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Don Juan
Allow me to tell you a story...
The young AFC sits on the computer all day, having few friends and no girls. People in general, and especially girls, treat him like crap because he supplicates and has no self-respect. He only wishes that he could fall in love with a girl, because that, of course, would solve everything.
Then one day he stumbles across sosuave.com. He reads the bible and vows to change his life. Slowly he begins to master the skills contained in the bible. He can neg-hit and use kino adeptly. He's never awkward around girls any more. His confidence shoots through the roof.
But in the back of his mind, he still remembers his AFC days. He remembers how girls treated him like crap and wouldn't give him the time of day. He still resents girls for that. Also, he has taken the DJ principle of "eliminating desire' to a perverted extreme, and views dating as calculation, social chess, as a game where the goal is to play the other person before they play you.
The new Don Juan thus falls victim to the first pitfall along the DJ path: He becomes a jerk. He plays girls without mercy and is even a little proud of himself for doing it.
He now has plenty of girls who are attracted to him. The problem is, eventually the game gets hollow and meaningless for him and he gets sick of playing it. He decides that he will just pick one girl fromt the many who are attracted to him and settle down in a relationship.
The problem is, he can't! Girls who are smart enough to be relationship prospects are hesitant to enter into an exclusive relationship with him because of his player reputation. The young DJ-in-training then realizes that he is not a DJ at all: he is a jerk.
And he realizes that he is not happy with being a jerk, and like when he was a nice guy, he wants to change. He wants to get back to the path to being a Don Juan.
Despite the fact that this is the known "natural" progression of the AFC after he cannot take any more of girl's sh!t, I suspect that many beginning Don Juans have fallen to this pitfall instead of becoming true Don Juans.
And as you have probably guessed by now, this is what happened to me. I've become the stereotypical jerk. I just wanted to make this post to warn you of this danger, which can creep up on you without you even knowing about it until it has led you astray. Let go of your anger and use your skill for good.
I'm trying to myself.
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The young AFC sits on the computer all day, having few friends and no girls. People in general, and especially girls, treat him like crap because he supplicates and has no self-respect. He only wishes that he could fall in love with a girl, because that, of course, would solve everything.
Then one day he stumbles across sosuave.com. He reads the bible and vows to change his life. Slowly he begins to master the skills contained in the bible. He can neg-hit and use kino adeptly. He's never awkward around girls any more. His confidence shoots through the roof.
But in the back of his mind, he still remembers his AFC days. He remembers how girls treated him like crap and wouldn't give him the time of day. He still resents girls for that. Also, he has taken the DJ principle of "eliminating desire' to a perverted extreme, and views dating as calculation, social chess, as a game where the goal is to play the other person before they play you.
The new Don Juan thus falls victim to the first pitfall along the DJ path: He becomes a jerk. He plays girls without mercy and is even a little proud of himself for doing it.
He now has plenty of girls who are attracted to him. The problem is, eventually the game gets hollow and meaningless for him and he gets sick of playing it. He decides that he will just pick one girl fromt the many who are attracted to him and settle down in a relationship.
The problem is, he can't! Girls who are smart enough to be relationship prospects are hesitant to enter into an exclusive relationship with him because of his player reputation. The young DJ-in-training then realizes that he is not a DJ at all: he is a jerk.
And he realizes that he is not happy with being a jerk, and like when he was a nice guy, he wants to change. He wants to get back to the path to being a Don Juan.
Despite the fact that this is the known "natural" progression of the AFC after he cannot take any more of girl's sh!t, I suspect that many beginning Don Juans have fallen to this pitfall instead of becoming true Don Juans.
And as you have probably guessed by now, this is what happened to me. I've become the stereotypical jerk. I just wanted to make this post to warn you of this danger, which can creep up on you without you even knowing about it until it has led you astray. Let go of your anger and use your skill for good.
I'm trying to myself.
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