I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
1.Don't shower women with gifts.
Reason: Women get sick of it and loose the attraction. Then, she will just use you until someone better comes along.
2.Don't call her and see her everyday.
Reason: Women will get tired of you and again, loose attraction.
Instead: Only see her around 2-4 days out of the week. Be a challenge, give her the gift of missing you. Better yet; get a life, job, hobby, friends. Whatever it is you don't have to follow around some dumb hoe all the time.
3.Don't be predictable.
Reason: Being predictable is boring! :yawn: Stop going to the same places, doing the same things, wearing the same clothes, telling the same jokes.
Instead: Constantly surprise your woman. Pursue her aggressively, then back off. Give her some mixed signals. Break a date once in a while or show up unexpectedly at her doorstep. You don't want to overdo it, but don't let her get bored. Put on different colognes so she will be anticipating what you smell like next time. Get creative and do something she won't expect from you.
4.You talk too much.
Most guys yak way too much. They talk about things that don't raise Interest Level. They don't even think to ask themselves, "Is this going to help my cause?" No, they just blabber.
Instead: Focus your attention on her. Ask her questions about her self.
5.Don't spill your guts to women early or too often.
Reason: Some women get creeped out, some don't feel the same way, others use it to their advantage. Women will also get tired of hearing you say "I love you." every day. You do not love a girl only after a week of knowing her. Keep it to yourself, she should be the wondering where you stand of how you feel about her.
Instead: Wait for her to tell you she likes you or loves you. THEN, you know she really does.
6.Quit being a spineless chump.
Reason: Women don't like guys who let women make all the decsions and choices.
Instead: You make the plans, you decide when and where, stand up for yourself. If she does something you don't like, tell her. If she wants to do something you don't want to do, tell her. Quit doing everything for her. She is perfectly capable of doing things herself. Quit apologizing all the time for something you should't need to. Have some fvcking back bone here people.
7.Jealousy
Reason: Women don't like guys who have to call her every 30 minutes to find out who she is with, where she is at, and who she is with. Would you like your girlfriend on your back all the time? It makes them feel you do not trust them. Stop freaking out and jumping to conclusions when you see her talking with other guys. Women want to have fun and be social too.
Instead: Just relax man. She is with you, right? Unless she is communicating with her ex(s) or being too flirty with other guys. Then, you can put your girl in check; or find a new one who respects you more.
8.You use baby talk and try to be cute.
Reason: It is cheesy, kitschy, silly, nausea-inducing. Need I say more? Baby talk is for babies, so don't do it to her.
Instead: You can have the odd pet name and cute inside joke, but leave it at that. Unless she baby talks to you first and gives you a strong indication that she likes that kind of thing, do yourself a favor and ditch it entirely.
9.Poor hygiene/manners.
Reason: This should be a given fellas. Women don't want a guy who smells bad, has bad breath, greasy/oily hair, farts and burps all the time.
Instead: Take a fvcking shower, wear deoderant, wash your sh!t. Maybe shave up a little bit, wear some nice looking clothes. Would you want a woman who didn't care about her appearance, manners, or what she smells like? I don't think so...
10.Bragging.
Reason: It shows that your insecure and trying to impress her.
Instead: Show her your talents or what you can do. If you play a musical instrument. Take her to your house and impress her then. Or let her bring it up and mention it.
11.Over complimenting her.
Reason: It shows your just kissing a$$.
Instead: Compliment her once in awhile. Like if she has a new hair style, dress, jewerly...ect.
Just some things I could think of at the moment. If anyone else has more attraction killers post them too.
Reason: Women get sick of it and loose the attraction. Then, she will just use you until someone better comes along.
2.Don't call her and see her everyday.
Reason: Women will get tired of you and again, loose attraction.
Instead: Only see her around 2-4 days out of the week. Be a challenge, give her the gift of missing you. Better yet; get a life, job, hobby, friends. Whatever it is you don't have to follow around some dumb hoe all the time.
3.Don't be predictable.
Reason: Being predictable is boring! :yawn: Stop going to the same places, doing the same things, wearing the same clothes, telling the same jokes.
Instead: Constantly surprise your woman. Pursue her aggressively, then back off. Give her some mixed signals. Break a date once in a while or show up unexpectedly at her doorstep. You don't want to overdo it, but don't let her get bored. Put on different colognes so she will be anticipating what you smell like next time. Get creative and do something she won't expect from you.
4.You talk too much.
Most guys yak way too much. They talk about things that don't raise Interest Level. They don't even think to ask themselves, "Is this going to help my cause?" No, they just blabber.
Instead: Focus your attention on her. Ask her questions about her self.
5.Don't spill your guts to women early or too often.
Reason: Some women get creeped out, some don't feel the same way, others use it to their advantage. Women will also get tired of hearing you say "I love you." every day. You do not love a girl only after a week of knowing her. Keep it to yourself, she should be the wondering where you stand of how you feel about her.
Instead: Wait for her to tell you she likes you or loves you. THEN, you know she really does.
6.Quit being a spineless chump.
Reason: Women don't like guys who let women make all the decsions and choices.
Instead: You make the plans, you decide when and where, stand up for yourself. If she does something you don't like, tell her. If she wants to do something you don't want to do, tell her. Quit doing everything for her. She is perfectly capable of doing things herself. Quit apologizing all the time for something you should't need to. Have some fvcking back bone here people.
7.Jealousy
Reason: Women don't like guys who have to call her every 30 minutes to find out who she is with, where she is at, and who she is with. Would you like your girlfriend on your back all the time? It makes them feel you do not trust them. Stop freaking out and jumping to conclusions when you see her talking with other guys. Women want to have fun and be social too.
Instead: Just relax man. She is with you, right? Unless she is communicating with her ex(s) or being too flirty with other guys. Then, you can put your girl in check; or find a new one who respects you more.
8.You use baby talk and try to be cute.
Reason: It is cheesy, kitschy, silly, nausea-inducing. Need I say more? Baby talk is for babies, so don't do it to her.
Instead: You can have the odd pet name and cute inside joke, but leave it at that. Unless she baby talks to you first and gives you a strong indication that she likes that kind of thing, do yourself a favor and ditch it entirely.
9.Poor hygiene/manners.
Reason: This should be a given fellas. Women don't want a guy who smells bad, has bad breath, greasy/oily hair, farts and burps all the time.
Instead: Take a fvcking shower, wear deoderant, wash your sh!t. Maybe shave up a little bit, wear some nice looking clothes. Would you want a woman who didn't care about her appearance, manners, or what she smells like? I don't think so...
10.Bragging.
Reason: It shows that your insecure and trying to impress her.
Instead: Show her your talents or what you can do. If you play a musical instrument. Take her to your house and impress her then. Or let her bring it up and mention it.
11.Over complimenting her.
Reason: It shows your just kissing a$$.
Instead: Compliment her once in awhile. Like if she has a new hair style, dress, jewerly...ect.
Just some things I could think of at the moment. If anyone else has more attraction killers post them too.
