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There's this stereotype that black men innately are the smoothest and coolest cats walking the planet and we all sound like Barry White. If you believe the stereotype, it's that would that once black men reach puberty, women (especially white girls,) would throw themselves at us and no black would be without a girlfriend and that he definitely wouldn't be without sex.

However, as I can tell you from personal experience, black guys are different than any other dudes and we encounter the same set of problems and insecurities. As a matter of fact, I can argue that African American men have an unique set problems in that where as a nerdy Asian, white, or Indian guy can get with a nerdy Asian, white, or Indian chick, black nerdy dudes doesn't have the option because academically inclined black females aren't attracted to us, (but that's another subject for another day.)

When the Seduction Community went mainstream, the socially inept from other communities boldly and proudly went and gained the knowledge need to be more successful with women. However, if black men admitted that they this, they would be met with scorn and ridicule, as if people would say, "Nigga! You did what? Why did you read a book on how to get chicks? You're already suppose to know ALREADYhow to do that! The irony is that if you ever seen black men's futile and sad attempts at hollerin' at women, one would quickly realize that as a whole, we're probably the group of men that are in need of this training the most.

To Solo, AJ, and Harry went under took this endeavor, were you questioned as to why you were doing it and did you encounter resistance?
 

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Nice Post

Perfect thread

Sadly this thread will get locked, but this thread is something that needs to be aknolwedged. Something our white brethern won't understand.

When I first started gaming a lot of cats thought I was "PUA" I loathed the term with a passion. I use to get into it with PS but the truth is after reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I made it a mission to learn game from the best, whether it's macks, DJ, PUA, whatever. What bemused me is macks/Players look down on PUA's but reading alone didn't help me. I needed to see how this shyt looked like. I was fortunate to be with Naturals back in the day but I had to relearn everything because I was finnally understanding what worked and what didn't. So what you gonna do? Mehow was putting out infield footage and I realized all that over analzying was not needed.

I never cared what others thought. Being a guy up north from the midwest I had to learn to tailor my game to the enviroment. I use to see how easy my white homies had it in the game and I got bitter because I had to bust my a$$. However once Fingz told me

"Race isn't an issue, if you're a cool guy"​

My shyt took the phuck off when you're that guy chicks like

CHA CHING!!
 

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Lolol. This thread is funny.
 

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You're Right

Solomon said:
What bemused me is macks/Players look down on PUA's but reading alone didn't help me.
The irony is macks/players are doing the same EXACT THINGS the PUA's are.

Solomon said:
"Race isn't an issue, if you're a cool guy"

My shyt took the phuck off when you're that guy chicks like

CHA CHING!!
True indeed
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maximus Rex said:
As a matter of fact, I can argue that African American men have an unique set problems in that where as a nerdy Asian, white, or Indian guy can get with a nerdy Asian, white, or Indian chick, black nerdy dudes doesn't have the option because academically inclined black females aren't attracted to us, (but that's another subject for another day.)

I generally agree with your post, but this is pure B.S. If "academically inclined" black females do not go for black men, then who do they go for? Whites dudes generally aren't attracted to black women. Same with Asian, Indian and Hispanic men. Sure, there are exceptions but they are fairly rare. From what I see, an educated, eloquent black man (not to be confused with some cougar-chasing, ebonics spewing wanker like Swallowman) should have no problem attracting educated black women.
 

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Yeah I'm calling bullsh!t on academically inclined black females not being attracted to black males. It may seem that way because there aren't that many black dudes on their level so they end up with other races. My sister fits this category and she's disgusted by most of the black dudes that try to game her. Those types of females aren't attracted to the stereotypical thug/ghetto black dudes.
 

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Solomon said:
Perfect thread

Sadly this thread will get locked, but this thread is something that needs to be aknolwedged. Something our white brethern won't understand.

When I first started gaming a lot of cats thought I was "PUA" I loathed the term with a passion. I use to get into it with PS but the truth is after reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I made it a mission to learn game from the best, whether it's macks, DJ, PUA, whatever. What bemused me is macks/Players look down on PUA's but reading alone didn't help me. I needed to see how this shyt looked like. I was fortunate to be with Naturals back in the day but I had to relearn everything because I was finnally understanding what worked and what didn't. So what you gonna do? Mehow was putting out infield footage and I realized all that over analzying was not needed.

I never cared what others thought. Being a guy up north from the midwest I had to learn to tailor my game to the enviroment. I use to see how easy my white homies had it in the game and I got bitter because I had to bust my a$$. However once Fingz told me

"Race isn't an issue, if you're a cool guy"​

My shyt took the phuck off when you're that guy chicks like

CHA CHING!!
You say race isn't an issue and at the same time you complain about race and your white bethren who have it easy. Which is it.

You keep saying race isn't jack sh!t but almost every thread about race I see you are one of the first persons in using the race card.

Stick to video field logs. This complaining about what your "white bethren" need to "aknolwedged" doesn't suit someone who's done so much like you.
 

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ArcBound said:
You say race isn't an issue and at the same time you complain about race and your white bethren who have it easy. Which is it.

You keep saying race isn't jack sh!t but almost every thread about race I see you are one of the first persons in using the race card.

Stick to video field logs. This complaining about what your "white bethren" need to "aknolwedged" doesn't suit someone who's done so much like you.
What has he done, exactly, other than posing for pictures with all sorts of disgusting cougar bar flies and whining about the "white privilege"? He obviously has an axe to grind with white people but is nevertheless desperate for white pvssy (even if it's some sweaty, overweight cougar). What a sad spectacle.
 

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ArcBound said:
You say race isn't an issue and at the same time you complain about race and your white bethren who have it easy. Which is it.

You keep saying race isn't jack sh!t but almost every thread about race I see you are one of the first persons in using the race card.

Stick to video field logs. This complaining about what your "white bethren" need to "aknolwedged" doesn't suit someone who's done so much like you.

*SIGH*

If you don't like my post, do yourself a favor just skip'em there is an ignore function on the forum that allows you to do just that

On the other hand I posted a quote by Fingz, let me quote myself since reading comprehension you severely lack

Solomon said:
I never cared what others thought. Being a guy up north from the midwest I had to learn to tailor my game to the enviroment. I use to see how easy my white homies had it in the game and I got bitter because I had to bust my a$$. However once Fingz told me

"Race isn't an issue, if you're a cool guy"​

My shyt took the phuck off when you're that guy chicks like

CHA CHING!!
LIKE I SAID, MY WHITE FRIENDS HAD/HAVE IT RIDICULOUS EASIER COMPARED TO I WHEN APPROACHING WHITE CHICKS

Does being the cool guy mean you can get all the girls even the ones that don't like other races? NOPE never said that

But it sure as hell does open a lot of doors

Of course I wouldn't expect you to understand, stick to your barbell curling fitness type posts. Me arguing with you about this is truly pointless, the reality is being a black guy in the midwest where the choices of black women are limited makes gaming harder, but I still have done "Pretty decent"

Bokanovsky said:
What has he done, exactly, other than posing for pictures with all sorts of disgusting cougar bar flies and whining about the "white privilege"? He obviously has an axe to grind with white people but is nevertheless desperate for white pvssy (even if it's some sweaty, overweight cougar). What a sad spectacle.

wah wah wah still butthurt?

:crackup:

Yeah they all are old cougars bro you're right
 

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Ok ok....Hispanics win because after all...its called don Juan lol
 

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Surprise surprise - race thread turns to flames.
 
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