Being in the friendzone isnt so bad...

[crimsonclockwork]

My little contribution to these forums. Some might think that being a DJ means you don't have any girls as friends-but just **** puppets. I messed up with a few girls while learning how to DJ them, but now they have become a valuable asset. It is kind of like getting the other view of the game-what to do and what not to do. You can ask them just about anything about girls and not sound desperate. They know that we don't know jack **** about them, and they don't know too much about us either. Its a two way street. Friends who are girls can give you valuable tips-and on more than one occasion hook you up with their friends. I know this group of about 4 or 5 girls. All around 6-8 in my book.

They know hotter friends also. I became friends with them over the year, and became a really nice guy. NOT AN AFC. Kino, C+F, and insults are a daily occourance. Its like going out with a girl-just none of the sappy bull****. My reputation has become pretty good, because girls talk to one another. They tell each other whos nice and whos a jerk and whatnot. So, to sum this up: After DJ'ing a girl, Im my opinion-be nice to her afterwards. Being nice-well thats up to you how far you want to go by being nice. Sorry if this kinda contridicts just about everything the bible teaches.

 

[icallug]

yeah same thing with me. it does help out a lot. they hook u up with some fine pieces of ass

 

[seloifter]

I agree with this, and basically do this myself...

after all, what's the point of DJing every single girl you know? is teh goal to ultimately have 3000 girls fighting over you (yes I know it sounds like a great fantasy but what's the use )?
DJ the girls you really want, and befriend the others. Win.

 

[MetalFortress]

Good post. Being nice is good, and not the same as being a nice mangina. Make sure that they're in your friendzone if you wanna be friends with them, so as to avoid crap like oneitis.

 

[kevbo]

i think it's awesome to have a lot of female friends. around here, i don't usually trust what they say about what to do with women, but i think they can tell us a lot about why girls respond and feel the ways they do in various situations. also, it feels good to help them feel better about being in what they thought was a bad situation with their current bf. i have a friend that recently went through this, but i worked my magic, and now she seems to feel much better. i was quite proud of myself.

 

[Bjon]

Ya, i think having female friends is a great idea. They open up all sorts of opportunities to you that you could never dream of having before. Good post.

 

[crimsonclockwork]

And I think 9 times out of 10, girls have friends who don't have dates on friday and saturday nights... Nothing wrong with them, they are just shy, and thats where DJ skills come into play.