Bi- curious girl apologizes

[Pandora]

The following story is 100% true. My best friend is dating this bi curious girl we will call her Maria. We have know this girl for well over a decade. They have had an on and off relationship. She is attractive. Recently she has been interested in exploring lesbianism and is trying to convince a girl she likes to go on a date. It is not going very well. Apparently the girl is flakey, and weird and unpredictable. This threw Maria for a loop. Her whole life she had been the one being pursued. Now she is seeing how difficult it is when you are the one doing the pursuing. A few months ago she called my friend and apologized. She also called many of the guys in her past and apologized. She never know how hurtful it was to pursue a person who doesnt care about your feelings. She never know how cruel it was to play games with people. Maria told my friend that she didnt know how difficult men had it. I dont think she ever ended up getting the girl she wanted to hook up with.

What we are witnessing is America is a lack of perspective and being spoiled for choice. Attractive American women are worshiped constantly. They are pursued constantly. Why would they ever develop good character traits. One develops empathy from having experienced pain and deprivation. But they have never had any pain or deprivation in the dating market. So how can they ever know how it feels to a male? Why would they treat you with any sympathy. They have no idea what you are going through.

 

[Fruitbat]

Women tend to charactarise "men" as the 5% of men they struggle to date. e.g. the millionaires and sports stars they feel entitled to but can't get them to ask them out, or just end up being used by them for sex.

So they think men have it just fine, because my old boss wouldn't leave his wife for me, or this mega rich dude wouldn't be my BF just booty call.

I've had one particular fruitcake HB10 lead me on a crazy run and that was not pleasant. I could have killed myself when I realised she was enjoying the game of leading me on. She then told most of my friends I was some creep who couldn't take rejection, was obsessive etc. Despite the fact she was always intiating contact and leading it forward only to crush me.

Women seem to really dig it, they like men persuing them and don't realise what pain not being straight causes. They think the world is as abundant for us as it is for them.

 

[AttackFormation]

Doesn't surprise me at all. The last thing most women think about is a man's perspective, even the idea of doing so wouldn't occur to them. If you suggested it then like I said, most of them will either raise an eyebrow at you like you're insulting them or talking about something stupid or they'll laugh at it, depending on which side of the "princess diva" and "attention *****" they're closest to.

Try it yourself, ask a girl when the last time was that she considered a man's perspective. You'll just get a stunned blank look.

Women tend to charactarise "men" as the 5% of men they struggle to date. e.g. the millionaires and sports stars they feel entitled to but can't get them to ask them out, or just end up being used by them for sex.

So they think men have it just fine, because my old boss wouldn't leave his wife for me, or this mega rich dude wouldn't be my BF just booty call.

I've had one particular fruitcake HB10 lead me on a crazy run and that was not pleasant. I could have killed myself when I realised she was enjoying the game of leading me on. She then told most of my friends I was some creep who couldn't take rejection, was obsessive etc. Despite the fact she was always intiating contact and leading it forward only to crush me.

Women seem to really dig it, they like men persuing them and don't realise what pain not being straight causes. They think the world is as abundant for us as it is for them.

I don't think they care very much even in the rare occasions when they do realize they've caused pain because the sheer quantity of effortless validation they get, no matter their behavior, desensitizes them from viewing men as individuals with a face. The social dynamic you're in changes your behavior. See a dead body once, it might shock you. See 1000s of them as part of your job, it'll become a detached routine.

 

[Fruitbat]

I know this is hyperbole for effect but it really is true that they are not talking about unattractive or even average men when they say "men." The statement "men don't want to settle down" when 90% of my friends are dying for a gf says it all(I am one of the 10% at this point).

Yeah, this also works in reverse.

When people on here say "all wamen are crazy/heartless" etc, there are leigons of ugly and fat b1tches who aren't like that.

The main issue with male/female relationships in the modern age is contraception.

Women no longer have to worry about the guy leaving them knocked up, and if they do, uncle state will support them (from the taxes of many good men)

I know LOADS of women who had flings and short relationships with very high value guys. Even sports/tv stars.

See, a woman don't sleep with any guy. They sleep with guys who they percieve are high enough value. Men don't. We sleep with what gets the d1ck hard.

So, women apply their own logic to men. "Well, this high value alpha slept with me. Therefore, that's my league"

Sorry girls. Guys will sleep many rungs below their standard. They will even pay to sleep many rungs below. It's a numbers and ego thing.

So he girl goes through life thinking the high value man she banged a few times is her level. The average dude is below this. So they end up mad at 35 because the high value guys are gone, and they can't stomach the truth. They are average. They always were. They need an average guy. So they bemoan "men" and are angry at those very high level men who used and abused them.

This is basically the "alpha widow" and "wall" phenomenon, real things. Happening all around me.

As I have said many time, get girls from countries where sleeping around is still seen as a bad thing. Countries where there is no child support. This system keeps them looking at decent men and not this c0ck carosel which makes men and women equally unhappy.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The following story is 100% true. My best friend is dating this bi curious girl we will call her Maria. We have know this girl for well over a decade. They have had an on and off relationship. She is attractive. Recently she has been interested in exploring lesbianism and is trying to convince a girl she likes to go on a date. It is not going very well. Apparently the girl is flakey, and weird and unpredictable. This threw Maria for a loop. Her whole life she had been the one being pursued. Now she is seeing how difficult it is when you are the one doing the pursuing. A few months ago she called my friend and apologized. She also called many of the guys in her past and apologized. She never know how hurtful it was to pursue a person who doesnt care about your feelings. She never know how cruel it was to play games with people. Maria told my friend that she didnt know how difficult men had it. I dont think she ever ended up getting the girl she wanted to hook up with.

What we are witnessing is America is a lack of perspective and being spoiled for choice. Attractive American women are worshiped constantly. They are pursued constantly. Why would they ever develop good character traits. One develops empathy from having experienced pain and deprivation. But they have never had any pain or deprivation in the dating market. So how can they ever know how it feels to a male? Why would they treat you with any sympathy. They have no idea what you are going through.

Every chick is practice. Monogamy is a deal pandering to the female biological strategy as the wall hits. Its to keep society orderly.

I couldn't give a ****. I will watch it burn. I am checked out.

Stop caring. Its entropy. Let it collapse. Women will need man again bebit war or plague. I won't be there.

Netflix and chill.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Lesbianism is like Miller Lite:

 

[devilkingx2]

As I have said many time, get girls from countries where sleeping around is still seen as a bad thing. Countries where there is no child support. This system keeps them looking at decent men and not this c0ck carosel which makes men and women equally unhappy.

all this means is that there's a different kind of chad bro.

basically, the most desirable men go from being male models and body builders (looks and status) to doctors and lawyers (money and status)

this only changes who gets screwed by the system, by minimizing the importance of short term things like physical appearance and maximizing long term things like wealth/inheritance/ambition/potential

so the only real benefit to that would be if you like to buy your women with alpha bux rather than attract them with alpha fux