Being Played... or being challenged?

[space_between]

Hiya everyone.

I've been talking to this girl a lot recently, and everything was going good. But, almost everytime I try to make actual plans with her, something always comes up at the last minute and she cancels on me. I have a sneaking suspicion that I'm being played... but another part of me tells me shes just being a challenge.

So what are some signs that I might be being played, or what are signs that shes just challenging me?

 

[LT1]

How many times has she put you off? What were you supposed to be doing? Usually once is enough to get me pissed, just tell her you don't appreciate her wasting your time.

 

[space_between]

Well... lets say I tried to make plans with her 5 times, only about 2 of those actually happen, and something comes up 3 of 5. Something like work, being grounded, birthday party she 'forgot' about... junk like that

 

[LT1]

birthday party she 'forgot' about...

Yeah, right....
My advice, next time you plan something (if you do), and she tells you she "forgot" or "can't", then just go off on her:
"Look, ________, I don't appreciate you wasting my time. This won't happen again. Etc..."
Or you could just "next" her (best idea), obviously she isn't that interested (from the info you give me).

 

[Pimpster]

To me honestly it sounds like she's playin you. If she liked you, i'm sure she would make the time to get with you, without forgeting other plans. I say you get to the bottom of this shiz, or just move on.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by LT1
Yeah, right....
My advice, next time you plan something (if you do), and she tells you she "forgot" or "can't", then just go off on her:
"Look, ________, I don't appreciate you wasting my time. This won't happen again. Etc..."
Or you could just "next" her (best idea), obviously she isn't that interested (from the info you give me).

no no no no lol just get her to turn up at the movies or sumthin, and stand her up!

fvcken bítch