Bipolar women/people

[xHiGHPoTeniaL]

So I recently met a chick who revealed kind of reluctantly that she is bipolar, when i couldn't help asking why she takes certain meds. Anyway alarm bells started blasting off in my head and it made me think of one of my ex's best friends who was bipolar.

She had a great boyfriend(maybe a lil AFCish, but had alot goin for him and wouldnt stand for too much bullshyt). This withstanding, she would disappear for days at a time and **** whoever the loser was she had been with prior to this dude. This is the only experience i have with bipolar women, that they sorta self-destruct things and don't at all think about the consequences.

I'm just wondering if they're all lost causes and I'm kinda waiting for this chick to hit a "low" period that she has mentioned. She said that since she met me she hasn't really had any lows, which is complementing yet scary as fuk at the same time. I'm figuring if she has a "low" of which i'm even alittle bit of the cause, shes gunna go out and fuk sumone else or just do some generally stupid shyt. I'm not tryin to wife her up anyway, but i'm also not trying to sleep with someone like that on the reg. if shes basically a timebomb waiting to blow. any advice/experience with bi women(not the good kinda bi!)

 

[catman]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=164551&highlight=bpd U dont want anything to do with her dude

 

[DJDamage]

but i'm also not trying to sleep with someone like that on the reg. if shes basically a timebomb waiting to blow. any advice/experience with bi women(not the good kinda bi!)

As you already know its just a matter of time before she has a relapse, therefore you have to figure out how much bullsh1t you are willing to take and stand for. If you can detach yourself emotionally from her problems, manipulations and lies, then you might be fine but if you get attached to her then she will fu@k your brains out (not the good kind).

I would opt to find a better woman who is sane and is calm as a lamb as opposed to the bipolar scorpion who is bound to sting you.

 

[F!DELITY]

Well, seeing as my last relationship was with a bi-polar girl, I feel I should comment.

A lot like the OP, I met my ex-gf when she was on a high...everything was great, and we enjoyed spending time with each other. She revealed (reluctantly) that she is bi-polar, and alarm bells were ringing. But I had already invested in this girl a little bit, and couldn't just walk away...I thought if we stuck together we could make it work.

Suffice to say, it did not work. And when she hit her low (which can come about for no reason at all!!!), she was a nightmare, absolutely devil spawn possessed woman!! She would cancel on dates with no explanation (even when I had booked things in advance and lost money), just ignore me for up to a week, and I would have to actively chase her up all the time, she would be a real closed book and make no sense, physical contact was minimal, she would flirt with other guys infront of me...and that was the breaking point.

I got furious with her and really snapped, she said its over. About an hour later she text me saying she's changed her mind.

That my friend, is the madness of bi-polar chicks!! Random, no rationality! Not healthy at all. I must add that when I was still with her I was getting a bit ill and depressed and my University work suffered (I had to see a counsellor to get back on track) My counsellor said "you cant save her or help her, you need to focus on yourself and get yourself on track!" - and that has stuck with me since!!!

I would say get the hell out of that "relationship" asap, because otherwise she will drain you, maybe not now...but she will!

 

[xHiGHPoTeniaL]

so for a lol, an update.. i'm "dumping" this chick later today.

since i saw this comin but chilled with her anyway, its not gunna affect me ALL that much. altho we had a shytload of fun this summer, shes def. not stable. (pretty sure we were the first to have sex in the new giants stadium tho which was cool!)

i'm not sure how much her bipolarness played into it but her lying and all her male "friends" were def. the most bothersome traits of hers. i mean she rly was a tomboy but girls like this categorize all males as "friends" even if they hit on her, or have raging crushes on her. i just would have liked to attempt the threesome cuz she did drop hints here and there lol.

in summary, i would say to avoid chicks like these if your not strong willed. the only thing that gave this chick any power in our relationship is that for the three months we've been chillin, i havn't had a car and she picks me up all the time. she also bought me ALOT of stuff, but later i found out her crazy ass stole a cpl of those things! lol, this b!tch is 24 and still stealin from kohl's and shyt. we even went to mohigan sun and she stole sum shirts from there too! i was like yo ur f*ckin crazy doing that in a casino, but she gave me one of the shirts so hey, guess i can't be too mad.

we did have 2 or 3 knock em out, drag em out fights that i've never experienced before. and then she later kinda admited that she liked it. and i was kinda drunk during the one so i dont remember everything exactly but i do remember just felling fed up so i was like, "ok pls get the f*ck outta my driveway i never wanna see u again, i'm done." and then all the sudden she had a "panic attack" which made me feel like shyt, at that time anyway. so all in all i look at this like an experiment of sorts that i will be sure to have learned from.

i'm not captain save a ho.

 

[Chromeo]

These women are toxic. They will love you one week, then avoid you the next, going out with their "guy friends". Ive noticed, a lot of girls like this typically have a lot of guy friends, it is a self esteem booster, and have very few female friends. And if you dont have a high strong willed confidence level, they can fvck you up for years even after they are gone. Because they always will try and come back.

I feel like a lot of women are like this tho, or at least many claim to be as an excuse to ignore you for a week to play the field, only to come back to your safety rope, just because they know you will be there.

If you want anything to do with this kind of woman, you must slowly invest time in her. Really do not let your heart open to her until she is acting like a church going house wife. If you show any weakness before this, she will feel like she has "won" and go awol for a week and do bad things

 

[londonzen]

i know a couple the man is/was a singer is/was very popular and said to have f-ed over 70 women in his life im told he was the life and soul of the party in his teens,always had the girls,had ambition to be a worldwide star.

now hes in his 50s lives on martel vs, rarely goes out,is very ill and has spent more time in hosptial waiting rooms then he can remeber.

the reason (i suspect) is his woman is the most selfish b1tch u can ever come across threatens to kill herself,goes walkabouts in the night,claims he doesnt care,claims he doesnt care somemore,turns a squable in to a verbal brawl,says anything to hurt him,

i asked him how they got together he said she was the nicest girl ever a lil clingy wouldnt even disagree with him, as soon as she realised he loved her (she told him all this stuff from her past) got pregnant he saw the real side of her. get out before its 2 late

she has bipolar
moral dont be that guy in a few years she/they will suck the life out of you.

i can be quite harsh with pushing my limits(teasing) when i first meet gfs just to see how they react , any flipping it onto me,trying guilt trips,or girls who are to quiet or clingy or depresed(poor me attitude)= mental issues i saty clear.