Attention wh0re or Sh1t test?

[Ma3stro]

So last night me and my cousin went out to our local spot with his girlfriend and two of her friends. One a 7 the other a 9. The 9 I made out with and copped her number a month back when we went out another time, but I just didn't follow through.

I've been reading up on here lately and these kinda chicks need to be brought down to earth. She's super hot and has a rocking bod and knows it. You've got to work for her attention. But I was not going to give into her little games. I negged her a couple times but generally kept the tone light and playful. I proceeded to ditch her and chatted up the 7 while the rest of our group was talking. She was eyeing me while I was talking but I'm not really sure what that meant.

Afterwards the music was getting better so I asked my 9 to come dance. She responded with "Here? But we'll be the only ones dancing." I said, "so what let's start the party for everyone else." She answered, " eh not now maybe in an hour." So I grabbed her friend the 7 right next to her and asked her to dance. She was pretty much overjoyed that I did and was gladly willing to dance. But then the 9 tries to block me out and drag her friend to come dance with her now. I wasn't having that **** and told her to go find another partner while me and the 7 danced.

Throughout the whole night I was getting a bunch of IOIs from the 9. She would put her arm around me, hold my hand when I grabbed hers, hell she was even cool with letting me kiss her on the cheek and head several times. Not to mention we already had several make out sessions the month before. I feel like this might've been a mistake though. Maybe I showed her to much interest.

Anyways after dancing with the 7 I come back and see the 9 getting chatted up by some kid who asked me if she was my girl earlier. I told him no and that he should go talk to her. I found out from my cousin later that she approached him. I ignored her and just continued having fun with my friends. After she got bored with him she came back over, threw her arm around me and was really relieved to be back with us. I asked her to come dance again now after I had already gotten my cousins girl and the 7 to both come dance with me. She agreed and we had a certain chemistry on the floor. It was there the first night we met and it was there again tonight.

Here's where I messed up. I was getting impatient and wanted to make out already. So after we got back to our seats, I posted up against the wall and hugged her close to me, staring deeply into her eyes. It felt right but when I went to kiss her she said " I don't want another bar hookup." This confused me. Now looking back I see that I should've just shrugged it off and went and hooked up with the 7. But being a little drunk and having knowledge prior that we made out in a bar it just didn't make any sense to me why now would be so different.

The rest of the night continued in normal fashion and I didn't really press her anymore. But my point of concern is, is this chick even worth it? Is this some kind of extended sh!t test? Or is she just an attention wh0re? I'm not really sure how to proceed at this point. Like I said I might've shown too much interest but I'm learning from my mistakes and trying to improve. Let me know what you guys think

 

[RagingBalls]

When that kid asked you if she was your girl. You should've claimed her loud and proud as your girl, same with her friend unless you're a future cuckold.

Showing her you got authority over some kid is what makes a man. Next time, take your claim when being challenged by another man.

Imagine that place as a forest, and you're a Lion with your 2 b1tches partying, then comes a younger male cub preying for your b1tches, you're an alpha predator and you're in your terriitory. Would you dare say they're not your b1tches and let that cub go for the kill? Don't be surprised when she said she don't want another bar hook-up. Because that b1tch thinks you're not that ferocious as she think you are after all. Women like that are b1tches attracted to savages, that for them, creates a watery tingling down there on how rough and dirty sex would be like with him. It's not a **** test or she's an attention wh0re, you just failed to qualify.

Attitude separates men from boys. Women wants men to act like a man. If it takes to be rough, so be it.

I hope this serves as a lesson.

 

[Ma3stro]

Guess I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I told the kid they were with me but thought this loser had no chance in hell and I like a bit of a challenge. He literally sat behind us waiting to join our group and we ignored him the whole time. But I see your point so next time I'll do things differently.

 

[devilkingx2]

When that kid asked you if she was your girl. You should've claimed her loud and proud as your girl, same with her friend unless you're a future cuckold.

Showing her you got authority over some kid is what makes a man. Next time, take your claim when being challenged by another man.

Imagine that place as a forest, and you're a Lion with your 2 b1tches partying, then comes a younger male cub preying for your b1tches, you're an alpha predator and you're in your terriitory. Would you dare say they're not your b1tches and let that cub go for the kill? Don't be surprised when she said she don't want another bar hook-up. Because that b1tch thinks you're not that ferocious as she think you are after all. Women like that are b1tches attracted to savages, that for them, creates a watery tingling down there on how rough and dirty sex would be like with him. It's not a **** test or she's an attention wh0re, you just failed to qualify.

Attitude separates men from boys. Women wants men to act like a man. If it takes to be rough, so be it.

I hope this serves as a lesson.

what the **** is this?

 

[papawapa]

"I don't want another bar hook up" is ASD.

