"Betches Love This" blog

Jeffst1980

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Anyone hear of this? This is actually an interesting read, because it corroborates the importance of game from a female perspective. The blog is meant to be a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the author(s) are quite self-aware, and I wouldn't be surprised if this functioned as a female "game" blog for the 18-23 year old demographic.

Here's an example: http://betcheslovethis.com/node/55

Of course, my second thought is that humanity is doomed...
 

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Well I guess it helps to get the point across when you hear it straight from the horse's mouth. Otherwise I would never believe it. They are just not on my wavelength.
 

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I really can't take anything I read online from women seriously... anything like this or about feminism because I just picture fat or ugly girls, and really, I am completely unconcerned with what fat girls think or want.

And I don't say this as some sour grapes or anything like that and comes off as a typical response that these girls normally get from guys to shame them in some 14 year old fashion. If I knew for sure it was hot chicks talking, I'd be more interested. Not because they are hot and I need attention from hot girls or anything, but because what they think is more relevant to me. It's kind of how I am not going to read articles about lifting weights written by a 150 lb guy. Maybe sometimes I miss some good stuff, but not with enough frequency to matter. I save more time and effort than benefits I lose.

I really just picture a bunch of 2s to 6s writing this sh1t, while pretty girls are out happy with their lives not b1tching about feminism and writing blogs and basically hating on men. If they are ugly or plain chicks, then they are probably writing a blog b1tching about low quality dudes, and have little perspective on great guys (like ourselves) other than being pumped and dumped. So what value does anything they have to say have to me, unless I'm just starting in the very basement level of game and learning about women?

If I turn on a talk show on tv, it's nearly always a bunch of beasts whining and my natural reaction is just not give a sh1t and not take anything they say seriously at all. Were they attractive, I'd be more interested. I think hot girls and ugly girls have a vastly different life experience, and the life experience of an ugly chick has little value to me.

I think people need to pay more attention to 7-10s on the female scale (mostly looks based) and 7-10s on the male scale (mostly other) and stop trying to generalize everything to EVERYONE. Women don't want guys low on the male scale, and guys don't want women low on the female scale, so the main focus should be on those segments of the population and not the entirety of the population. Low scale women, do you need to have big discussions about understanding men? No, just stop being ugly. You're focusing on the minutia instead of what matters. The details about men are more important to hotter chicks because they can actually use the information to get hot dudes.

I so often see arguments on msg boards and blog comments where if they'd just narrow the focus instead of making everything so goddamn general to include everyone, the argument/discussion would be way more productive.
 

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They sound like a bunch of snarky geek girls. I know plenty of them IRL and they are not even cute enough for me to give a damn about what they say.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeha it does seem a little bit tongue-in-cheek, but I think the authors are probably ****y b!tches in real life that no self-respecting Man would spend time on. For example, how fast would you drop a girl who displayed ANY of the following behaviors??

I would do a prompt about-face and never acknowledge her presence again.

So how do you win? We've devised a handy points system for those clingy girls out there who don't naturally possess our superior analytical skills and innate “**** off” vibe.


+2: #8 Don't **** him.
+5: Take his drugs and then #8 don't **** him.
+2: Let him buy you a drink, say you have to go to the bathroom, and never return.
+3: Let him go down on you then “pass out.”
+1: Casual flirting with another guy while he's looking. (-1 for being too obvious. Plastering your face to this other guy's makes you a skank, not a winner.)
+1: Wait two hours to read his BBM, +1 again if you don't respond.
+6: Make a bro your *****. You've scored these points if he holds your purse while you're in the bathroom.
+1: Invite him over, be elsewhere.
+3: Cut to the morning after. “Why are you still here?”
+2: The next girl he hooks up with is uglier than you. +3 if she's fatter.
+3: He leaves a voicemail. Game over.
+2: Laugh when he tries to call you out or confront you for doing any of the above. +3 if it's in public.
They do at least acknowledge that they are helplessly drawn to *******ry. And *******ry is great---for picking up. Not so much in relationships. It has to be measured, and it goes without saying that if any of use are going to be in a relationship we would actually care about the girl, and treat her like other people we care about.
 

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The ****y behaviours are one thing, but the language they use gives off a very strong "dude" vibe (I wouldn't use the word masculine). It's like any shred of femininity they once had has vanished. If you told me this website was written by a bunch of guys for self-amusement, I'd believe you. Give them tits & vags and it wouldn't make me take them any more seriously nor be attracted to them.
 

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Jitterbug said:
The ****y behaviours are one thing, but the language they use gives off a very strong "dude" vibe (I wouldn't use the word masculine). It's like any shred of femininity they once had has vanished. If you told me this website was written by a bunch of guys for self-amusement, I'd believe you.
The impression I got reading it was that it was written tongue in cheek by some bitter guy, or group of guys. But it was kind of funny.
 
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