Avoid the Online Trap and Meet More Women

[Aristippus]

Stop being so available 24 hours a day. Drop Facebook and any other social networking garbage. The world functioned just fine before all of that and men were still finding girlfriends, wives, and short-term flings without it. Your only online presence should be your e-mail. That's it. You've killed the excitement and mystery of getting to know you with all of your online profiles and social networking.

Pictures of your dog. Lists of things you like. Your friends and family all grouped together on one page. You think you're special? By doing this you are like every other person out there. By behaving like everyone else, even if your life story is unique, you've already slotted yourself into the same category with every other a$$hole and Paris Hilton wannabee who desperately wants their 15-minutes of fame.

Do you really think you could accomplish with women, on Facebook or other networking sites, what you can't in person? Highly doubtful. You've devalued yourself by killing the mystery and excitement and by making your attention too easily and readily available. So what if the woman you talked with keeps telling you that you need to get on Facebook or that women ask if you're on Facebook and you tell them you're not?

Be different in a good way. Stop trying to please everybody. Quit being so available. Stop following the crowd for no good reason. And stop thinking that all of a sudden, because you're so easily available online that you're going to meet hordes of women in person. If anything your excessive online presence is more likely to hurt than help you. No more busybodies in your business. No more fake friendships. No more constantly feeling the need to check up on things. No more false hopes of finding an easy way to meet women without going out. Now get out there, have fun, make friends, and meet the women where they ARE! In the real world.

 

[Aristippus]

p.s. Remember, if you're already plugged in to all of that crap the solution is simple. I can say it in a word. DELETE! Delete, delete, delete, and delete some more. Delete until there is nothing left except an email address. Now relax and take a deep breath. Go outside. Smell the roses. Enjoy the peace of mind. Enjoy your privacy and go experience the world.

 

[alotofpots]

I can't agree here. I think not having Facebook (or some other form of social networking profile) nowadays would make someone seem weird, out of touch and anti-social; not mysterious. Are you going to suggest ditching our cell phones as well because they weren't around in the old days?

Just because you have a Facebook doesn't mean you have to be available on it 24/7. Social networking is a great tool for meeting women, especially in small towns where there isn't a lot going on "fun" wise. I have met many a girlfriend or hook up over social networking sites. My last girlfriend (HB8), whom I dated for over a year, was initially asked out over Facebook after briefly speaking to her at a party months prior. Social networking is just another tool; use it.

 

[Alvafe]

on this I agree with alotof, you don't need to delete, you should if you are that kind of people who like to write, good night face, if you can control yourself, log in only one time a day for sometime, kep it small, not so many photos, and don't post many personal things of yourself

 

[Colossus]

I think that's overkill. I mean, getting rid of fb/twitter/whatever else probably wouldn't HURT your game...but I think having a minimalist fb is fine. Keep pics to a minimum and have your wall private. I mostly use it just to check on happenings with old friends.

 

[donking]

Agree with Aristippus. No need for FB, twitter, etc., once you get out of the college years.

 

[Down Low]

Agree with Aristippus. No need for FB, twitter, etc., once you get out of the college years.

Oh no no no no! Stop right there!

Didn't you say you were in med school? You're in your college years, right? So you agree only inasmuch as it applies to others, but not to you. Then you really don't agree at all, do you?

Think about it. You figured out that there's something fundamentally wrong with a yellow girl who wants white men -- as there is with white men who want yellow girls, black men who want white girls, etc. Going after sex partners who look strikingly different from the women in your family -- is essentially self-loathing, genetic self-castration, social self-exile, etc. Time to disassemble the engine, reverse engineer the sabotage, and rebuild your life. Don't stop with the issue of cuckoo Asian chicks. Improve yourself in every way.

 

[donking]

med school is not college. finished college 9 years ago bro. i also don't use fb/twitter/linkedin any of that sheet.