Beta Cuck Reflects Upon Pandemic Being Last Straw of Marriage

[SW15]

Sometimes the most unexpected publications have non-blue pill stories. This story is quite red pill. It was published in April in the early days of the pandemic.

https://www.texasmonthly.com/being-texan/coronavirus-divorce/

Highlights

• Seemingly childless couple (children not mentioned in article) in their 30s lives in Austin, TX, an SJW/feminist city
• Guy is 38, and played college basketball. Based on other clues in the article (his hobbies), he's likely white. Probably 6'0"+ since he was a college basketball player. He was likely a one time alpha before becoming immersed in the Austin culture. It's probably how they initially got together 7 years earlier.
• Woman seems to fit the feminist/careerist mold, as a finance professional who is into running marathons.
• In Summer 2019, wife takes international trip with female friends. Gets back to Austin, stops wearing ring, becomes emotionally and physically more distant. She likely had sex with random men while traveling internationally, making the guy a cuck.
• Wife was avoiding sex with husband in months prior to quarantine
• In quarantine, husband catches wife video chatting with some man and not being cold. Man was likely some lover.

Lessons

• Always keep striving and don't get complacent. If a 6'0"+ ex-college athlete can turn into a beta cuck, it can happen to anyone
• Don't stay in relationships too long, only stay as long as the relationship is good
• Avoid SJW/feminist cities. If not that, then avoid the most feminist/SJW social circles within those cities
• If your long term girlfriend or wife travels without you and the marriage hasn't been good lately, she will have sex with other men on that trip.

 

[GioWolf]

I can relate to this story. I am surprised they are childless though, usually she’ll wait until she pops out 2 kids then dead bedrooms the guy.

 

[RangerMIke]

I really do not like 'alpha', 'beta', cvck getting tossed around.

However, what ever REASON a chick is with you... it doesn't matter what that is.... if you are a good looking fit guy, and she is physically attracted to you... or you could be a decent guy, with a good career. If what ever NEED you provide her vanishes... well... her attraction will drop like a rock. If you were an athlete in the past, like this guy was, and then you are no longer an athlete... she subconsciously begins to question her decision to be with you... which will impact her emotions.

So if you were a provider, and that is what she wanted... then for whatever reason (Covid, economy, et. al etc) you are not meeting her expectations, and other dudes come along who can and who is willing to fill that need... you will be on your way out.

You can say the same thing about being a fit, buff stud. When you get lazy, or because you are just getting older... well... you are no longer what she wants.

The problem with men is that they do not screen chicks out properly before they get into relationships. They ignore WHY she is attracted to them. If you are not willing or able to keep up, well... then you just have to let her go.

 

[BMX]

Wowwww. N!gg@z stay blaming 2020 for their failures and lack of planning. Your problems started long before. And now it's almost 2021~

 

[Lookatu]

• If your long term girlfriend or wife travels without you and the marriage hasn't been good lately, she will have sex with other men on that trip.

Definitely this!

I've been on the other end of it so I can definitely speak to it from first hand experience. I live in a big city and have had countless women on vacations and business trips hit me up when visiting. Even when their significant other was going out of town on business trips or trips with their buddies, they would contact me as well.

Even when guys think their marriage is good, this can happen as well. So watch out!

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Sometimes the most unexpected publications have non-blue pill stories. This story is quite red pill. It was published in April in the early days of the pandemic.

https://www.texasmonthly.com/being-texan/coronavirus-divorce/

Highlights

• Seemingly childless couple (children not mentioned in article) in their 30s lives in Austin, TX, an SJW/feminist city
• Guy is 38, and played college basketball. Based on other clues in the article (his hobbies), he's likely white. Probably 6'0"+ since he was a college basketball player. He was likely a one time alpha before becoming immersed in the Austin culture. It's probably how they initially got together 7 years earlier.
• Woman seems to fit the feminist/careerist mold, as a finance professional who is into running marathons.
• In Summer 2019, wife takes international trip with female friends. Gets back to Austin, stops wearing ring, becomes emotionally and physically more distant. She likely had sex with random men while traveling internationally, making the guy a cuck.
• Wife was avoiding sex with husband in months prior to quarantine
• In quarantine, husband catches wife video chatting with some man and not being cold. Man was likely some lover.

Lessons

• Always keep striving and don't get complacent. If a 6'0"+ ex-college athlete can turn into a beta cuck, it can happen to anyone
• Don't stay in relationships too long, only stay as long as the relationship is good
• Avoid SJW/feminist cities. If not that, then avoid the most feminist/SJW social circles within those cities
• If your long term girlfriend or wife travels without you and the marriage hasn't been good lately, she will have sex with other men on that trip.

