Avoiding religious girls on cold approaches...

[josekortez]

The funny part is that this thread continued for 2 pages without me having any input in it for about 3 days.

Rather than putting a pause on my DJing after this, I just waited until last night when I went to a local bar and looked for sluts. Even got 2 numbers from said sluts.

Good times.

 

[Cheat_LBJ]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
There is a fine line between holding your own views and pure, blatant, offensive bigotry.

You just spat on that line, stomped on it, and crossed it. Try to show just a little respect for someone else's views.

I have no quarrell with anyone who professes a belief in a higher power. I will not sit and debate the point with anyone and I will not single you out for special treatement negatively or positively.

It's not bigotry at all, it's a personal decision. When you start a thread soliciting opinions on religion, you're going to get my opinion on religion. If all you want is for everyone to say "Oh, well, you have to respect everyone..blah blah" then don't start a thread.

I'm not in the business of saying things just so people can hold hands and feel all warm and fuzzy about themselves.

 

[SmooveYoungin]

Don't be afraid of religious women. They have the same feeling you have. However, they express God in their feelings about who's entering their life. You have the same feeling about women and they have the same feeling about men.

Just image if you had a alcholic female. Whoa, my fellow DJ... A religious women will at least give you a little more perspective about life than some alcholic female. I'll take a religious women any day. If you rather party and get your groove on, than party and leave the religious woman alone.

Religious Women

1. Love sex
2. Love intimacy at the park
3. Love family
4. Know who they are
5. Know the ways of the world
6. Not OF the world (materialistic)
7. Work twice as hard to catch a good DJ
8. Open to people
9. Allow you to explore other women
10. Most of All are people too

If you need to explore, I would not leave the religious women. I would have multiple women and have other women too. Meaning, have HER to go out with and compare ALL the other women in your circle...

I BET THE RELIGIOUS WOMEN WILL WIN...GUARANTEED...

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
I have no quarrell with anyone who professes a belief in a higher power. I will not sit and debate the point with anyone and I will not single you out for special treatement negatively or positively.

It's not bigotry at all, it's a personal decision. When you start a thread soliciting opinions on religion, you're going to get my opinion on religion. If all you want is for everyone to say "Oh, well, you have to respect everyone..blah blah" then don't start a thread.

I'm not in the business of saying things just so people can hold hands and feel all warm and fuzzy about themselves.

Your tone in the previous post was offensive and demeaning to people who hold religious views. Read again what you wrote before.

I'll hilight some of the most offensive parts for you:

"I find religious people to be boring and depressing people. I personally think it is a sign of mental disease..."

"and my own beliefs in the idiocy of religion (God is an imaginary friend for adults)"


So according to you, religious people are:

1) Depressed
2) Boring
3) Mentally unstable
4) Stupid (read: "idiocy of religion")

Your above quotes suggest you are intolerant of religious people and hold prejudice towards them such as they are depressed, boring, mentally unstable, etc.

Holding prejudice and intolerance towards people who share different views is bigotry.


I hope you realize in the future that you can express your opinion without demeaning and alienating a whole grop of people as being stupid, boring and depressed nut jobs.

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Get real people.

All the dude was asking for was advice, not an argument.

I see it happen all the time with "religious" folks. Someone gets offended and starts an argument (or never-ending "discussion")rather than just forgiving the person who wrote the supposedly "offending" material and forgetting. Ironic, isn't it?

As for a response to the ORIGINAL post......

Seems to me that you're uncomfortable with her response to the point that it creeps you out. It would me. I'd drop a girl like that in a second. As far as I can tell, you did nothing to warrant a response like that. It could also have been a ploy to get you to drop her, as she did mention someone else anyway.

As Fanren so aptly put it, "would never spray bible verses at a stranger", he himself being a Christian.

Looks like you dropped this chick anyway, and are back on track.......

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by LongDrinkofWater
Get real people.

All the dude was asking for was advice, not an argument.

I see it happen all the time with "religious" folks. Someone gets offended and starts an argument (or never-ending "discussion")rather than just forgiving the person who wrote the supposedly "offending" material and forgetting. Ironic, isn't it?

As for a response to the ORIGINAL post......

Seems to me that you're uncomfortable with her response to the point that it creeps you out. It would me. I'd drop a girl like that in a second. As far as I can tell, you did nothing to warrant a response like that. It could also have been a ploy to get you to drop her, as she did mention someone else anyway.

As Fanren so aptly put it, "would never spray bible verses at a stranger", he himself being a Christian.

Looks like you dropped this chick anyway, and are back on track.......

When someone makes an ignorant, offensive comment, I'm going to call them on it. Sometimes people just don't understand how they actually come across to people and showing them might help. I've had people thank me because they didn't realize how their words and opinions were coming off in a negative light. Sometimes that just slips the person's mind because they're so focused on just getting their own opinion across. The result is that they can't put themselves in the other person's shoes to see how they are actually expressing themselves.

