Bar Work

[chris martin]

I recently started working in my uncle's bar i love it plenty of women and flirting its great up until now there hasnt been a down side.

I recently got friendly with this girl comes in every Sunday for Kareoke she showed me her playboy tattoo and we had a few good laughs. A few days later her mom who also works in the bar give me her daughters phone number.

So the kind young man that i am i took the daughter out on a game of mini putt. After we listened to music and talked for a bit Good time . She is a nice girl, good lookin but we didnt kiss as I have feelings for someone else. i didnt tell her now she is txtin me frequently lookin for a second date but lastnite i got to flirting with this other girl who i have the feelings for and wanted to go out with for a longish time who also works in the bar with me and we kissed and are going out on a date tonite.

You may be reading this and sayin oh happy days things are going well but how do i let the first girl know and what do i tell her i am not too concerned about the mom although her thoughts on me will change.

The one thing i have learned is dont mix business and pleasure.

 

[JJMcLure]

Screw them both.

At the least, keep her on the backburner in case this one doesn't work out. It's good to have chicks after you, it drives other chicks to you.

Don't be so serious so soon (a major way to frighten chicks off). You shouldn't have "feelings" for a chick who isn't your GF (attraction yes, feelings no). Unless you're in a committed relationship, you don't have to be monogamous to one chick. Kissing means nothing. If you aren't fvcking one of them, you are free to be fvcking another. Going out on dates doesn't mean you're exclusive. Fvcking one of these chicks doesn't mean she will be (or want to be) your GF. Don't limit your options.

 

[dice]

I just graduated bartending school i cant wait to get behind a bar and work my dj magic

 

[chris martin]

Hey guys thanks for the advice just a quick update of what has since happend. I am taking your advice and not makin myself exclusive to any of them. I have been single now for about 6 months and just over the last month i have really been enjoying it. Anyways thanks for the reply's much appreciated!!!