Every friday, I go to a bar alone just to check the scene and hopefully dance with a few girls. The problem is that without alcohol, I can't seem to approach girls randomly, especially the girls that I see there all the time. How would you simply go about asking a girl to dance free of alcohol and social proof? I don't drink because I have to drive home.
Bar Approaches Without Alcohol
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BigWillyStyle
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Just do it! Sorry only thing you can do though... I admit though I'm a big pvssy when I go out and I'm not drinking, but that doesn't happen to often.
Maybe you can catch some public transport instead so you can have a few drinks?
Maybe you can catch some public transport instead so you can have a few drinks?
I don't live in an area where a lot of public transport exist. Basically, you need a car.
I understand what you guys are saying about just doing it. I don't think I have a problem approaching. I think the problem is how to react to rejection, not feeling embarrassed, and not wanting to leave afterwards. With a couple of drinks, a rejection unphases me. I just go to the next girl I find attractive.
I understand what you guys are saying about just doing it. I don't think I have a problem approaching. I think the problem is how to react to rejection, not feeling embarrassed, and not wanting to leave afterwards. With a couple of drinks, a rejection unphases me. I just go to the next girl I find attractive.
