Being spotted by a girl you know when you're in the middle of a street pickup?

stallion

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Ok, I'm getting better at approaching girls on the street these days but one day, I noticed that a girl I know may have seen me in action.

I was at a bus stop and this girl was playing with her shoes because the strap broke so she had to walk with her barefeet. Now, that gave me a great way to start a convo with her so I sat next to her at the bus stop to talk to her.

While we were having fun chatting (the whole town was dead) I saw a car drive by and noticed that the driver might be a girl I know. The back of the car resembles hers very well (black mitsubishi with michigan plate) and I might have seen the stuffed animal at the back that only she uses. Because I live in the collegetown and everybody pretty much leaves for home in summer, the leftovers stand out including the girl I know.

I also heard that this girl likes me so what do you guys think if a girl sees a guy she likes talking to another girl? Would she start hating him or like him more? (challenge?) I simply continued talking to the girl but failed to # close because her bus pulled up before I can ask for it.
 

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I'm wondering how you manage to have 196 posts and not know the answer to this?

It's A Good Thing (tm). :)

Read the damn tips & bible!
 

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yeah, I have a vague idea but I need somebody to put their thoughts to it. I think the bible's not etched in stone ;)
 

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I also heard that this girl likes me so what do you guys think if a girl sees a guy she likes talking to another girl?
This is pretty much the definition of social proof. I can't believe you didn't know this already :p
 

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Hmmm.. ok. Well for one thing, she didn't see you "in the middle of a street pickup". She saw you talking to another girl. Big difference. She's not gonna have a clue who it was - it could be your cousin, sister, girlfriend, fkbdy, anyone. Even if she does somehow know all this info about you & the girl the most she knows is that you were having a pleasant conv w/ a honey. That's it.

S'all good.

Next time you see *her*, go for it. Maybe tell her you like her car, or something like that, say you saw her downtown sometime.
 

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ok, thanks!

I just remember that the last time somebody posted a thread like this, the girls that liked him ended up being very cold to him but the guy can tell that they were very jealous of the girl he was hitting.

The girl I know is my classmate so it'll be pretty hard to deal with her if she ends up like that.

I'm just worried that I would get the "player" label and you know how girls gossip around, words spread around fast. One time, the whole community knows about the number of different girls I dated just because I told one good girl friend about it.

I'll just pretend that I didn't see her watching me while she drove by then :)

Btw, the girl at the bus stop was telling me a lot of things from the place she works to the place she lives. I did miss out a opportunity but lets see what'll happen when I get out of the house today :D
 
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