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jhonny9546

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Some men are born into wealth, they inherit money or take over a family business that's been passed down for generations. This is quite common in places like Japan. Others are born with nothing, no inheritance, no family business, no financial safety net.


In the first case, the man is already considered "valuable" by society, and life tends to be much easier.
In the second case, it's incredibly difficult for a man to become rich or financially independent before he's 60.
By then, he's already considered old, maybe even too late to fully enjoy that success.



So we have:
  • A 25-year-old who inherited a million dollar and runs a butcher shop that brings in another million annually.
  • A 35-year-old who rents his home and works a government job earning 50k a year.

The second man probably won't become rich anytime soon, if ever. But in the meantime, is his lifestyle and income enough to give him a high SMV? So here’s the question:
For the category of women with a head on their shoulder, is a man with a regular job, a stable salary, working as an employee, office worker, or as a policemen or as a govenrment one, so earning a regular salary at a humble job, seen as a turnoff?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

plumber

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this is simple. the 25 years old is in a better position. sure we could brainstorm all sorts of exceptions, but generally in you question the 25 years old is more attractive.

often times older parents will consider these things for the children to be able to prepare them.

plenty of cases where the 25years old never advances while the 35 years old moves up or starts a side hustle.

at the start the 25 is ahead.

you already know this. is the question what should the 35 years old do??
 

JacquesMemoirs

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It’s true that when a boy is born into a powerful family 90% of his life struggles have already been won.

The majority of billionaire entrepreneurs had wealthy parents and business connections well concealed.
 
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