Bday coming up GF made other plans beforehand

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Saw gfs Facebook that she had made plans to go on a night out, on the date of my bday. Shes had it planned 2 weeks ago, she is aware of the date. Naturally I tried my best to brush off and just ignore her and said i got stuff to do and took her home, she cried along the way asking what's up as shes noticed somethings not right, asking if something's wrong, so I just said "No, just tired, u think too much, so stop crying"

She sends a text straight after "Sorry bout crying babe noo idea why it happened tbh :S. Love yhoo xx"

Replied with "weirdo luv u 2 xx"

Her after "Itz the tabletz ok xx"

Left it at that.

What's the best way to go about this, as I'm pretty peeved that she set this up on the night of my bday. She seems really into me so I'm dumbfounded by it.

Help guys.

This is typed from my iPhone.

 

[Purefilth]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197347

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197347

im guessing this is the date mentioned in this thred.

she knew well in advance.
call her out on it. shes a selfish little bvtch,

personally, I would ignore her for a while, probably forever. or emotional detatchment, and used her as a cvm bucket till you find one worthy of your time. not because i give a huge **** about my birthday, but the back story there too.
go and have a brilliant birthday, she fvcked up, intentionally booked out on your b-day so go have fun without her.

 

[VladPatton]

Not much you CAN do , really. Just have a good night out with your friends, and re-examine your relationship sooner than later. She is not giving you much priority is she? Usually bf/gf birthdays are respected unless she's a pro athlete, a touring musician playing a stadium that night, due for an award ceremony, or is saving the life of someone on the operating table.

If none of the above, take a hard look as to wtf is going on.

 

[BadNews]

Why does the exact date of your birthday matter? Who gives a flying fvck honestly? How old are you? A REAL man doesn't let minor details like the date of his birthday bother him. I worked on my birthday for 16 hours this year, do you think I cried like a little girl?! FVCK NO! I celebrated on a different day. In fact I celebrated on THREE different days with different groups of people, and it was FVCKING AWESOME! Be a man; make other plans with your friends and have fun! She obviously has something important going on, so maintain your composure and celebrate with her on a different day?!?!?! Oh, don't forget to take your tampon out as well...this REALLY doesn't need to be a big deal...

-BadNews

 

[pdx1138]

No. It absolutely DOES matter.

This is WAY not right.

She should have asked you what your plans for your Birthday were.

But since she didn't YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HER OUT ON IT.
It IS possible she had a brain fart and forgot. I forgot just the other
day my niece birthday was this saturday, I had an invitation, but made
plans to go to the beach this weekend...total mind fart on my part.

Every woman I've dated around my birthday, wanted to be there for it and was.
One of them cancelled plans she'd made with friends prior to knowing when it was.

 

[BadNews]

No. It absolutely DOES matter.

This is WAY not right.

She should have asked you what your plans for your Birthday were.

But since she didn't YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HER OUT ON IT.
It IS possible she had a brain fart and forgot. I forgot just the other
day my niece birthday was this saturday, I had an invitation, but made
plans to go to the beach this weekend...total mind fart on my part.

Every woman I've dated around my birthday, wanted to be there for it and was.
One of them cancelled plans she'd made with friends prior to knowing when it was.

pdx1138, answer me this: do you usually get mani's and pedi's with them on THE DAY of your birthday too? Women, pvssies and small children make a big deal about the date of their birthday. MEN will grab a couple buddies on a date NEAR (within 1-2 weeks) their birthday and have a good time. The point is they can still celebrate his birthday, but it doesn't have to be ON his birthday. It literally is not a big deal. If you want your woman to think you're a childish cry baby, go ahead and make a big deal about it. If you want her to think you're a cool headed strong MAN, then make plans to celebrate with her a day or two after. You will STILL have a good time, you will STILL have birthday sex, you will STILL be 'manly' to her.

 

[pdx1138]

Hey now, no need to go there slick.

That's your opinion.

If a woman has high interest she WILL be at your birthday....that's my experience and all I have to say on the matter.

 

[Kbomb]

Just go out and have a good time. remember to take pics with some hotties and post em to FB though under the heading <insert name here>'s BIRTHDAY!!!

she will feel like a giant **** bag.

 

[BadNews]

Hey now, no need to go there slick.

That's your opinion.

If a woman has high interest she WILL be at your birthday.

Unless she has something going on i.e. something that has been planned weeks in advance with a large group of people.

And yes, she WILL still be there to celebrate your birthday! SO REJOICE! But why should it matter if you celebrate on a Tuesday or a Wednesday? It doesn't. TRUST me 'slick,' I grew up in a house full of women, I've heard the chit chat about 'boys' ALL my life. I know how women think/feel. I can 100% guarantee you if you make a big deal about THE DATE OF YOUR BIRTHDAY, she WILL tell her friends about it, and they WILL talk about what a pvssy loser you are, and her IL WILL go down.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

Birthdays are pointless and dumb so naturally girls care about them. It should be a little concerning that she doesn't care about yours.

 

[NewAndImproved]

^^^^

This. I get what BadNews is saying. After my 18th, birthdays weren't so much of a big deal. No big fanfare. Just a casual get together with friends.

But being sentimental is the very thing girls are supposed to be. Whenever I've been with a girl around my birthday and I'm being all casual about it she's like "well let's have a party! Let's go out! Invite your friends and I'll invite mine. Create a Facebook page. Come on. It's your birthday after all."

The fact that she didn't do any of that, much less MADE PLANS APART FROM YOU, is a huge red flag.