The problem is that it is a dumpster fire and fellas are trying to play house with *****s. While it is to be expected that she's dated and had boyfriends before you or I, it's common practice for men to have concessions for a lifetime of whoring and gang bangs. I would say, 1/3 of women in my youth had been to a gang bang or orgy. Today, more than 2/3 has been middle of the gang bang or orgy. Cucks are marrying.

Men are not respected for following the beaten path nor should they be. Tbh I don't much like nor care for most women outside my busting a nut. Before screams of misogyny, what caliber of women are worthy of dating today? What miniscule among this is marriage material and mother worthy?

Men are not doing it right and need to remove it from the table. No concessions. No. I am not playing house with a *****. I will smash but trolling Hoes talking cereal relations. For optics, listen to Kevin Samuels segment from the position of what women want. They are on the carousel today and seeking a bail out post wall after. Peterson points out that among women quiting workplace after a kid. Wifey pooh still needs a mcmansion and the range rover.

Aaron Clarey broke down the numbers and it's just not available for the average man. The high value man is a mark for psychopaths and sociopath female predators.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Definitely this!

I've been on the other end of it so I can definitely speak to it from first hand experience. I live in a big city and have had countless women on vacations and business trips hit me up when visiting. Even when their significant other was going out of town on business trips or trips with their buddies, they would contact me as well.

Even when guys think their marriage is good, this can happen as well. So watch out!

Married guys are asking for it by marrying a hoe in the first place and letting her run wild. I don't make it a mission to pursue it but I don't ask nor care. Not my problem.

 

[BadBoy89]

Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Johnny Depp, George Clooney, all been divorced. If they can’t make it work, average males don’t stand a chance.

Don’t understand why men get married in Western culture. Femnism is alive and well. The system is behind the women in all cases. Men have been brainwashed to marry for love. Women marry for resources, resources, resources. NOT LOVE.

1) If a woman LOVES a man, why does she need to get married? She LOVES him marriage or not marriage, right?

2) If a woman LOVES a man, she will sign a iron clad prenup getting the same thing she got from the man who took her virginity?

3) If a woman LOVES a man, she doesn’t care about his job, income, past history, previous relationships, or finances,

4) If a woman LOVES a man, she will tell him “my goal is to life is be known as your husband and give you children.”

Women are out for themselves. Wake up men.

 

[RickTheToad]

Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Johnny Depp, George Clooney, all been divorced. If they can’t make it work, average males don’t stand a chance.

Don’t understand why men get married in Western culture. Femnism is alive and well. The system is behind the women in all cases. Men have been brainwashed to marry for love. Women marry for resources, resources, resources. NOT LOVE.

1) If a woman LOVES a man, why does she need to get married? She LOVES him marriage or not marriage, right?

2) If a woman LOVES a man, she will sign a iron clad prenup getting the same thing she got from the man who took her virginity?

3) If a woman LOVES a man, she doesn’t care about his job, income, past history, previous relationships, or finances,

4) If a woman LOVES a man, she will tell him “my goal is to life is be known as your husband and give you children.”

Women are out for themselves. Wake up men.

The problem with the prenup is that she'll have to be given something to go away. So, let's say you're worth 1 million dollars. The prenup would state that you'd have to give her 20% of that. If not, the prenup can be invalidated as unfair. In the end, it's not worth it and it's best to allow her to walk away.

 

[bcude]

Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Johnny Depp, George Clooney, all been divorced. If they can’t make it work, average males don’t stand a chance.

Don’t understand why men get married in Western culture. Femnism is alive and well. The system is behind the women in all cases. Men have been brainwashed to marry for love. Women marry for resources, resources, resources. NOT LOVE.

1) If a woman LOVES a man, why does she need to get married? She LOVES him marriage or not marriage, right?

2) If a woman LOVES a man, she will sign a iron clad prenup getting the same thing she got from the man who took her virginity?

3) If a woman LOVES a man, she doesn’t care about his job, income, past history, previous relationships, or finances,

4) If a woman LOVES a man, she will tell him “my goal is to life is be known as your husband and give you children.”

Women are out for themselves. Wake up men.

I'm not necessarily pro-marriage but what makes you think that all these guys are better than the average guy in relationships?
Same rules apply for a kid in the street and a guy from hollywood since human biology is the same everywhere and attraction works the same for everyone. Celebrity status only gets you more leeway for fvck ups and the women they married are higher up in hierarchy than the women the average guy marries, so its pretty much the same just relative. These celebrities could all be relationship newbies which is why i don't like this argument. If you're tom cruise and act like a weak beta in your relationship with the girl next door, she'll disrespect you openly and leave you too. See my point?

