Be interesting & excite her

[zorg198]

Hello All,

Iv'e been dating this girl for couple of months and i would like your help.


I feel that i am boring and i don't like it , i mean i work in a good job , go to parties , go to the gym but that's it. when i am with her i feel like we don't have anything to talk about , i cant open a conversation with her about some stuff because i don't know from where to start. she also mentioned i am not exciting her , she says you kiss her and there and then you immidiatly go to business. i want to prevent that... can you guys help?

1. How to become more interesting?
2.Any ways to make her exciting?
3.How to have more conversation with her?

I want to change myself so i could be more open with her and she could see iv'e changed . not because of her because i want to do it for myself. i'm tired of the current me . i'm boring :cuss:

Joe.

 

[RedZone]

If you want to be more intereting follow your passions in life. Don't do it for a girl though do it for yourself. Girls come and go. The only constant is you.

 

[chath]

Instead of talking about things, you need to be telling stories. This is a significant thing I realized. To have stories, you need to do things. So start doing things. You may need to embellish them at first but after a short while you will have lots of stories to tell.

In these stories you can show your appealing characteristics. Instead of saying "i like having fun", why not tell a crazy story about you having SO MUCH FUN. This is part of the DJ bible I think. You need to provide a source of entertainment that is unique to you. She couldn't hear these things from anyone else. If you talk about sports or the weather or some **** you instantly become replaceable.

There was a post about imagining yourself as a kid again. You would climb things, run around crazy, dance and do all stupid ****. That's what girls are after. And they haven't changed since you two played in a sandbox together.

Lesson Thirteen Alas! Whenever the young man approached a woman, a thousand Don Juan philosophies came to thwart his peace. All these IDEAS clogged his action! Then he remembered how AWESOME he was with women when he was a little kid. He was always the Don Juan of the sandbox. He wondered, “Have women really CHANGED?” No, only in his mind. At heart, women are still little girls. So when he saw the luscious babe sitting there, he smiled and saw a bored little girl looking for fun. He would make fun of her, do physical action things with her, take her by the hand to lead her somewhere, and she thought he was the perfect guy. “I understand now the source of ****y and Funny…” he smiled.. “Charm is treating women like little girls.”

 

[zorg198]

So basickly doing stuff?

 

[VenX]

Instead of talking about things, you need to be telling stories. This is a significant thing I realized. To have stories, you need to do things. So start doing things. You may need to embellish them at first but after a short while you will have lots of stories to tell.

In these stories you can show your appealing characteristics. Instead of saying "i like having fun", why not tell a crazy story about you having SO MUCH FUN. This is part of the DJ bible I think. You need to provide a source of entertainment that is unique to you. She couldn't hear these things from anyone else. If you talk about sports or the weather or some **** you instantly become replaceable.

There was a post about imagining yourself as a kid again. You would climb things, run around crazy, dance and do all stupid ****. That's what girls are after. And they haven't changed since you two played in a sandbox together.

This is gold

 

[zorg198]

Yesterday she told me she wants to see her friends because she always come to me and she did'nt see them for two months. i left her home and went to mine. one hour left , she text me :

Her : Honey
Me- yes babe
Her: Miss you
Me - some thing i picked up her : You know where i am and what you need to do about it

Her : Lol , i miss my home and want to stay a bit.

I went with my friends to parties , came back like 5 AM and went straight to work . She woke up and text me good morning.


Today we spoke on the phone and shr invited me to come and sleep with her ...

WTF? what should i do? i think its a test , no?

 

[IHeartTrance]

Tell her shes boring and that the reason why things aren't going well. If you show that you're not afraid to let her go, she will realize that you're the reason why shes happy and more inclined to want to be with you.