bedroom issues

[tryst type]

1. she has never exprienced an orgasm. i know there are girls out there who just dont know how to let themselves have one, is there any way to help a girl reach one for the first time?

2. we've been sexual multiple times where ive used some dirty talk. only now she is tellin me its a problem and it doesnt turn her on/she feels slutty/plain doesnt like it. do i just cut it out? i mean i enjoy throwing it in here and there. think it adds to the fun.

 

[Sicx]

I also think it adds fun and it also helps make her comfortable with talking about sex with you, but if she says shes not liking it then its going to be tough. From what i see shes probably a virgin so shes like a locked box. I really dont like dealing with girls who say "gross or thats nasty" when i make a funny/sexual comment, its just immature.

As for getting her to orgasm, im sure there are abunch of threads on here that will help but try and focus on getting her to point A first =)

 

[ready123]

a lot of women out there have never had an orgasm and surprisingly a lot of them are smoking hot and/or married

can you guys actually talk about sex freely? have you eaten her out?

she should want to feel slutty when you guys are fvcking, otherwise she might have some kind of emotional block

 

[MooseGod]

Lick it before you stick it.:rockon:

 

[Andromax]

Well there is a big difference between

dirty talk 1

"I wanna stick this tubesteak in your sausage holster!"

and

2
"I want to run my tongue down your stomach.. kissing you everywhere.. (breathing in her ear, telling her all the sensual **** you are gonna do to her when you have her really turned on) run my tongue down the inside of your thighs, teasing you.. Mmm.. I bet you taste delicious.. kissing your calves and behind your knees... (now your talking in her other ear) grabing you firmly around your waist.. pulling you towards me, kissing, teasing.. (blah blah blah im not a penthouse forums author!) etc etc and then do it!! But not exactly how you said.

As far as chicks not having orgasms.. some just have trouble.. IDK if its physiological or psychological. Could be either or depending on the chick. I'd imagine a lot of it has to do with the amount of trust in the relationship and the expertise of the man.

I was with a really wh0rish chick last year that got off like once I think. She tried to fake it a few times towards the beginning of that "relationship" but I called her out on it and told her not to bother. Lol. She cut the theatrics after that.

 

[tryst type]

We talked about it,she says that she's looking forward to being adventures with me sexually since her previous bfs were pretty standard and never expanded her sexuality but that shed rather take it slow and right now talking dirty just does nothing for her.

How would I know when its acceptable? Try again later?

Any tips for helping a girl reach her first orgasm?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Any tips for helping a girl reach her first orgasm?

Comfort level.

 

[j0n024]

Agree comfort level, plus I think you should tell her to continue with the dirty talk not for her but for you....and hey after a while she might enjoy it who knows. I heard about a thing on here called the "Deep" spot that suppose to trigger a orgasm pretty fast so maybe you can just google that and maybe get an idea...it basically just fingering her but you find the "Deep" spot and she orgasms , I tried it once on my girl and I think it works but we were going at it for a while so I dont know if it was that or just because she was already getting ready to pop....good luck.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'd hold off on the dirty talk for a while though. Good dirty talk stems from being comfortable enough to put extreme words to your feelings or actions. If she's not yet able to feel comfortable doing these things the possibility of her being comfortable enough to put to it is slim. It could even hinder her becoming comfortable. Personally I'd wait until she's at least comfortable enough to get really loud without using words.

 

[tryst type]

I'm goin to cut back of the dirty talk its just I'm used to including it. Takes that awkward quietness away sometimes.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm goin to cut back of the dirty talk its just I'm used to including it. Takes that awkward quietness away sometimes.

Hint: To help encourage her both in her actions and her audible responses lead by example. Start slow by every once in a while tell her "I like that" when she'd doing something that you enjoy. I know it seems simple but so many women are self conscious in the bedroom and a little encouragement can really get them out of their shells.