Well heres the deal I'm 16, goin after a 13 year old. Why? Well pretty much it's something I can't explain. Maybe it's love, she is just really attractive and she's cool to be around. I have been told by numerous girls that I thought were hot that I am really attractive and that tons of girls like me but here's the deal, it doesn't seem to have any affect on the girl I like (the 13 year old). It also makes me mad because I can't really read her body actions, and I can't tell if she likes me or not. Her friend told me that she has some interest in me, but damn some is not enough! It feels kind of awkward when I'm around her, because I like her so much that I just kind of freeze up, say stuff that that really has no meaning, or I just don't say anything at all and wait for someone else to start a conversation. Can someone give me any tips to get her to like me more and to help me in those one on one conversations? Sorry that you had to read through my whole bull-**** experience, thanks.
Attracting younger girls...
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2N Turbo
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Do feel so bad kid, I think your lust for her is all bout looks. Because I can't see how this 13 yr chick can have anything in common with you. I mean you should be all hype up about driving and having sex with chicks your own age. If I was your age, I would be scared to say the word sex around a 13 yr girl. I mean come on, do they even have nipples at that age? If chicks your age say your good looking then go pull them.
Sorry, but this will not work. People at that age are changing almost everyday. It is the process of growing up. And sex, even if she wants it, is out of question, no matter if the laws allow it or not. I know some women, that had sex at that age, and they all think of it as an accident and a bad thing. And they think very low about the boy, they slept with back then.
This can be a nice platonic relationship, but don´t go for more. And even that, I think, will not be for long.
This can be a nice platonic relationship, but don´t go for more. And even that, I think, will not be for long.
I think 2N Turbo is right
It can't be more than looks.
(If it's not just about them and you don't go after girls your age please get some help.)
I couldn't even think about being with a girl 3 years younger than me. Notice my age. And especially at your age when you are 16 and this girls is 13. It's just that you are used to be complimented by girls about your looks etc. but this particular one haven't given any compliments.
I know what you are feeling. I get lot's of compliments about my looks too.
Listen to me bro!
Forget that girl.
Really.
Demand something for yourself too man.
I mean would she be a good kisser or a partner? is she mature? want to play with a Barbie with her? would it be worth it?
No I don't think so.
Let some AFC do that job.
You should prefer girls at your age.
It's not fair to younger guys when you steal their meat.
It can't be more than looks.
(If it's not just about them and you don't go after girls your age please get some help.)
I couldn't even think about being with a girl 3 years younger than me. Notice my age. And especially at your age when you are 16 and this girls is 13. It's just that you are used to be complimented by girls about your looks etc. but this particular one haven't given any compliments.
I know what you are feeling. I get lot's of compliments about my looks too.
Listen to me bro!
Forget that girl.
Really.
Demand something for yourself too man.
I mean would she be a good kisser or a partner? is she mature? want to play with a Barbie with her? would it be worth it?
No I don't think so.
Let some AFC do that job.
You should prefer girls at your age.
It's not fair to younger guys when you steal their meat.
13? Thats way too young. 14 I can understand as she'd be in HS and 15 I can understand as well. There are plenty of hot girls your age thats fine. 13 for some reason is too young but 14 seems ok. Well, not ok to me (16 is my current minimum) but ok at your age.
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DJ RULE NR UNO: Don't put all your eggs in one basket, just keep focused on other girls, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and girls as beautiful or better than that 13 yr old are all around you.
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Just move on and don't forget to have the best attitude possible towards these girls, also try always to dress to impress.
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Just move on and don't forget to have the best attitude possible towards these girls, also try always to dress to impress.
Don't do it, dude. I went out with a 14 year old this year (I'm 16) and it was a huge mistake. She was simply too immature, even though she was hot and I liked her, I just couldn't get along with her. Not to mention that all my friends gave me sh!t about it (I still haven't lived it down, 6 months later). This would be even worse with a 13 year old.
Don't do it!
Don't do it!
Guys I just wanted to say thanks alot for your advice. I didn't expect to see these kind of replies. I thought they would all have bad remarks towards me, but thanks alot for helping me out . Only thing is this one seems different, it's not all about looks either. She is very beautiful and she is awesome to be around. I have just been doing alot of thinking on the subject and trying to think of what would be right to do. And just something else to add, sex isn't everything . The cool thing also is that she is really mature for her age. I would compare her maturity to people in my grade, maybe even sometimes better (some of the girls in my grade act flat out ridiculous). I'm going to see what happens, go along for the ride, and hopefully it will go for the better, again thanks alot for all your guys' help.
. Only thing is this one seems different, it's not all about looks either. She is very beautiful and she is awesome to be around. I have just been doing alot of thinking on the subject and trying to think of what would be right to do. And just something else to add, sex isn't everything . The cool thing also is that she is really mature for her age. I would compare her maturity to people in my grade, maybe even sometimes better (some of the girls in my grade act flat out ridiculous). I'm going to see what happens, go along for the ride, and hopefully it will go for the better, again thanks alot for all your guys' help.
I hear this rationalization from every person who does date significantly younger. At my school, you're considered dirty if you're a senior dating a freshmen. I had a couple of friends who did that and they defended their argument by saying, "She's really mature for her age." In reality, the girls acted like every other girl in their grade: immature. Even when I was 14, my mentality is almost alien compared to my mentality when I was 18. Not just the DJing but I look at everything as the bigger picture.
I still think you're going to make a mistake but its all up to you.