Oh shiat long post! First off, read most of the other posts here, what I'm about to tell you is perhaps even more important, but you have to first do what john paul said and act more chill.
Anyways, on with it:
This pretty much happened to me, throughout highschool up until about a year ago. I've got a worse reputation now due to picking fights but that's neither here nor there.
While what most of everyone is saying is true that you probably aren't social enough, since you are quiet about it (like I was), you are being called a nerd out of
jealousy, my friend!
We all know the stereotypes, how the weed smokers, the "star" football players, the "chill" guys who don't give a sh1t about anything, end up losing out to the "nerds" in the long run, and the people who are calling you "nerd" know this too. They react to it because its
mainly true! The part that isn't true is the part about the nerds scoring the hot chicks when they are grown up...really, those are just golddiggers only attracted and interested in money.
But most people have nothing going for them, really. By those people, I mean the ones who insult you out of jealousy. They are even more jealous of you because you are humble!!! Because you don't act like a know-it-all, because you don't brag about your good grades, shows that you are at least a little bit
secure, and don't need validation for being smart.
They know that the only real thing they have over you is social skills. And social skills can be LEARNED, so it's not even a legitimate lead over you. Basically, you have something over them they can't
learn or
buy! Obviously a recluse can't talk to girls, and by devoting ALL your time to studying is pretty much boxing yourself in. The key to it is balance, you can still study and get a 4.0 or straight A's or whatever the hell system your school is on, but make sure to build up your social skills more as well. Once you better yourself mentally AND socially AND on all other realms of your so choosing (helping make you unique, a form of DHV), you will be hated by some guys, a role model to others, and
The Great Catch to girls.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here.....but on the subject of haters (who I assume are the folks that are calling you nerd), Katt Williams said, because success breeds hatred among the weak around you:
Get that out of your head, that fantasy world where n**** aint hatin on you, you gotta be greatful, you NEED haters, what the fvck is you complaining about? .... Fellas if you got 20 haters, you need 40 of them motherfvckers. If there are any haters out there with no one to hate on, feel free to hate on me.
The only real reason why those failures get play and the "nerds" don't is because they automatically are superior (only on a social level) due to being witty and because they've obviously had more social experience than you do (
while you spend your times studying, they talk and build up their social skills, an important aspect in scoring chicks).
But think of it as a scale, two extremes. Your goal as a DJ is to find balance...balance between mental, social, physical, emotional aspects of your life, while getting in a good nights sleep. Balance is probably the greatest skill you could ever learn in college, from what I've heard (from just about everyone)...which is why
I'm focusing on it now. Sure girls are probably attracted to you, if you make sure you look nice, but how are you going to get them interested if you don't know how to talk to them...and this is probably one of the best metaphors of a keyboard jockey EVER (yes, I'm THAT great):
...Don't just be a keyboard jockey, this shït (social skills) is like learning math, which I assume you are very good at. You gotta drill the dämn thing to be good at it. Just like taking math notes in class, which you probably aren't even doing, you won't be able to do the problems any better until you immerse yourself.
And I'm gonna receive alot of hate for this post, but it needs to be said.
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