few minutes

 

[sixtyfwee]

So wednesday night, town should be busy, there are bound to be a few dating level girls about.

I notice that I am still overthinking this, why hell would I have a problem just walking over and starting talking to a HB10 or better yet a group of them? The only thing that can stop me from doing this is my own brain. So here are my guides for tonight and probably the week.

* Talking to hot women is normal, in fact I enjoy it hugely
* I do not hesitate, I go for what I want and think about it later.
* I will use one canned line, to facilitate using the 3 second rule more effectivley.

I'm gonna use the Ross Jeffries line 'If I were to approach you, and you really wanted to meet me, what would I say?' I am very confident I can flow from this starting point, the obvious response being to mirror exactly their response.

If possible I would like to finish this bootcamp by Friday night, but that will be dependant on the numbers of HBs available.

Im gonna go now and put on my game,

HoooooYaaaaa Bootcamp.

PS. Thanks comote, your words of encouragement are effective, and are helping

 

[sixtyfwee]

Boot Camp Week Three Day 3

Hmmmm tonight was very good but it might not have been. I went through my usual rituals before leaving the house, but my state was flakey, and by the time I was in the bar, my state was crap.

I get these stupid failure to act impulses from time to time, and they always stop me from actually doing anything. I can rationalise, reframe, nlp, and everything else, but there remains a core block.

That is not good enough though, I am not a person who will hesitate anymore. After about two hours of sitting down, I decided, 'you will goto the club, you will approach, and you will own the place'

I got into the club with my wing, we were the first in there ;> This is what happened:

Set One: HB5 and HB6, they were the first group of women, and godahm it I was approaching no matter what. I opened with, 'so did you girls come from downstairs (bar is on ground floor), had to leave the terrible music?' In retrospect I can do way better than this, the girls tried to shut me down with snob tactics, but i just brushed them asside and continued to get my first convo. I have a lot to learn from this, WRT things not to do again

I got chatting to a bunch of Italian pimps, they were all balls and spit to get some Irish ladies. One of the approached a three set after we were done talking, and I observed from the other side of the club.

Set Two: HB7.5Spain, HB7NiceLegs, and UB4Chatty who the Italian lad had failed on came out to the smoking room about 10 minutes later, I was already there. EASY MONEY! I sauntered over to their table and opened with: 'How was your Italian experience?' Then followed with standard fluff talk for about 10-15 minutes.

Single Chick Three: I went to the far side of the club, to make sure I was not doubling up. There was a single HB6 at the bar, I opened with 'Have you been served?' - 'Why?' - 'So I can be a gentleman and when I get served before you, I can make sure he takes your order next' ))) This was in a joking tone. We chatted for a while until she was served, and then SHE BOUGHT ME A DRINK. Nice!

Set Four: HB7 at the bar, we fluff talked while she waited, boringly lame, she was vacuous

Set Five: HB5 was opened by my wing, I went over to her HB6 friend, and opened with 'God isn't it a pain when people wont just leave you alone for a quiet drink?' as i sat down beside her . I spend the next 45 minutes trying out all kinds of fun **** on her, but as is often the case in clubs, she was nice from afar, but far from nice. Still it was a good way to end the evening - didn't bother with a number close cos i didn't want to see her again.

This was a good night, for the first time ever I broke the dreaded slump, that I get from time to time. I have a huge amount of info to digest and have learned tonnes. I will post again when I have some of what I learned dissected.

Speed Dating Tomorrow - This will be fun!

Catch you all later, bed calls.

 

[comote]

Hey man I liked that line about "have you been served yet" and your follow up. I didn't think the "Italian experience" or the "Don't you hate it" lines were any good but if they worked for you, great.

It's awesome that your not hesitating to approach any more. That's a part of my game I need to rebuild again.

Excellent Job man, keep us posted.

 

[sixtyfwee]

Week Three Complete

Ok Week Three is done, but I am really tired, this is a lot of fun, but requires a serious amount of energy.

Went to speed dating on Thursday night, hahhahaha what a bunch of bridget jones' Out of the 16 i 'dated' there were 3 who were 6+, but it was nice to be the most clued in person there, and the only man who was not dripping with nerves.

Results have come back, I got 9 ticks so far, and the three girls I wanted have all forwarded their phone numbers. There may be more ticks as the last few fill in thier account. Shame it didn't count towards the task

Friday - Lads Night In.

Saturday - Lads night Out. Lots of Approaches

6 Set, HB6 and HB6+ The pub was jointed to its pretty easy to get talking to any group who are near you. Just fluffed talked this group for a while, I was in high xmas spirits so I had them all doing their little girly hug thing.

3Set, HB6Scorpy - Chatted to this one for a while, but she was ultra boring and kept moaning on about her back, I flaked after 3 minutes.

3set, HB7 and Her Two Chubby Freinds. Opened in the smoking room, I never have a lighter, and its just easy to flow to a conversation from there.

1set HB7.5 Cute little blonde biotech chick, finally here was a girl who was up for some fun, we fluffed, joked about how I was a porn director, got some decent sexual chat for once. Ended the convo after 15 minutes.

1set HB8 Standard girl at bar, tried the same thing as I did last wednesday, she didn't buy me a drink ;( But I notched up another convo.

Pachino-Pull - This weird **** happens to me from time to time. I was walking through the club just looking at everyone as I went. I caught gaze with this HB7.5. We were both walking towards each other through the crowd, as we passed we both truned heads. Instinctivly my hand caught hers and we walked away holding hands still. Saying nothing i spun her back towards me, looked at her, said ' I want a kiss on my cheek' she complied, I returned the favor then kept walking. I assumed I would see her later that night again - I did not.

End of night. The Hot biotech chick and her buddies grabbed me as I was leaving, she was going to a party, I wasn't interested, so I got her number and told her I would call her when I was around.

I'll post my thoughts later today, and what I feel about week4

 

[sixtyfwee]

Week Four

Its been a while, I had the flu, my grandad died, and then christmas happened :/

Anyhow, batteries are recharged, and ready for the start of week four on Monday. This is where is gets to be lots of fun. I'll post again on Monday with my thoughts on week four, and my strategy.

Happy New Year To You All,

SixtyFwee

 

[catch]

sixty fwee.. ive seen your improvement, your attitude, persona,
and its great, this post is insight full, for us who havent done it yet,

i cant wait until its me writing these posts too..

thanks man ive enjoyed reading... catch

 

[sixtyfwee]

Thanks Catch,

Its really good to get feedback and encouragement. You have a great oppertunity to start this with the new year. The great thing is that the lessons build on each other, this makes it so much easier to improve. Let me know when you start, I will read your progress.

Hae A Gud Yin

SixtyFwee

 

[sixtyfwee]

Week Four Begins

BooooYaaaaa

Finally the annoyance of stopping over christmas is over, I was sarging like a mad thing on New Years night, just to make sure I did not forget anything I have learned.

Anyhow its Monday, and with the start of the week, comes a new challenge in BootCamp. 10 Rejections. My initial reaction is, this may be difficult, but thats ok, I want to raise the game anyway.

I suspect I will need to up the amount of time spent on this week, its quiet at night times as everyone has spent their money over christmas, so I will need to up the number of nights I go out. I will also need to utilise some of my lunches to sarge, I really want the shopping center work down

Anyway tonight I will be going to one of the few places where there should be some people, situational pulls should be easy, but I want atleast one good walkup.

Monday nights are traditionally my night to get used to the new task, but f00k that, I wanna start with a bang

If I have time I will post my results later.

Have Fun All,

Heeeeeeellllllll Ya!

BootCamp!