st_99 said:
I've been so surprised at the garbage i've hooked up with that looked perfect on paper. Upper level professions that require advanced education, quiet, nothing seemed out of wack. But it turned out on a 1 to 10 scale they were maybe a 2 in terms of relationship worthy.
You just never now man. Dont even bother looking for the right place or type or whatever.
Can you elaborate on what they were like?
Cos I've been looking at upper level professional women with advanced education too but they all seem to have some BS issues attached to them.
I dont know if it's to do with it being the US where men and women are equal in regards to pay but in europe it's unequal, women still earn a lot less than men (they use this as an excuse to get men to pay) but there does seem to be a ceiling for them in how far up the company they can rise without being an iron maiden ice queen.
I generally go for successful educated women who can provide for themselves in their own right or at least prove to me that they have till a point before i take on the role as provider and she looks after the kids etc.
However the issue seems to be that if they're in banking or lawyers or whatever.. generally speaking I find the women in investment banking in the front office high calibre roles with biggest bonuses generally are very attractive (the roles need you to be super self confident) and also able to cope being around guys all the time given it's a male dominated profession (usually they have 2 brothers), and in order to get into these roles they need to be well educated.
Now here's the issue, despite all this most of them still have some sort of baggage or issues carried on from their youth. They're independent fair enough, earn lots BUT they still spend everything they get, save nothing..and have the audactiy to say 'well i can afford to pay for dinner on a date i dont need a guy to pay for me but i believe the man should still be a gentleman and pay for me' the kicker is that these women blow all their cash on clothes and shoes, partying, holidays running themselves into debt yet have the audacity to say the above.
They also sleep around a lot, it's like in order to mix it with the boys you need to behave like the boys, so if you have issues with her sexual past these aren't the women for you even if on paper they seem ideal.
Most can't cook, but they look good.
They're also attention wh0res like most attractive women, don't seem to understand the concept between what's appropriate and what's not. Believing that it's acceptable to have lots of male friends as if it's no thing.
I think it's just spoilt self indulgent behavior.
What were you finding that were making them only a 2 on a relationship scale?