Monkey
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Is it really possible to be romantic and a DJ?
Please give some examples:
Please give some examples:
Being romantic AND a DJ?
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TwoDollahs
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Well you can be a DJ. Then you can go out of your way to buy her flowers, see her crappy "romantic" movie, etc. Women want you to go out of your way to do romantics thing for them every now and then. They want to nag you...You have to be a man and then do those crappy things every now and then if you want to keep any relationship.
thecraftylefty
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If you think you can't be romantic and a "DJ" at the same time then you completely missed the point of this site. There is a balance between the two. It's not AFC to give your girl flowers. It's not AFC to have a nice candle lit dinner alone with a girl. It's not AFC if you pay for both of you when you go out together. Knowing the difference of when to be an "AFC" and a "DJ" is what really counts!!!
Remember guys, AFCs get girls too. It's because they have developed this awful syndrome where they actually listen to a girl and can relate to what she says in a meaningful way.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
Remember guys, AFCs get girls too. It's because they have developed this awful syndrome where they actually listen to a girl and can relate to what she says in a meaningful way.
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
A DJ is about being a master of SEDUCTION. Romance naturally encompasses aspects of this art when the time is right.
It is AFC to be too romantic to any girl. It eventually becomes smothering to her. I know, b'cos this was me; the 'hopeless old romantic'- and it was hopeless. Immeadiately i was placed nice guy category by girls (longterms/shorterms/dates/etc..) ...
Being a DJ is about KNOWING when to apply aspects of romance (providing you EVEN have romantic feelings for the girl in question in the first place!)
However,
If your just dating/closing girls for fun with no ties, then
-Why would you want to be romantic......? Youre a PUA! Dont get attached
On the other hand...
If youre considering a LTR, or are in a LTR with a girl , then-
-It IS DJ-like to be romantic on and off. Seductively. Its DJ to do romantic things at unlikely times. Very unlikely times. Straight out of the blue. Small, under-rated actions that show you were thinking of her- when she is least expecting you to, is the key here. Remember: Its AFC to be predicatable. Dinner/flowers/whatever...
It is AFC to be too romantic to any girl. It eventually becomes smothering to her. I know, b'cos this was me; the 'hopeless old romantic'- and it was hopeless. Immeadiately i was placed nice guy category by girls (longterms/shorterms/dates/etc..) ...
Being a DJ is about KNOWING when to apply aspects of romance (providing you EVEN have romantic feelings for the girl in question in the first place!)
However,
If your just dating/closing girls for fun with no ties, then
-Why would you want to be romantic......? Youre a PUA! Dont get attached
On the other hand...
If youre considering a LTR, or are in a LTR with a girl , then-
-It IS DJ-like to be romantic on and off. Seductively. Its DJ to do romantic things at unlikely times. Very unlikely times. Straight out of the blue. Small, under-rated actions that show you were thinking of her- when she is least expecting you to, is the key here. Remember: Its AFC to be predicatable. Dinner/flowers/whatever...
What is romance?
Dictionary.com says romance is "A strong, sometimes short-lived attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something"
When you "DJ" a woman, what does that really mean? You might wait several days to call her instead of calling the same day; This creates more fascination and enthusiasm from her when you do call.
Being ****y + Funny, using kino, etc.. all of the DJ techniques are designed to get the woman to have a higher interest level in you (read - to be fascinated with you, to be enthusiastic about you, to be attached to you).
So the real question here might be,
Can you be romantic AND an AFC?
To which the answer of course is NO.
Dictionary.com says romance is "A strong, sometimes short-lived attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something"
When you "DJ" a woman, what does that really mean? You might wait several days to call her instead of calling the same day; This creates more fascination and enthusiasm from her when you do call.
Being ****y + Funny, using kino, etc.. all of the DJ techniques are designed to get the woman to have a higher interest level in you (read - to be fascinated with you, to be enthusiastic about you, to be attached to you).
So the real question here might be,
Can you be romantic AND an AFC?
To which the answer of course is NO.
