You let her know you're the prize by acting like the prize. She has to win YOU over, you must let her know when she does sht you dont like and let her know when she's blowing her chances with you, if she wants you she has to work for you and for your love. YOU are the one choosing the girl, she is a candidate, not the other way around. This is basically how you must think and act if you want to be 'the pize'.