Being ****y, Good thing?
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confident, not ****y. ****y is annoying, irritating and unattractive. Excessive bragging, only talking about oneself accomplisments..is being ****Y.
The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.
Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
The way you walk..hold yourself in life/convos/etc...being the "alpha" male..showing your the best without saying it..that is CONFIDENCE.
Big diffrence, and ****yness is one of the biggest turnoffs for girls.
From the girls that I've talked to, they say they like confident guys over ****y guys. But girls don't know what they want.
Personally, I use a bit of ****y with a somewhat sarcastic undertone. If you're going to be ****y, be ****y+funny. A DJ is ****y+funny, an arrogant idiot is just ****y.
Personally, I use a bit of ****y with a somewhat sarcastic undertone. If you're going to be ****y, be ****y+funny. A DJ is ****y+funny, an arrogant idiot is just ****y.
Being 100% ****y is bad bad bad!!! You have to have just the right blend of arrogance and the right blend of humor and personality to add to it. I'd say 60% arrogance and the other 40 is humor and personality.
Think about it like this. When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it.
Think about it like this. When you make a sandwich, normally you don't want just a single flavor to stand out. Naturally, you'd want a blend of everything that you put on it.
DogFashionDisco
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With my experiences, I say ****y is ok. But just don't over do it, and don't do it all the time. Definately have a little humor with it too. I've said to my chick that "I'm the fvcking hottest man alive" and she only laughs and agrees with me lol. Except I do it with alot of enthusiasm. 
RaWBLooD
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****y is fine just dont go around after reading this site thinkin about being something you arent.
for example it comes to mind now, i was 45 mins late to work the other day, and people were like wow u late, and then someone said it and then asked did i get in ****, i said nah i own the place, they said you wish, i said i really own the place.
i dont usually say **** like that but no one went around calling me an arrogant *******.
get what im sayin kids?
Think of it like this....If you squirt a whole bottle of mustard on your sandwich. All you will taste is mustard. If you take a whole bottle of barbeque sauce and pour it on a single piece of chicken; all you would taste is barbeque sauce. One question, if all you want to taste is ham, then why do you put on the toppings?
arutha
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What if you want to cook the sandwhich? How does that effect your ****iness?
The others have said it right, mix ****y with funny. But you can just make ****y comments as long as your tone and body language indicate you are just messing around.
Her: Wow, it sure is hot in here!
Me: Yeah, thats my effect
Her: Haha, nah I think its me
(grins all round)
The others have said it right, mix ****y with funny. But you can just make ****y comments as long as your tone and body language indicate you are just messing around.
Her: Wow, it sure is hot in here!
Me: Yeah, thats my effect
Her: Haha, nah I think its me
(grins all round)
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