being a @ssh0le experiment

[Starwolf]

So just doing an experiment these past weeks.

Super hot girl but very narcissistic,self absorbed, selfies all the time, *****y and mean u know the type.

I used to be nice to this girl and do nice guy stuff for her. but it didn't get me anywhere

So i thought why not try something out and treat this chick like pure Crap
so ignored her and went full assh0le mode on her.

Started by telling her No when she asks for favors, or saying yes then don't do it and tell her i forgot or was busy.
letting her message 3 to 4 times and reply 3 days later. teasing her about her boobs are too big, her teeth are weird, or her hair is messed up, her clothes do not fit. (note she is a beauty but I tease her a lot about these imperfections) also (not proud of it) I stopped filtering my language, cursed a lot more and told her stuff like she'd be better of sucking my balls after she told me that i'd probably would love to kiss her lips. I mean real fcked up stuff. That is just one example but you get the picture.


Results:

First result she started to call me instead of messaging (Something she never did before)

She thinks I have other b*tches and I need to pay more attention to her. ( truth is i only have 1 other chick i bang at the moment )
She messages me and tries to call me all the time ( i ignore most of them)
she sends me pictures out of the blue asking me if she looks nice (usually i respond with simple uninterested "it's ok" or point out an imperfection )

she would laugh more at my stupid jokes

she tells me that "I think about her and that I love her etc etc)
(stuff that i never told her )

she started inviting me to do stuff with her. (declined them because they where too short notice.. she's still looking for beta behavior)

would insult her or make a really sexist comment and she'd act shocked , laugh or hit me with a comeback.

lately she told me that we would make a perfect couple ( I told her she should go find a sweet guy to settle down. I'm too busy achieving my own goals )

She said she wants to reach those goals together with me.

all in all she has told me all of the below your're so mean, selfish, rude, not a gentleman, lacking compassion, greedy, cheap

but still blowing up my phone with texts and missed calls

so what do u guys think? good stuff? extreme? is this how you guys treat these types of chicks?

 

[Aesthetix29]

^^^^^^ Excellent!!!!

 

[SmooveMooves]

Your not being an ass hole. Your just not being a pushover.

The key to getting any girl worth something is to not be a push over. Keep it up and don't think about it to much like Drake.

 

[zinc4]

Good...but stop the games and get her drunk and bang her....if not stop wasting so much effort abd plotting on one chick that u haven't vanfed yet...

 

[Starwolf]

Good...but stop the games and get her drunk and bang her....if not stop wasting so much effort abd plotting on one chick that u haven't vanfed yet...

an effort in learning how to become less available and less of a pushover is not wasted effort.

but i get your point. in the end it's about banging her and getting her to spin

 

[pyros]

yeah, she could find you 'entertaning', and she may have zero interest in having sex with you, so you never know.

Try to bang her man...if not, cut the crap.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

yeah, she could find you 'entertaning', and she may have zero interest in having sex with you, so you never know.

Try to bang her man...if not, cut the crap.

Yeah man, if your not banging her you might just be putting on a comedy show for her.

Seal the deal or stop wasting so much time on her.

 

[GS750]

I did this once with a major attention wh0re who I no longer had any interest in. It was actually very entertaining to watch her squirm.

 

[No.Danny]

Loooool, you think that's being an *******?
I guess I'm the worlds biggest jerk then, you should see how I treat my girls and it's all natural too no facade.

 

[Obsidian]

I always find these experiments quite hilarious.

 

[Starwolf]

Loooool, you think that's being an *******?
I guess I'm the worlds biggest jerk then, you should see how I treat my girls and it's all natural too no facade.

Give some examples Danny
I Need to learn and act this way naturally

I was raised religious and taught to be nice and respectful to women bla bla...
so even tho i think it's @sshole behaviour... it's just not really that extreme like some of the other posters have mentioned.

 

[GS750]

Your a piece of garbage

Just a little tip...

Learn the difference between "your" and "you're". I think you mean to say "you are a piece of garbage", therefore "you're" would be correct. Loser.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

Beautiful. It's amazing how effective that stuff is.
It all boils down to this key point:
"She thinks I have other b*tches and I need to pay more attention to her."

Act like she's nothing special and she'll work to prove you wrong.
Act like she's special and she has nothing to prove to you.

I wouldn't say it's that extreme either. It's game.
However that type of behavior will bring a lot of hate from other guys because you're now the "jerk" and they're still the "nice guy."

"I was raised religious and taught to be nice and respectful to women bla bla..."
Don't worry man, most guys were raised the same way. You've stumbled onto something most guys will never even consider, so be thankful.

I could tell a lot of stories like yours too. It's almost comical how predictable it is.

 

[Igetit!]

I agree with the others.

While her calling you,asking your opinion on pictures of herself,and inviting you out to do stuff with her might seems good,unless any of this results in sex,or at the least going out on a date,the experiment will be a failure imo.



Am kinda curious about something,though. You said....

So just doing an experiment these past weeks.

You said you've been doing this experiment for the past few weeks. Also said you used to be nice to her,do "nice guy" stuff for her,but that it never got you anywhere.

