You can only do this in the most optimum manner once you have established GOOD Rapport.
Otherwise, be C+F and respectfully evade the questions. You must calibrate if her attempts at rapport are sincere, or genuine, and when exactly is she inserting them..at what stage of the interaction?
You don't always have to be 100 percent serious in your replies to her, in the first interactions, because you need to understand and show her you are not needy or desperate, and are not 'trying to impress' her or 'pursue' her, or trying to 'get her to like you."
You must be patient and disiplined though.
And recognize the exact moment she starts the rapport and comfort stages.
This is crucial.
See if you can wait for her to intitate the change in the interaction.
As a general rule, avoid trying to impress, and trying to Qualify yourself to her.
You can share similarities, commonalities, similar intererest, hobbies, etc.
But be well calibrated.
In addition, anytime you satisfy HER request for more informtation ALWAYS throw out one of your own.
Her: "What do you like to do for fun?"
You: (In Attraction) "I like to go waterboarding." (grin)
Her: "Cool. Sounds like fun!"
You: "silly girl! You don't know what waterboarding IS , do you??!" (laughs)
Her: "so, what do you like to do for fun?"
You: (in Rapport and comfort) "I like to do kickboxing, and go out with my friends. We like to go out to the beach and have a BBQ. Listen to music. I also like to go out to concerts, and yada yada (keep strong eye contact, be intimate, and stay close in proximity to her, stay warm to her)
So what do you like to do for fun?" (in rapport and comfort , you must do this)
Her: "Um..well. I like to yada yada and I also do kickboxing as well.."
You: (IOI and SOI right now) "Thats cool. I like that about you. You're independent and strong, and into fitness. That's sexy."
If it is not reciprocal she will realize it, and she will realize that you are desperate.
