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Being unpredictable...

hck332

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Everybody says that girls love unpredictable men, but nobody gives us examples on how to be unpredictable.

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petah2001

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Use your imagination. Since you express a problem with that concept let me make it a bit more obvious.

Don't plan things too far in advance and be impulsive.

There are many of ideas that others can share with you but the only way to become unpredictable is through your own revelations.
 

hck332

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yeah,I know, but I'd like to hear some examples anyway. Tell us of situation when you acted unpredictable.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Out of the box
Made up a story
Lied to a girl
made a joke
teased a girl
chumped another guy
Yelled to scare a girl


There are more... If you want a concise breakdown of predictability do a few searches and make a good attention grabbing response to this thread. I can almost guaranteee you somebody will read it and say wow....;)
 

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El MonoLoco

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Dictionary.com says this

Difficult to foretell or foresee



Basically do anything that isn't normal/boring.


Go streaking
fly a kit made out of lead
act like a cartoon/lunatic
walk up to and kiss a girl w/o saying anything else
be nice then be an a**


damn have you lost your imagination or what?

:crackup:

woops I missed something

examples on how to be unpredictable
That would be predictable.......

Just do the opposite of whatever you think of first.
:rock:
 

DJ_in_making

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No need to make the advice more confusing then it already is... Just change your routine up a little. Why do you hate re-runs? B/c they're boring and you know what's gonna happen.
Change any little thing up, don't make her say to her self "okay, now we're probably going to the movies again".....
 

Egoist

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unpredictability = mystery = sustained IL

basically, don't be a one-sided dude. If you are a joker, have moments of depth. If you are a quiet guy, go crazy and have fun sometimes.

Do things people wouldn't expect you to do. Be spontaneous. Take her to have ice cream when it snows. Take a preppy white girl to a best friend chicken shack in the ghetto. Put on a tango and dance with her out of nowhere when you are just chilling at your house.

Its good for you as well. When you are too set in your own ways, you become stagnant as well. When you are constantly trying things in new ways, it makes you a better person as well.
 
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