Being honest

[blindboi]

Hey guys, got a question about honesty. I recently got out of a relationship and I have been on date with a few girls since. I don't want to jump into another relationship, just casual dating.

What is your method to tell a girl you only want to date casually? I was thinking being upfront and honest by saying, "I enjoy your company but I'm not looking for anything serious". Or something along the lines of that.

What do you guys think?

 

[Skalioppe]

I say nothing, because you don't do anything which jeopardises your dating weaponry.

I find that generally speaking women want something long term, so as soon as you qualify that you don't, they will drop you like a sh1tty stick. That to me at least, is a stupid move.

If they get heavy after you've moved into more physical territory you can back off, but just go with the flow and enjoy the flavours available on the menu - you're both adults.

 

[doctorj]

What is your method to tell a girl you only want to date casually? I was thinking being upfront and honest by saying, "I enjoy your company but I'm not looking for anything serious". Or something along the lines of that.

What do you guys think?

You don't, you show it with your actions... you just don't see them as often...like if you see them only once a week and you don't invest too much time and effort by always checking up on them, they'll pick it up. you could tell them when they ask, but you shouldn't tell them upfront when they're not asking

 

[blindboi]

So I was upfront and honest with her, she wanted a pure sexual relationship. Nothing more, just **** buddies. Everything went better then expected

 

[The Gambler]

Everything went better then expected

I'll say...