bad situation

[hb]

I got 10 days before I go on vacation to another country.... I got this girl im supposed to hang out with before I go and she dont know that I'm going. Im feelin her, I think shes feelin me too.
Now the problem is, I dont want to come on too strong, Me and her are supposed to hang out for the first time probably this week or next week, Im going to be gone on the 28th of this month. I really want to hook up with this girl before i go so should i just make a move the first time we hang out?
Im going to call her tommorow and ask her when she wants to hang out but i dont want to seem too available even though I really do wanna get with her. What would be a good thing to do in my situation?

 

[Sojourner]

Get her home phone number to set up a casual date before you leave for your vacation. On the date, be your coc*y and funny self and wow her with your personality. Say "goodbye" to her and don't e-mail or phone her during your well deserved get-a-way.

Give women the gift "of missing you".

 

[hb]

lmaoo na i dont got patients like that, i'll let her miss me after i get some of that ass. but i dont want to come on too strong cause that ALWAYS scares girls away

 

[Brasco]

Don't ask her out on a date. Invite her to join you somewhere(where ever it might be, thats up to you) but if you don't want to come on to strong, don't invite her to a fancy restaurant for dinner. You could invite her to a concert, a sport event(if she likes sports, alot do these days), for a walk in the park, or maybe out to a pub for a drink, but not at a wide open friday night bar scene. Find out her interest if you don't already know, then take it from there where you should take her.

Lets say you want to take her to a concert, this is how I would do it:

Me: Hi Kim

Her: Hi Brasco

Me: What are you doing on Thursday?

Her: Nothing planed (lets just say she is available, if she is into you she will make herself available)

Me: Dave Matthews is playing thursday and there is still a few tickets left. I am going to see him, just though I would ask you if you wanted to go with me.

Her: Yeah sure I love DM( like I said, if she has a high IL, she will go)

You see I didn't ask her out on a date, I asked her if she wanted to join me, like if I was going to see DM with or without her. That way their is no need to get all nervous, you are just going out for a good time, hopefuly. If you see things are going good then you can get more agressive. Good Luck!!