Attitude Towards Rejection: A Mark of a True DJ

[trickynick]

In case you haven't been following with the unfolding of the events. I am seeing a girl right now and I am at a point where I am questioning what direction the seduction is about to take. I have placed a number of posts in the discussion forum detailing some of my concerns.

She may reject me, or she may not. But right now I am at a point where I would be totally fine with either outcome. I have done a lot of things very well with her and I am proud of myself for that. I know what mistakes I have made with her as well.

If she ends up hooking up with me I will enjoy it very much and I will know why she did. If she rejects me I will know why she did, but I will be just as welcoming of a rejection as I will be of a success. Rejections are successes if you understand where the rejection came from and you know what not to do next time.

My assumption is that I will know by the end of the week which way this is going to go and if she rejects me, I just CAN'T WAIT to move on to the next girl and not make the mistakes I know I have made with this one. That will be really cool!

Just remember DJ's, rejection is the absolute cornerstone of success. Never view it as anything else!

 

[Take No Dirt]

Terrific post, dude! Well articulated! Being rejected means one less low interest gal to deal with.

 

[DonJoey]

Yeah I agree...
The last time I got rejected I actually felt great and felt like a Dj..a man for the first time in my life.

The reason being that when it happened, I didnt feel the usual gut wrentching pain and I wasnt that angry and my first thought was "its her loss" but I actually meant it and didnt say it as a way of helping myself cope with rejection...

And its done wonders for me since, I have this belief in myself now that I didnt before and rejection is as casual as saying "hi" to someone.