WonderingDriven2
New Member
- Joined
- Feb 10, 2013
- Messages
- 1
- Reaction score
- 0
I haven't posted on here since High School with a username I have since forgotten, but once again I am here for some advice. Let me start from saying I've become soo much more confident and I know so much more about girls than I knew in High School. I'm currently a Sophomore in college and went from not even kissing a girl in High School (obsessed over one girl, and I never got with her or dated her), to consistently hooking up in college. From making out at parties, to bringing girls back to my room I really can't believe how well I do, although I definitely have a ton of room for improvement. I have f-cked 2 different girls so far, one for only one time and another in a fck buddy situation, and gone very far with multiple other girls, including the one that is messing with my head right now.
A couple months ago, three or four weeks before before Winter Break I took her on a date, hooked up after that, and then hooked up twice more before break where we went to different states. I was out of the country for half of it then we only talked once before we went back to school. Now its been a month and I haven't been able to hook up with her. I always was the one to start the text conversations, even when we were hooking up, and now its the same. The way she texts me is with long responses and generally very good, the same as it was before. The only difference is every time I try and hang out (about once a week) with her alone now she gives an excuse (some legit, some not).
The crazy thing is before break I was getting tired of her, but now that I can't have her I want her more than ever!!! (also might have to do with that fact I'm in a little drought) It doesn't seem fair. How do I know if a girl is just playing hard to get, or if she is actually not interested. And what could make a girl from hooking up with you 3 times (and sleeping over) to not hooking up with me at all. Its just really confusing me because I thought I knew how girl's tended to think but now I just have no idea. Some other info-- definitely a more reserved and shy girl, but not so quiet in bed. We also have some of the same friends not sure if that changes anything.
Thanks guys
A couple months ago, three or four weeks before before Winter Break I took her on a date, hooked up after that, and then hooked up twice more before break where we went to different states. I was out of the country for half of it then we only talked once before we went back to school. Now its been a month and I haven't been able to hook up with her. I always was the one to start the text conversations, even when we were hooking up, and now its the same. The way she texts me is with long responses and generally very good, the same as it was before. The only difference is every time I try and hang out (about once a week) with her alone now she gives an excuse (some legit, some not).
The crazy thing is before break I was getting tired of her, but now that I can't have her I want her more than ever!!! (also might have to do with that fact I'm in a little drought) It doesn't seem fair. How do I know if a girl is just playing hard to get, or if she is actually not interested. And what could make a girl from hooking up with you 3 times (and sleeping over) to not hooking up with me at all. Its just really confusing me because I thought I knew how girl's tended to think but now I just have no idea. Some other info-- definitely a more reserved and shy girl, but not so quiet in bed. We also have some of the same friends not sure if that changes anything.
Thanks guys