I'm not very religious, I just don't like to see comments like the one I pointed out. There is nothing "ironic" (an abuse of a term that does not fit the context of the subject) about pointing out a flaw. Forgive and forget yes, but make the mistake known first or else there is nothing to forgive.

I only replied a second time because he refused to see that his comments are negatively based towards a group of people. So I clarified my position by showing him exactly what quotes I'm referring to. I'm not trying to point and shake the finger at him. I'm just trying to show him how he's coming across and what message he's giving because he may not realize how offensively it can be interpreted.

 

[Craig Reeves]

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK, josekortez, listen up....

Whether this girl is religious, non-religious, or whatever had absolutely, positively NOTHING to do with why she rejected you. A woman's attraction level for a guy has nothing to do with her religion. Maybe if you knew ANYTHING at ALL about women then you would know that.

You wanna know the REAL reason as to why she rejected you? It's cause YOU DIDN'T MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU. PERIOD. END OF STORY. DONE.

You can blame her faith, you can blame her personality, you can blame all of this stuff, but face it man - if she were REALLY attracted to you I GUARRANTEE you that she would NOT have rejected giving you her phone number.

Now I see you on this forum complaining that she gave you bible verses and was "trying to convert you". Here's the deal on that one....

You see, anytime you convey LOWER STATUS to a woman, she will in some way or another COMMUNICATE to you that you are NOT good enough for her and that you need to change. This is the truth, so you need to face that fact. MOST women will either acheive this by blowing you off, or acting stuck-up toward you. THIS woman did it by giving you bible verses. She didn't give you bible verses just because, jose, she gave you bible verses 'cause she felt like you NEEDED them.

It's the same thing as you trying to get with a woman but she then starts telling you that your game sucks and that you need to work on your communication skills with women.

Women don't spend that long helping out strangers unless they see them as pathetic - ESPECIALLY attractive Christian women. She was ministering to you because she felt you were WEAK. Hell, *I* would think your pretty flippin' weak too, b!tching and moaning about your job that you hate to a complete stranger.

She was RELUCTANT to email you back but the only reason she did is because she felt SORRY for you, dumba$$. *I* certainly don't feel sorry for ya, but she does.

The sum of the story is this - The problem isn't her religion, the problem is YOU. I know that....and SHE knows that, too. So if you want to hate her because she's Christian, go ahead. But it's pretty pathetic to hate a girl just because she didn't want you (oh wait, we've established the fact that you are indeed pathetic).

So b!tch and complain all you want, you seem to be good at that. Just go away, suck your thumb, and cry on your pillow 'cause nobody here's trying to hear it - that goes for the rest of you pathetic little AFC's who cry and moan just because "religious chicks" can see through your weak "let's her drunk so she can sleep with me" game.

With loving regards,
Craig Reeves

 

[fanren]

^^ very very interesting.

 

[tigre]

Invite her over to you house to ¨pray¨and ¨read the bible¨

 

[josekortez]

Craig, I appreciate your opinions, but let it be known that I didn't portray an aura of loserness. I am a executive at my company, however, I told her that I don't enjoy all aspects of my job when we started talking about our careers. Initially, I was looking at the digital cameras, she was standing there, and I asked her for her opinion on the quality of said cameras like any good DJ would. Later, I asked her if I could call her, she said e-mail was preferred, so I didn't think much of it from there.

Most Americans aren't happy with their jobs, but I don't see how you think me having that opinion translates into me seeing myself as a loser. Maybe she did, but as you can tell from that e-mail, she spends too much time considering every aspect of a lot of trivial things...

I refuse to get into a tit-for-tat on each point with a fellow DJ such as yourself. I will say that many of the women in this area are hypocrites because they pose as religious for as long as they can stand to (I've lived in this area off and on for the last 25 years). I, like many other guys on this forum, just wish that these chicks would get off their soapboxes.

 

[bbestar]

I don't consider myself religious...

I just have a personal relationship with Christ, and I believe this is the case for this lady.

Having a personal relationship with Christ, is believing what the Word of God says about Christ himself, and that he has a Free Gift of eternal life and to accept it..

If you deny it, thats your decision... just as I made my decision.

This lady has high standards,

If you want to pursue this one, you have to keep it real... if you play games, she will see through it... Im pretty sure you yourself would have to change your standards.

This is coming from my view of this.
Craig has the dj view of this situation

God Bless, to all and all

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by MercutioTHEGREAT
YEAH OKAY

not the one he's talking about... christian chicks are THEY MOST prude chicks n this side of the universe!!!

I have an ex whose parents were both ministers. She even told me i was going to hell because i'm not a christian.

We still still had tons of sex.