 

[BadBoy89]

I'm not necessarily pro-marriage but what makes you think that all these guys are better than the average guy in relationships?

They may better, you may be right. I’m just saying women don’t marry for love, they marry for utility. If men think this way, they will be much better off.

Im not so much against marriage. My issue is when the women “wants out”. Her EXIT STRATEGY is my issue. If her exit strategy is the same as what is was with the guy she lost her virginity with, I’m almost pro marriage. That and the man should always have a young mistress on the side.

Same rules apply for a kid in the street and a guy from hollywood since human biology is the same everywhere and attraction works the same for everyone.

Celebrity status only gets you more leeway for fvck ups and the women they married are higher up in hierarchy than the women the average guy marries, so its pretty much the same just relative. These celebrities could all be relationship newbies which is why i don't like this argument. If you're tom cruise and act like a weak beta in your relationship with the girl next door, she'll disrespect you openly and leave you too. See my point?

That’s a point. Like marries like.

 

[SW15]

I can relate to this story. I am surprised they are childless though, usually she’ll wait until she pops out 2 kids then dead bedrooms the guy.

They were together 7 years. In many instances, couples have children by the time they've been together 7 years. I think length of relationship is a bigger factor in death of bedroom action vs presence of children.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

• Always keep striving and don't get complacent. If a 6'0"+ ex-college athlete can turn into a beta cuck, it can happen to anyone
• Don't stay in relationships too long, only stay as long as the relationship is good
• Avoid SJW/feminist cities. If not that, then avoid the most feminist/SJW social circles within those cities
• If your long term girlfriend or wife travels without you and the marriage hasn't been good lately, she will have sex with other men on that trip.

FACTO
be proactive and don't even get a GF
if you do get a gf let HER ask for the relationship.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You know, it's funny, I just had a conversation on Wednesday with my buddy about something similar and I had to hit him with this line

"If you are a grown man, attributing your problems to anyone other than you, I have a real tough time taking anything you say seriously past that point... Like... In all faucets, how can a problem in your life be caused by another?"

He didnt like that, but you can't be out here blaming other people, like that is ridiculous.

 

[Poonani Maker]

The woman who "loves me" currently tells me she was born in the wrong time period, she's 16 years younger. I let her know mine wasn't all that great either, the beginning of the sleazy RELIGION of Political Correctness (which entails feminism). Sure, my generation was more "innocent," but on the cusp of degeneracy. My older brothers escaped "new world" thinking/behavior and still harbor that olde world "goodness." They were soaked in it so-to-speak, marinated a little longer than I could be set in stone in until about 5 to 7 years old. The days of our innocence are lost. These new gens NEVER had it, never experienced Normalcy or countless millennia of Human just-how-it-izness.

She makes my being older her "excuse" for wanting to be with me. Truth be told, she squandered her radiant youth on drugs, sex, and rock n' roll havin a good time oh yeah. At 27, she looks nothing like her 18 yr old cutie self. She can never go back or erase the past which has forever Stamped her all over.

She probably hints at wishing to be born during my time as being the "main" cause of her wanting to be with me, but I know better. It's the economy stupid. She sees I'm better off than many of her peers and even associates MY age. She wants that, to be sure.

Then it doesn't hurt that I'm better than average good-looking and fit as a fighter (manly) even in old age - I consider mid-40s old...it's cause of how I FEEL all about - the shorter of breathness, the recognition of mortality and having lost a parent (losing grandparents didn't hurt as much).

She may want to be with me cause I am unique, but to be honest, sometimes I think I'm boring and can't strike an emotional flame in her (maybe another woman, but not HER or this one). I've felt more sexual energy from a 50+ year old teacher over the years and just this week. It's her VOICE that arouses me. The 27 year old's voice just isn't triggering my carnal instincts. I feel sorry for her a lot cause of her lack of confidence due to her ruinization of herself to this point. She has a fine fit body but that's gonna wane here soon, but sure as sh!t there's at least 500 guys willin to tap her in her facebook friend requests (she showed me).

I think she feels so insecure because she sees/hears people laugh at her or ridicule her - yeah it's that bad what she's done to herself. She's quite "mixed up" in the brain (I believe drugs caused all that plus having a bad relationship with her father plus having grown up in her generation in her school - one of the ones known for drugs though not high crime really - nowhere is high crime here really).

I feel her today trying to force us to happen, but I still transmit the Deadness I feel inside for her. The dead-wired connection. It's a I don't care if I never see you again feeling she must FEEL emanating from me. I really don't, cause, really, I'm not looking for a tatted-up SELFISH butterface (though she's not half-bad but beyond her young years to be sure due to drugs or mental? problems?), that doesn't want kids, that could be in debt, that may be Scarred for life? beyond repair?

