being too available?

[conan2120]

Hi everyone,I have a question about a comment that keeps being brought to my attention.People keep telling me that I,m too nice and too available.I,m trying to figure out what that means and looking for ways or ideas to change that.Can you help?Thank you.

 

[Golden Arms]

what do you think it means ? being too availabe means you devote or are willing to devote too much of your time to one woman. The cause of that is usually not having other options (women) on your plate and/or just not having enough other things to keep you occupied

Have you checked out the DJ Bible yet ?

 

[WaterTiger]

Much of your problem can be solved with one simple word...NO!

"Conan! Bring your truck over and help me move this weekend."
NO!

"Conan, these flowers are okay, but I really like those $25 dollar orchids. Buy me one!"
NO!

"Conan! Dude! I'm short on cash, pick up a case of beer for me!"
NO!

"Nice" guys let everyone walk all over them, let their girlfriends run their lives & never say a word about it. The instructions to being the captain of your own destiny is found in the DJ Bible.

You don't have to be an ass about it, but saying "NO" now and then will make people respect you a little more.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

I used to be guilty of this, not only with the woman in my life, but also my friends.

 

[conan2120]

Thanks for the replies guys,without you or this forum,I,d probably keep making these same mistakes over and over again.

 

[FratAndDiddy]

that's why we are all here bro