Been dating a girl but i'm already bored

ImprovingJuan

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to the point that i dont want to be with her anymore. i may not be the hottest guy around so someone could say, maybe you shouldnt be picky but the thing is i am. if by the third date the click still doesnt happen then something must be wrong. i dont feel attracted to her, i dont feel motivated to be with her.

i prefer to hang out with friends or stay at home than being with her, our phone convos bore me to death. did this happen to any of you guys?
 

narcissist

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No it doesn't happen to me.

This is because i screen girls for at least 2 months before i commit to them and thus i weed out any boring chicks from the potential list of girls whom i will consider making my girlfriend... Duh..
 

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Yep happend to me about 4 times last year because i was jumping into things too quickly and not even understanding what i wanted from a woman

Also realised ive become far too accustomed to my free time and don’t want some worthless bish nagging me to do stuff all the time

It wont get any better son get rid of her
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Bingo-Player said:
Yep happend to me about 4 times last year because i was jumping into things too quickly and not even understanding what i wanted from a woman

Also realised ive become far too accustomed to my free time and don’t want some worthless bish nagging me to do stuff all the time

It wont get any better son get rid of her
Plus 1.
 

Huffman

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Yeah man. Last month alone I dated 3 boring girls. I hadn't dated for some time and was desperate to get some experience under my belt. I guess I just made myself "go out there" and "exploit opportunities".

But yeah, it's stupid. Now that my appearance has improved, most girls will actually say yes, even though we're not really connecting. And then be strangely passive all the time. I could probably "run some game" just to have sex. I've done that, just to prove that I could. But I'm not happier now.

That is my new goal, find more GREAT women, where there's real mutual attraction.
 
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