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Been dating 2 women over the last 6 weeks and both have come out dry. Just felt like venting and hearing some feedback.

The first one is just into herself if that makes any sense. I know her friends quite well and there is no one else in the picture - almost like she is going through a hate men thing. Her last LTR was almost a year ago now.
Question: Do women really go through a "I hate men phase"? Or is this just her way of saying she not interested? I've dealt with this essentially nexting and letting her come back to me.

Second one has progressed along to the point of sleeping together with a stupid kicker of no sex as in another committed relationship albeit very long distance - we had the lets "step back and be friends right now talk 'till things are worked out abroad".
Do most women have this committment wall of sorts?
I'm a little unsure how to react to this one since we are already past the friend phase.

I have a another prospect in the works which I think I'll be focusing on for now.

Thanks for the input.
 

iqqi

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i'd say the first one is maybe interested in you, but not in a relationship or anything where she will need to invest emotion in you. she probaly likes the feeling of not giving a **** about any guy, and wants to hang on to that feeling until she meets someone worth taking a risk for-maybe not you.

the other girl is just using you as her emotional tampon. do you like the use? do you like the abuse?
 

Grey Fox

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The other two sound like unnessary drama, ditch em and if they come around its up to you.

-Grey Fox
 

trajhenkhet

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If either of them disses you its back of the dating bus for both. Date a lot of women till one shows ya she's more than the others
 
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