Been a confusing week

chese12

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This girl has been sending me mix signals over the course of 3 months. We started talking since March and we would always be flirting and this gives me the opportunity to practice some kino and she starts following me around and wanting to go everywhere with her. But every single time she would bring up the person that she likes back home. The other guy has been a relationship with another girl for about three years, but she still believes that she is one for her. I decided to test whether or not she actually want to wait for this guy. Right before spring break I ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend and she rejects me. Spring break was used to cool and to get over her and i told myself you have to move on and I do.

But during the week it really has been a roller coaster,s**t. She once again starts going everywhere I go. If i tell that I got to go to a friends place to do some homework she would follow me and everywhere else for that matter. One night i have my college radio show at 12-2am and she decides to wait and stay for me. Now im thinking maybe she interested in the s**t im doing maybe she sees potential in me. So after the radio show she ask me whether or not its a good idea to spend the night at my place and I say its cool. All we do during the whole night is kiss and cuddle. At first i dint read the signs that she wanted to kiss until I realized her lips were right next to mine and we start kissing, it was a good morning. If my roommates weren't in the room and my bed wasn't noisy we would of had sex. She had no problem packing into boner even though I know she could feel it.


Now heres the part that is confusing me. While she is still inviting to go places with her she rejects any kiss i try to give her and she starts talking about that other guy even more. So i just take no as an answer i start kissing her even she says no, but she still smiles afterward. So any incite or advice how to deal with this girl is gratefully accepted.
 

SandHawk

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Hello emotional tampon! She is using you for attention, to talk about her emotions. That night of kissing and cuddling was her way to comfort herself that she cannot get that guy. She has no interest in you, apart from using you as her emotional tampon, and the moment she has a chance with the guy, she'll leave you behind confused, disappointed and hurt.

Stop having hopes, and stop seeing her.
 

Kirro

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I take it you have no options OP. This is why this site promotes cold approaches. This is why you see ever so often the advice to spin plates. If you were spinning some plates, you would have nexted this cvnt making you her emotional tampon & one night cuddle b!tch.
 
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