Being more than noise

[AttackFormation]

I've got an account on a kind of community site where women can upload pictures and post updates. We all have an idea that women are inundated with attention, but seeing it for yourself just makes me take a step back. These women have hundreds or thousands of followers and all their updates and pictures have many comments and many dozens, even close to or beyond a hundred likes. I can only imagine what their inboxes look like. And this is just one place... they've got their tinder, instagram, snapchat, facebook... and then they get hit on in real life wherever it is they are. And this is the average woman with a pulse and a face someone other than their mother could love, I'm not talking about models. In fact the site I'm talking about is for fat chicks (that's what I like), and they are swarmed by validation and messages. If you guys thought they are lacking that, you're dead wrong.

I don't want to just complain which is why I made the title "being more than noise", but this environment is really putting me off. And I don't mean just on social media, it carries over to real life. Being a male is like being a sperm.

How do you guys mentally cope with the fact that men are just noise to women today? I realize you're supposed to LMS yourself up and combine it with basic red pill game, but that's not really what I'm getting at. Maybe some of you guys will recognize what I'm feeling and others will think I'm a pvssy, lol. Whatever, lemme know what you guys think about our environment and outlook.

Just wait until you're in your 30s with a good career, good grooming and stuff and wait for the tables to turn? lol

 

[Spaz]

Getting off those sites is a good start to finally be rid of being an orbiter.

But keep the FB. Use it 4 Christmas greetings and such with family.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Was talking to a mate about it the other day; the millennial generation and how they will never, or at least have never, known life without the internet. Some remain who are very much detached from it; my brother and sister are in the their mid to late twenties and they don't seem to need too much validation from social media. But then they are intelligent and well educated individuals.

I'm just about old enough to have experience of dating 'pre-social', as my mate called it. I went to college/uni at the turn of the millenium. Though life was certainly simpler, without all the validation seeking and attention deficit that has come with the social era, it wasn't without its dating challenges. If there's one thing I have to admit, and think many here would, if it wasn't for the internet, I would still be little more than a frustrated nice guy.

There are nice, sexy women out there who don't continuously attend to SM. The last woman I spent any significant amount of time with hardly ever used her phone while we were together. But then we can't let that be much of an indicator, as she wasn't exactly without flaws in other respects.

As far as being 'noise' goes, mystery is still your friend. I keep online presence to a minimum, and certainly avoid connecting with women of interest. Social media is becoming an addiction on a vast scale. If you find yourself getting frustrated by it, go out and pursue a hobby, or talk to women directly; because those are the things that will make you stand out from the crowd these days.

 

[ohrein]

Get off social media, find women who aren't addicted to social media. My girlfriend almost never uses Facebook, has an instagram for art, doesn't post selfies, etc. They do exist.

As for being noise, who cares? I live my life for myself and do the best for others second. If someone considers me unimportant, so what? I'm not that important or special. Go do what you love and get on the grind of your purpose. Cultivate your "don't give a fvck" attitude for the little things. You'll be happier for it. And honestly, women are just noise to me too so fair's fair. I do love 'em, mysterious and beautiful creatures that they are. But it's like bumping into a cat on the street. Enjoy the moment and back on your path you go.

 

[thelittleprince]

If you get your frame right and keep developing that frame, you will be a commodity not just to your current plate or plates but to all other women. Just don't stop working on your game, yourself and your mission or your options.