Be the First on the Dance Floor

Mike24ct

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I'm a 29 y/o RAFC. There is a nightclub that I frequent. (The women there range in age from 21 through low 40s.) This is probably obvious to most of you guys, but if you can be the first guy on the dance floor (not by yourself though), you can establish MASSIVE SOCIAL PROOF. Here are some examples from my experience:

Example 1: I got to the club early (alone) and got a drink. This woman (approx. 38 y/o) and not very attractive approaches me and asks me to dance. I wasn't thrilled about it, but I did anyway. Her and I were the FIRST and only couple on the dance floor because it was fairly early. About half way into the song, two HB8's (approx. 24 y/o) in sexy black dresses each grab one of my hands and one of them smiles at me and says, "Can we steal you?" Although I felt a little bad for the older woman, how could I turn down two HB8's? I ended up sandwiched between the two of them doing a double grind, while all the other women and guys in the club watched me.

Example 2: I was at the same club, also early one night. I approached this HB9 (approx. 26 y/o). She asked ME to dance. We are also the first and only couple on the dance floor. Again, it must have given me massive social proof. Sure enough, I see this other HB9.5 (approx. 21 y/o) that frequents the club a lot. (This girl always has a tight ***** shield and would never so much as look at me.) HB9.5 then proceeds to "steal me" during a lull in the song and starts grinding me hard.

Example 3: This was last night actually. I got to the club a little later than I usually do. It turns out that a large bachelorette party was going on. There were like 25 attractive women on the dance floor and ZERO GUYS ON THE DANCEFLOOR. All of the dudes were near the bar or on the sidelines watching. I then walked up to the dance floor and started dancing in the center of their group. Before long I was dancing with six of the women, grinding them and spinning them around. The DJ was giving me props. He announced, "I see 25 ladies on the dance floor and only ONE very lucky guy. Everybody say hi to Mike lol." After I left the dance floor, I was getting eye contact from women all over the club.

Mike ~~The RAFC Sarger
 

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Do you actually like dancing?

Straight white American men tend to not dance, which is why I imagine it is such a valuable skill. Good for you. It's hard to pretend that I don't hate it.
 

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yeah, i always look at these first time dancers. yes they start the action going on the dance floor. but social proof? psssttt i won't tell u what me and buds think of these poeple.

ever hear of "fashionably late"?
 

Mike24ct

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>Do you actually like dancing?

Yes.

>Straight white American men tend to not dance, which is why I imagine it is such a valuable skill.

Agreed.


>psssttt i won't tell u what me and buds think of these poeple.

I'm not there to impress dudes.

>ever hear of "fashionably late"?

I think that concept is for parties. At clubs, I find the female/male ratio most favorable early on. Most dudes show up much later when the club is swamped with other dudes, and b*tch shields are at their max. I don't quite understand that.

>but social proof?

Granted, dancing is NOT considered game nor is it social proof in it of itself. But being seen with women and using that to attract other women is.

Mike
 

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Mike,

What happened with these women after that, esp. the two who grabbed you by the hands? Were they interested in you, or just trying to be alpha girls, or what? Does this lead to 1ns, #'s, or what?

I never go to clubs, so clue me in.

Thanks!
 

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>What happened with these women after that, esp. the two who >grabbed you by the hands? Were they interested in you, or just >trying to be alpha girls, or what? Does this lead to 1ns, #'s, or >what?

I did get a makeout with one of the girls in the bachelorette party. It was kinda cool because at one point, I had one girl in front of me, one behind, one on my left arm, and one on my right. I was making out with the one on the right while doing a ummm 4 way grind lol.

I was so suprised at how well things were going and having so much fun that I didn't think to try for a close in any of those situations. (I know.....I know, I'm kicking myself now lol.)

I did not get beyond grinding with the two that grabbed my hands. I think my mistake was failure to either escalate physically, or move them to another area of the club and run actual game on them.

I'm still experimenting with the escalation part.

Despite my age, I'm still relatively new to the game. I think my method can work well, but I need to expand on it and go for some kind of close.

As for as dancing goes, women LOVE to be spun around. I'm reading up on the "Spin Kiss." If I could incorporate that into my routine, I think it would help tremendously


Mike
 
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