HoldenCaulfield 420
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So I've known this (hot) girl for a long time as we've had a bunch of classes together. I initially placed her in the "friend zone" rather than try to get with her since I knew that she was bisexual and had a somewhat messed up childhood. I never tried to be any kind of Don Juan or really do anything special to attract her. I was not AFC since I wasn't trying to get with her anyway. I just treated her as a friend. We studied together a lot during the year and hung out a few other times. I think the fact that she's really hot and I made no real effort to attract or have sex with her created more of a mystery in her mind.
Now that it's summer we don't see each other all the time in class the way we used to. She's called a few times wondering what I've been up to and wanting to get together. We haven't actually seen each other since school ended. She jokes around a lot about sexual things, how her bedroom is all messed up, how loud she gets during sex, etc. Am I correct in interpreting this that she's looking to me as a **** buddy? Or is she just wanting attention?
This site has a lot of good advice, but I don't know how much of it would apply to a bi girl. Should I just start being more ****y and funny, etc? I feel like I should stop acting like a friend and become more of a DJ if I want to keep her moving in the direction she's been going.
Now that it's summer we don't see each other all the time in class the way we used to. She's called a few times wondering what I've been up to and wanting to get together. We haven't actually seen each other since school ended. She jokes around a lot about sexual things, how her bedroom is all messed up, how loud she gets during sex, etc. Am I correct in interpreting this that she's looking to me as a **** buddy? Or is she just wanting attention?
This site has a lot of good advice, but I don't know how much of it would apply to a bi girl. Should I just start being more ****y and funny, etc? I feel like I should stop acting like a friend and become more of a DJ if I want to keep her moving in the direction she's been going.