She claims to love me (outta the blue just starting post-COVID), but why the constant coming-on to me for months on end? I may have wrecked her more than she already is wrecked, by playing her over and over and over again, never committing to "us." Is that MY fault? She never grew. She said it herself, she's (very) "selfish."

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You know, it's funny, I just had a conversation on Wednesday with my buddy about something similar and I had to hit him with this line

"If you are a grown man, attributing your problems to anyone other than you, I have a real tough time taking anything you say seriously past that point... Like... In all faucets, how can a problem in your life be caused by another?"

He didnt like that, but you can't be out here blaming other people, like that is ridiculous.

People outside of you can damage your life.

 

[christie]

The woman who "loves me" currently tells me she was born in the wrong time period, she's 16 years younger. I let her know mine wasn't all that great either, the beginning of the sleazy RELIGION of Political Correctness (which entails feminism). Sure, my generation was more "innocent," but on the cusp of degeneracy. My older brothers escaped "new world" thinking/behavior and still harbor that olde world "goodness." They were soaked in it so-to-speak, marinated a little longer than I could be set in stone in until about 5 to 7 years old. The days of our innocence are lost. These new gens NEVER had it, never experienced Normalcy or countless millennia of Human just-how-it-izness.

She makes my being older her "excuse" for wanting to be with me. Truth be told, she squandered her radiant youth on drugs, sex, and rock n' roll havin a good time oh yeah. At 27, she looks nothing like her 18 yr old cutie self. She can never go back or erase the past which has forever Stamped her all over.

She probably hints at wishing to be born during my time as being the "main" cause of her wanting to be with me, but I know better. It's the economy stupid. She sees I'm better off than many of her peers and even associates MY age. She wants that, to be sure.

Then it doesn't hurt that I'm better than average good-looking and fit as a fighter (manly) even in old age - I consider mid-40s old...it's cause of how I FEEL all about - the shorter of breathness, the recognition of mortality and having lost a parent (losing grandparents didn't hurt as much).

She may want to be with me cause I am unique, but to be honest, sometimes I think I'm boring and can't strike an emotional flame in her (maybe another woman, but not HER or this one). I've felt more sexual energy from a 50+ year old teacher over the years and just this week. It's her VOICE that arouses me. The 27 year old's voice just isn't triggering my carnal instincts. I feel sorry for her a lot cause of her lack of confidence due to her ruinization of herself to this point. She has a fine fit body but that's gonna wane here soon, but sure as sh!t there's at least 500 guys willin to tap her in her facebook friend requests (she showed me).

I think she feels so insecure because she sees/hears people laugh at her or ridicule her - yeah it's that bad what she's done to herself. She's quite "mixed up" in the brain (I believe drugs caused all that plus having a bad relationship with her father plus having grown up in her generation in her school - one of the ones known for drugs though not high crime really - nowhere is high crime here really).

I feel her today trying to force us to happen, but I still transmit the Deadness I feel inside for her. The dead-wired connection. It's a I don't care if I never see you again feeling she must FEEL emanating from me. I really don't, cause, really, I'm not looking for a tatted-up SELFISH butterface (though she's not half-bad but beyond her young years to be sure due to drugs or mental? problems?), that doesn't want kids, that could be in debt, that may be Scarred for life? beyond repair?

She claims to love me (outta the blue just starting post-COVID), but why the constant coming-on to me for months on end? I may have wrecked her more than she already is wrecked, by playing her over and over and over again, never committing to "us." Is that MY fault? She never grew. She said it herself, she's (very) "selfish."

always interesting reading your thought process.

maybe tell her soon you will never commit or marry. kind of have to if the(your) desire isn't there.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Reminds me of what happened to me. My ex went on a skiing trip for 2 days with a girlfriend of hers. When she came back, she was unusually moody/bitchy and kept asking me to buy her more stuff (I was a really cheap fvck to be honest and I regret not spoiling her a little bit more but still). I don't know till this day if she did anything on the trip but just some food for thought...

 

[Who Dares Win]

Whoever invests in a woman that doesnt show total happiness and enthusiasm in his presence is asking for troubles in the long term.

Those who accepts reality accept the fact that stable relationships when she is older than 25 are very rare.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Whoever invests in a woman that doesnt show total happiness and enthusiasm in his presence is asking for troubles in the long term.

Those who accepts reality accept the fact that stable relationships when she is older than 25 are very rare.

I would add that to get a woman into that position, it may take some time. I think some guys expect themselves to have the frame right from the beginning.