What I'd like to know is,HOW LONG were you nice to her and doing nice stuff for her BEFORE you decided to switch over to being an azzhole. That's for one.


Another thing is,to be honest....I feel like the whole experiment is TAINTED,meaning you won't get any real,helpful results from it cause this chick has seen TWO DIFFERENT VERSIONS of you.

If you had done this "azzhole" experiment from THE BEGINNING,from the instant you two first met,you'd get a better sense of how effective it could be. Either that,or do the experiment with 2 girls.....nice guy with one,azzhole with the other. Switching behaviors with the same girl just makes her suspicious of you.

So i thought why not try something out and treat this chick like pure Crap
so ignored her and went full assh0le mode on her.

Started by telling her No when she asks for favors, or saying yes then don't do it and tell her i forgot or was busy.
letting her message 3 to 4 times and reply 3 days later. teasing her about her boobs are too big, her teeth are weird, or her hair is messed up, her clothes do not fit. (note she is a beauty but I tease her a lot about these imperfections) also (not proud of it) I stopped filtering my language, cursed a lot more and told her stuff like she'd be better of sucking my balls after she told me that i'd probably would love to kiss her lips. I mean real fcked up stuff. That is just one example but you get the picture.

Well....I don't know if all this qualifies as "FULL" assh0le mode,seems more annoying than anything else.

Results:

She thinks I have other b*tches and I need to pay more attention to her. ( truth is i only have 1 other chick i bang at the moment )

What do you mean by "pay more attention to her"....

If there's nothing romantic/sexual going on,just seems like she misses her orbiter.

She messages me and tries to call me all the time ( i ignore most of them)
she sends me pictures out of the blue asking me if she looks nice (usually i respond with simple uninterested "it's ok" or point out an imperfection )

she would laugh more at my stupid jokes

she tells me that "I think about her and that I love her etc etc)
(stuff that i never told her )

Bunch of NONSENSE. Seems like typical AW-ness to me.

she started inviting me to do stuff with her. (declined them because they where too short notice.. she's still looking for beta behavior)

And BINGO.

You said that she's still looking for "beta" behavior. This is what I meant about her being suspicious of you. You might be acting like an a-hole now,but she STILL HASN'T FORGOTTEN about the "nice guy" you.


I don't know what it is you're looking for out of her,but she's gonna test THE SH1T outta you,searching to see if that "nice guy" is still there.

Hope you factored that in to the expierment.

lately she told me that we would make a perfect couple

Hmmmm. Yeah,right....

She says you two would make a perfect couple. If that's the case,then she should be willing to go out on a date with you.......right?

You think she is? Cause I don't. I think that was just more games,to see if she can get the nice guy to come back.

More testing.

all in all she has told me all of the below your're so mean, selfish, rude, not a gentleman, lacking compassion, greedy, cheap

but still blowing up my phone with texts and missed calls

so what do u guys think? good stuff? extreme? is this how you guys treat these types of chicks?

All I'd like to know is HOW LONG you two have been around each other.

 

[Starwolf]

Igetit we have known each others for 3 or 4 years maybe. so yes there is a long history of me being her beta orbiter.

if you would like to know the cringeworthy history here goes.

used to always text her first, bought stuff for her, asked her out on dates which she always declined. complimented all her pictures, helped her with schoolwork.
understand this girl only talked to me when she needed something.

so yes i'm completely aware that a lot of this is because she misses my past orbiter ways.

i did start to change about a year so she gradually did see changes

but it's only the last weeks that i really wentball out thats why i mentioned that this was just an experiment. i did not expect anything out of it because my past with her was just too beta.

still i enjoy that she is working hard to get my beta old self back.

btw to those who think i focused or put all my time and effort on this one girl for 4 years.... go fck urself.

 

[zekko]

If you've known her for three or four years and always acted beta around her, probably part of what is intriguing her is that you are suddenly acting so different around her. You've managed to surprise her, and shown her a side of yourself that she didn't know was there.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Agreed with some of the above guys that if you aren't getting results (banging her), then this is all pointless. Plus based on what you've posted it seems like she'd be a pretty good plate to have around.

 

[Kevin S Briefcase]

Doesn't take an experiment to realize being an ass hole works and being a nice guy fails.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I don't think being an a$$h0l3 works on every lady. One without a lot of experience, a self absorbed guy who seems set in his ways and solid in his convictions might be interesting. They might want to change him, to soften him up in some places.

They have no idea how many times they will be disappointed in such a man. If they keep any sliver of self respect, eventually they will come to hate such a selfish man and refuse to keep supporting him.

You know it takes years to get tired of a type, but eventually they may say and mean it, no more a$$h0l3s, no more thugs, no more "bad boys", and they will be more than happy to pound the $hit out of their more beta boyfriend or husband, not even desiring to be around the stench of a physod of an a$$h0l3.

Of course she's had her fill of a$$h0l3 behaviors, thugs and bad boys for years and years until they wore that softness in her soul down to nothing, now she can't take it anymore.

A good man is going to have a mix of alpha and beta qualities. Balance is the key.

 

[Suspens]

Good job bro, make sure you don't relapse as it is very probable. I agree with the other poster, it's quite funny how they change once you treat them differently lmao.