blowing too soon, real problem

lordson

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its been a lifelong problem when i masturbate to some hardcore porn like that, i last less than a minute and i always have to slow right down to keep it in any longer, and anything after that first few seconds im always on teh border of blowing

and when i have sex with my gf its the same thing, i have to slow right down and not thrust at all, but just grind and push

she has no idea right now, but sooner or later shell figure it out

when shes doing it for me its the same thing, i always feel like i wanna blow really early, and there no porn there either

ive been doing those stupid kegel experices, like 50 for 3 secs each, each day

but it does jack all, just gives me stronger contractions thats all, i can't control it like everyboyd says

and when i masturbate before hand i still have the same problen, during a round 2 i had with her, i only would have lasted about 20% longer, just a good thing she came before me

do any of u guys have any non-meds solutions??

im young, and have slightly smaller than average-sized member, any correlation? (just slightly)

im in pain!!!

cheers fellas
 

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Ya man...

Check out some Hypnosis. Its all in your mind.
Theres a grip of people w. Hypnosis CD's for this sh!t too.
Anchor in some techniques, new beliefs, new thoughts, etc.

Just like you can hypnotize someone into thinking a piece of ice, is going to be a hot coal, and then when you drop it on their hand, it ends up leaving a burn.........

(the mind is all powerful, and just the subtler level of the body, before conciousness itself)

So you can see, its all in the mind!
So I would reccomend Hypnosis.

Check out www.wendi.com

I know she has a CD on this, and she is the leading sex hypnotist as far as I know.
Also, its preferable to listen to a woman's voice in regards to this kind of issue. lol :D

Also in that regard, helps subconciously, in that its like a chick is supporting you, chearing you on, and suggesting that you can go for longer and longer and longer, etc.

Builds self-esteem and confidence in that arena, as well as reshaping your mind, with the appropriate frame/beliefs/suggestions.


SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-
 

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It's all in your head. My first few times I lasted 1 hour+. That slowly declined as the relationship did. Nothing changed but our relations. Towards the end I was so bored that I would actually fake it so I could end it early, most times I just came quickly.

You'd think boredom would make you go longer. Nope. Because deep in my mind, i WANTED it to end.

This issue is very much mental, just fix what's in your head (the one with the food hole) and take it from there.
 

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I was listening to Dr. Drew on LoveLine and he mentioned something about a medicine that lets you last longer, and it disappears from your body in about a half hour.

He mentioned something about seratonin in it, ionno, I couldn't really hear him because David Allen Greer wouldn't shut the hell up.
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
Get desensitizing condoms.
I believe they're called "Performax" condoms by Durex... numbs it for a period of time.
 

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start carrying a dildo
 

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I actually did research for about 2 hours just now concerning this... and this is what I came up with:

- 70% of men suffer from premature ejaculation (30% never get rid of it)
- Creams don't get rid of the problem, they just cover it up
- Exercises that help you develop your muscles let you delay your orgasm and allow you to relax and focus
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
70% of men suffer from premature ejaculation
Men don't suffer from it.

Women do.
 

Crowes

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Men don't suffer from it.

Women do.
Listen to gio boy, he's an expert on this subject.
 

piranha45

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Men don't suffer from it.

Women do.
we wish?
 
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