I don't post too often..just come on to pick up tips here and there.
I don't think I have problem with approaching/attracting/conversating (i know, not a word) with girls.
The problem is taking it further. I grew up with a family that wasn't very "Touchy/Feely" with each other. I am 21 now, and let's just say you could count the times on one hand that I have hugged any of my siblings/parents/relatives in my 'older' years. I am not exactly predisposed to Kino. I just don't feel comfortable necessarily touching people or invading other people's personal space.
Like the other day, I was walkin down the street where I work and I ran into an old High School girl I know. Not really a friend or ex-GF. I shake her hand upon running into her. Chat for awhile. I was getting ready to shake her hand and say my goodbye and she goes in for a hug. At that point, I feel really awkward. I hug her back and it just doesn't feel natural... I am hugging someone I barely ever talked to in High School when I barely ever even hug my Mom (after being away for months at a time and even after family tough times/tradgedgies).
Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my awkwardness? I really want to be able to feel comfortable and be natural when it comes hugging not just girls but old friends, etc.
Thanks for any help you guys can provide...
I don't think I have problem with approaching/attracting/conversating (i know, not a word) with girls.
The problem is taking it further. I grew up with a family that wasn't very "Touchy/Feely" with each other. I am 21 now, and let's just say you could count the times on one hand that I have hugged any of my siblings/parents/relatives in my 'older' years. I am not exactly predisposed to Kino. I just don't feel comfortable necessarily touching people or invading other people's personal space.
Like the other day, I was walkin down the street where I work and I ran into an old High School girl I know. Not really a friend or ex-GF. I shake her hand upon running into her. Chat for awhile. I was getting ready to shake her hand and say my goodbye and she goes in for a hug. At that point, I feel really awkward. I hug her back and it just doesn't feel natural... I am hugging someone I barely ever talked to in High School when I barely ever even hug my Mom (after being away for months at a time and even after family tough times/tradgedgies).
Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my awkwardness? I really want to be able to feel comfortable and be natural when it comes hugging not just girls but old friends, etc.
Thanks for any help you guys can provide...