HappyHobo
Banned
Behavior + Persistence = Habit!!!!!
It has taken me a long time to realize how important habits are.
Through my independent thinking I have finally come to a clarity of mind. I now know why i have not been seeing results. (I thought i knew but i didn't) I mean i have the desire to become a DJ... I know what to do to become a DJ...
I have passions... Im not afraid of going up to girls and getting their digits... but what's wrong i ask myself! Why am i not fully a DJ yet!
One thing has been missing that i have finally discovered. I haven't been developing the habits of a DJ.
To understand habit more, one must know how the human mind works:
a) The concious mind - awareness of thoughts, feelings , actions
b) The subconscious mind - total of experiences in our lives that causes behaviors
What determines our CHARACTER are both A and B. All I had control of was A... but never B. With the conscious mind, I knew what was wrong and right. The knowledge was there... I knew to choose Confidence over Anxiety... Funny over Seriousness
Control over Emotional... ALL OF THIS I KNEW! AND I MADE THOSE CHOICES. I was aware what i needed in my character but just because i knew it DOES NOT mean that i HAVE IT! I thought i had it but i was wrong. All i had was the right WILL! But i needed to take action.
The subconscious mind needed to pick up and record my actions and experiences and turn them into habits... in order for this persistence was what i needed. I lacked this and thus i never developed my intended behavior. I was still the same old Habbyhobo.
You can't expect change without staying persistent. THat is what i have learned. I used to think i would change from KNOWING but this is not true. You must ACT ACT ACT ACT ACT and ACT till you have the ACTIon engraved and pressed in your mind. When you have repeated the action enough the resultant is an automatic behavior. THAT IS HOW CHARACTER DEVELOPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BUT HABBYHOBO IT IS SO HARD TO CHANGE WHAT I AM SO COMFORTABLE WITH!!!!!
"Look do u want to be a DON F_cking JUAN or NOT?!!!!!"
"Yes i do, very much so Happy."
"Alright, If that is your final decision then what you must do is take EFFORT and ACTION."
"But Happy isn't there an easier way? I have tried to get rid of my bad habits and develop better ones but it's so hard!! I always seem to want to do the bad thing MORE! i dont know WHY!"
"Nothing great can be accomplished easily. It takes TIME and EFFORT. Albert Einstein did not come up with the theory of relativity in a heartbeat. He worked on his extraordinary theory for YEARS till he finally finished to have revolutionize science and the universe!"
"So to rectify my character, u mean I will have to SACRIFICE some things? I can't just do as I please? I need to do the GOOD thing ALWAYS in order to acquire that GOOD trait and behavior?
"That is correct. Now you are starting to understand my young fellow. When u have repeated the action enough... it will come automatic and u will not even think about it to do it. The hard part at first is giving up what you are so accustomed to now for something different."
Now Onward with your journey oh brave little one do not come back till you have become the DJ. If it will be a year,decade or century till we meet again then let it be! For the change i will see in you will be more marvelous and astounding than words can describe.
It has taken me a long time to realize how important habits are.
Through my independent thinking I have finally come to a clarity of mind. I now know why i have not been seeing results. (I thought i knew but i didn't) I mean i have the desire to become a DJ... I know what to do to become a DJ...
I have passions... Im not afraid of going up to girls and getting their digits... but what's wrong i ask myself! Why am i not fully a DJ yet!
One thing has been missing that i have finally discovered. I haven't been developing the habits of a DJ.
To understand habit more, one must know how the human mind works:
a) The concious mind - awareness of thoughts, feelings , actions
b) The subconscious mind - total of experiences in our lives that causes behaviors
What determines our CHARACTER are both A and B. All I had control of was A... but never B. With the conscious mind, I knew what was wrong and right. The knowledge was there... I knew to choose Confidence over Anxiety... Funny over Seriousness
Control over Emotional... ALL OF THIS I KNEW! AND I MADE THOSE CHOICES. I was aware what i needed in my character but just because i knew it DOES NOT mean that i HAVE IT! I thought i had it but i was wrong. All i had was the right WILL! But i needed to take action.
The subconscious mind needed to pick up and record my actions and experiences and turn them into habits... in order for this persistence was what i needed. I lacked this and thus i never developed my intended behavior. I was still the same old Habbyhobo.
You can't expect change without staying persistent. THat is what i have learned. I used to think i would change from KNOWING but this is not true. You must ACT ACT ACT ACT ACT and ACT till you have the ACTIon engraved and pressed in your mind. When you have repeated the action enough the resultant is an automatic behavior. THAT IS HOW CHARACTER DEVELOPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BUT HABBYHOBO IT IS SO HARD TO CHANGE WHAT I AM SO COMFORTABLE WITH!!!!!
"Look do u want to be a DON F_cking JUAN or NOT?!!!!!"
"Yes i do, very much so Happy."
"Alright, If that is your final decision then what you must do is take EFFORT and ACTION."
"But Happy isn't there an easier way? I have tried to get rid of my bad habits and develop better ones but it's so hard!! I always seem to want to do the bad thing MORE! i dont know WHY!"
"Nothing great can be accomplished easily. It takes TIME and EFFORT. Albert Einstein did not come up with the theory of relativity in a heartbeat. He worked on his extraordinary theory for YEARS till he finally finished to have revolutionize science and the universe!"
"So to rectify my character, u mean I will have to SACRIFICE some things? I can't just do as I please? I need to do the GOOD thing ALWAYS in order to acquire that GOOD trait and behavior?
"That is correct. Now you are starting to understand my young fellow. When u have repeated the action enough... it will come automatic and u will not even think about it to do it. The hard part at first is giving up what you are so accustomed to now for something different."
Now Onward with your journey oh brave little one do not come back till you have become the DJ. If it will be a year,decade or century till we meet again then let it be! For the change i will see in you will be more marvelous and astounding than words can describe.
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