Being mean, a good thing?

[killerasp]

What i night i had. Having a bunch of sosuave dudes from the board come to my party was a blast. Had about 50 people there. It was poppin. One dude came by in his benz which i drove cus he was all sorts of drunk. I manged to get this cute asian girl out with us to get food. I took her away from a guy she was with. She was willing to leave him to hang out with me. Sweet

While getting food, i found out more about her and tried to get her to come to another party tomorrow afternoon. But she told me that she had a date with a guy that got her at some dating auction through the school here. Kind of fundraiser ****. She said it was just for a movie and he was paying for it. So she felt bad if she ditched him b/c he already paid. The whole time i was talking she would always go, "why are you mean to me" and playfully slap me. I would tease her about herself or her clothing. She said this about 3 or 4 more times. I thought it was good to do so b/c she gave light kino. I told her about the party but her "date" was later that evening. She even offered to push the date into later in the night so she could come with me. A good sign if i might add. (what do you guys think). Well, i did a number close and she got my number in the exchange. I plan to call her in the morning to get her to come with me.

So all in all, it was a good night.

 

[Nosferatu]

It sounds like you worked the good old "****y & funny" routine on her, and it apparently worked.

But if she offered to move the date to a later time, then why do you have to call her in the morning to get her to come with you? Wasn't it a done deal when she offered to change the time? If she is conflicted in some way, then I would let her go on this date to alleviate her possible guilty feelings, and then move in for the kill after that.

 

[dionysius_d]

warning.

Alarms bells go off when i read about girls like that:

She came to the party with a guy or was with one at the party.. she left him to be with you later.

She then mentions another date she has, with a guy who's paying.. (and believe me, that's HER side of the story).

She's also with you.. that makes 3 guys (that you know about).

Time waster.

PS- However, the "teasing" routine works easily on receptive flirts.

 

[am4591]

Dionysius,

So what if she was with a couple of other guys? That doesn't matter. If you can't hold your own against other men, you might need to re-read parts of the DJB. Don't give up just because she's with somebody else.

 

[killerasp]

Re: warning.

Originally posted by dionysius_d
Alarms bells go off when i read about girls like that:

She came to the party with a guy or was with one at the party.. she left him to be with you later.

She then mentions another date she has, with a guy who's paying.. (and believe me, that's HER side of the story).

She's also with you.. that makes 3 guys (that you know about).

Time waster.

PS- However, the "teasing" routine works easily on receptive flirts.

Well, its no big deal b/c she came with 10 other people. She was just playing around with some guy when i interrupted.

 

[killerasp]

Just called her. Woke her up. My bad there. Called to see if she was down to hit up that party later tonight. She got mad work to do she said which is aiight. I guess ill take her out some other time.

 

[digitalrat]

hmm, I get a different reaction from "C+F" with this chick. I know she likes me, I mean she dumped her boyfriend because of me. But I'll drop the "C+F" and she'll roll her eyes and do the fake laugh that means it wasnt funny. Well go back and forth with "Shut the fvck up" etc... She doesnt try to punch me or slap me in a playful manner when I do it. Dont get me wrong, we do a lot of kino. But she doesnt react normal to C+F although I know she eats it up.

But, I mean when this other kid does it to her she'll push him and punch him. Now, this kid is like 5'4 and 135lbs. I'm 6'2 and 220. But, they'll play fight and **** when he drops some "C+F" but he's a STRIGHT AFC. He'll try and put his arm around her and she'll reject him.

Another thing. I was at my friends which is RIGHT NEXT door to her. My friends and I were smoking Cohibas and drinking Hennessy. We were just relaxing playing dominos and wasnt trying to get drunk, just some casual drinking. Now, she's 17. My friend leaves and he calls me up and says "Hey, her fan club is outside." We call these two kids that come over EVERY day her fan club because now that she's single their "trying" to make moves. She named them not me. Anyways, I was out there with a cigar in one and a glass of hennessy. She didnt make any comments to me about it, she gave me signs of attraction but not any big ones. I talked to the kids and pretty much ignored her. I could see her eyeing me at times.

(about the first 2 paragraphs)
Any of you guys seen this before?
Did you change your style a little or just keep it going with the same thing, since it works?

(the remaining ones)
Give me some comments.