Attractive women in their 30s, early 40s who are waitresses

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This is something else I've noticed too is restaurants with women working them jobs in the 34 to 45 age range. I mean, they're older but attractive looking. Are most doing these because they're single moms working two jobs or I'm assuming single and needing two incomes? Many times I don't see rings on fingers. In addition to being decent looking I mean they also don't have any tattoos or piercings and are clean looking.
 

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I stay away from waitresses

Even at high end resturants I've met a few and all is not what it seems.
Ive noticed the last couple years women waitresses are snotty too and provide crap service. I mean slow, goof off with coworkers in the back, arrogant, etc and just ditzy and lazy. Men waiters seem to hustle more and provide better service. Literally every job I'm seeing this. Women not caring.
 

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Prob. losers who couldn't make it in life. You get one pregnant, you're fvcked; and not in a good way. Waitressing is a stepping stone one goes through when they are in the beginning of their adult lives, not in the middle of them. Just basically means they have really nothing to offer but serving food. 16-28, no prob. 30+, problem.
 

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Prob. losers who couldn't make it in life. You get one pregnant, you're fvcked; and not in a good way. Waitressing is a stepping stone one goes through when they are in the beginning of their adult lives, not in the middle of them. Just basically means they have really nothing to offer but serving food. 16-28, no prob. 30+, problem.
So you wouldn't recommend hitting on these milfs?
 

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So you wouldn't recommend hitting on these milfs?
Theyre the biggest *****s on the block, and they themselves are the plate spinner.

excellent at making their SM look all virtuous as well.
 

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Theyre the biggest *****s on the block, and they themselves are the plate spinner.

excellent at making their SM look all virtuous as well.
And her if you dig into their past you’ll notice they can’t keep a relationship going longer than a few months or a year. Maybe married once that lasted 2-3 years. They’re their own worst enemy but will never admit they’re the problem.
 

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Pretty broad brush you all are painting with. Kinda the same thing you all complain about.

@biggoal is out there saying everyone else is the problem but the guy in the mirror. If you bozos had your $hit together the waitresses that you so love to denigrate would be giving you their numbers or flirting more with you for better tips.

Listen boys it doesn't take much of a DJ to treat someone in the service industry with some sincere respect and get good service because of it. A portion of thiem might think you are attractive AND charming.

Christ, you are all your own worst enemy.
 

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Pretty broad brush you all are painting with. Kinda the same thing you all complain about.

@biggoal is out there saying everyone else is the problem but the guy in the mirror. If you bozos had your $hit together the waitresses that you so love to denigrate would be giving you their numbers or flirting more with you for better tips.

Listen boys it doesn't take much of a DJ to treat someone in the service industry with some sincere respect and get good service because of it. A portion of thiem might think you are attractive AND charming.

Christ, you are all your own worst enemy.
I dont tip bases on their sex or looks. You could be hb9 but if you give slow or crap service you give crap tips.
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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@biggoal is out there saying everyone else is the problem but the guy in the mirror. If you bozos had your $hit together the waitresses that you so love to denigrate would be giving you their numbers or flirting more with you for better tips.

Listen boys it doesn't take much of a DJ to treat someone in the service industry with some sincere respect and get good service because of it. A portion of thiem might think you are attractive AND charming.

Christ, you are all your own worst enemy.
quite the contrary, I think its quite clear OP will get the feelies the minute he bangs a waitress, and we are pre warning him what will happen, and how good they are at what they do. As long as he can match how good she is at being a player, then its no probs

he will be all thinking hes met the one.
 

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quite the contrary, I think its quite clear OP will get the feelies the minute he bangs a waitress, and we are pre warning him what will happen, and how good they are at what they do. As long as he can match how good she is at being a player, then its no probs

he will be all thinking hes met the one.
That's part of growth....you aren't letting him run because he is gonna skin his knees if he falls....

He's saying he doesn't want to run because the ball is the wrong color..or size or he doesn't like the game...
 

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So you wouldn't recommend hitting on these milfs?
For fun, sure, but just know the risks. If she's this easy for you, she's just as easy for someone else. Then you have to worry about increased chances of STDs as well as an unplanned pregnancy because she lied that she was on birth control.
 

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women well into their late 20s and beyond who are waitresses, bartenders, cashiers, ect, no matter how hot should always be avoided. Even for just a fuk, your better of getting a prostitute. A man who has a high or average SMV dating one of these types will only lower your value and make you a scavenger.

This is actually a benefit to modern day feminism, women are expected to at minimum have a college degree and be educated.
 
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Mom and I went to dinner at the beach and had one tonight. Was about HB7, mid 30s range. Looked clean, good teeth, no tats and such. This was 330 in the afternoon we got there.

I assume this is a second job possibly. I can't see them surviving on that unless they live at home or maybe they have another job, possibly single mom, or no degree, or fluff degree,
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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If you wanna bang em so much get a job working there. You'll have plenty of opportunities and be able to have multiple interactions with them throughout the day/month(s) to bang em Vs with cold approach maybe you'll only get one shot.
 

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If you wanna bang em so much get a job working there. You'll have plenty of opportunities and be able to have multiple interactions with them throughout the day/month(s) to bang em Vs with cold approach maybe you'll only get one shot.
So you suggest working crap jobs just to meet women?
 

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So you suggest working crap jobs just to meet women?
Think you should ask yourself what do you want from this life. Is what your doing now getting you closer to where you want to be? If one part of that vision involves banging scores of hb7s and you see a realistic path that can make that a reality. Sure why not?
 

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Op u are 37. Girls that age are too old for u.
 

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So you suggest working crap jobs just to meet women?
This is called BartenderMaxxing. I wouldn't recommend it as the regular job, but it might be a good thing to do part-time on the weekend for yes, the ability to plate. A great response as to why someone with a good career would want to sideline as a bartender is that he's looking down the road at opening his own bar/restaurant.
 
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