She was looking for validation that she would not just be some broad you banged from the bar.

Two ways to handle it are to blow it up in her face or offer her some validation.

You could have blown it up by saying something like, "WHOA! Who said anything about hooking up? I just want to make out with you again. You're a pretty good kisser, almost as good as me." Smirk, and plant one on her.


As far as validation goes I have no advice because I would have blown it up in her face.

 

[Ma3stro]

Thanks I like that. Never really thought to blow it up like that. She's younger than me too so that would have deff done the trick. Im learning a lot about attracting women more than just with looks. I'm not always sure the way to react in these situations. But it almost always seems to be some form of indifference/ IDGAF attitude that gets it done. It's a goal I'm working towards.

 

[skinnyguy]

I work with an HB 10. I'm going to tell her about how in visiting a friend from high school who I think is super hot. If you talk about other girls who you think are hot and give those girls attention, they will get confused and wonder why you aren't hot for them.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

When that kid asked you if she was your girl. You should've claimed her loud and proud as your girl, same with her friend unless you're a future cuckold.

Showing her you got authority over some kid is what makes a man. Next time, take your claim when being challenged by another man.

Imagine that place as a forest, and you're a Lion with your 2 b1tches partying, then comes a younger male cub preying for your b1tches, you're an alpha predator and you're in your terriitory. Would you dare say they're not your b1tches and let that cub go for the kill? Don't be surprised when she said she don't want another bar hook-up. Because that b1tch thinks you're not that ferocious as she think you are after all. Women like that are b1tches attracted to savages, that for them, creates a watery tingling down there on how rough and dirty sex would be like with him. It's not a **** test or she's an attention wh0re, you just failed to qualify.

Attitude separates men from boys. Women wants men to act like a man. If it takes to be rough, so be it.

I hope this serves as a lesson.

This is bad advice; it had nothing to do with that at all.

Doing what you suggested would've made him look insecure and overly protective. I understand where you were going with your thoughts here, but its simply not the case.

Her line on "I don't want another bar hook-up" was pure last minute resistance. Similar to when a kid falls and hurts himself, he looks to you for your reaction before he decides whether to cry or just carry on. Same concept here, had the OP responded with a smooth comeback or comforted her a bit, they would've proceeded to make out heavily and likely hook up later.

Remember one of the most basic lessons and principles you can learn is to:


NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, WATCH WHAT SHE DOES



That is the truth serum and will kill over-analyzing and losing out.









PIMP

 

[Ma3stro]

This is bad advice; it had nothing to do with that at all.

Doing what you suggested would've made him look insecure and overly protective. I understand where you were going with your thoughts here, but its simply not the case.

Her line on "I don't want another bar hook-up" was pure last minute resistance. Similar to when a kid falls and hurts himself, he looks to you for your reaction before he decides whether to cry or just carry on. Same concept here, had the OP responded with a smooth comeback or comforted her a bit, they would've proceeded to make out heavily and likely hook up later.

Remember one of the most basic lessons and principles you can learn is to:




NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, WATCH WHAT SHE DOES



That is the truth serum and will kill over-analyzing and losing out.









PIMP

Yeah now looking back I should've attempted again. I froze up and didn't want to seem overly enthusiastic so I played it safe. Live and learn thanks for the tips.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I'm starting not to believe these stories and I really hate to say this. And I doubt you made out with a 9. Those are rare. if the story is remotely true I think she was probably a solid 6

 

[asa_don]

I think your drunken state made her look like a 9. she wasn't that interested in hooking up with you. end of story.

When that kid asked you if she was your girl. You should've claimed her loud and proud as your girl, same with her friend unless you're a future cuckold.

Showing her you got authority over some kid is what makes a man. Next time, take your claim when being challenged by another man.

Imagine that place as a forest, and you're a Lion with your 2 b1tches partying, then comes a younger male cub preying for your b1tches, you're an alpha predator and you're in your terriitory. Would you dare say they're not your b1tches and let that cub go for the kill? Don't be surprised when she said she don't want another bar hook-up. Because that b1tch thinks you're not that ferocious as she think you are after all. Women like that are b1tches attracted to savages, that for them, creates a watery tingling down there on how rough and dirty sex would be like with him. It's not a **** test or she's an attention wh0re, you just failed to qualify.

Attitude separates men from boys. Women wants men to act like a man. If it takes to be rough, so be it.

I hope this serves as a lesson.

wtf? some of the worst advice i've seen

 

[RagingBalls]

This is bad advice; it had nothing to do with that at all.

Doing what you suggested would've made him look insecure and overly protective. I understand where you were going with your thoughts here, but its simply not the case.

Her line on "I don't want another bar hook-up" was pure last minute resistance. Similar to when a kid falls and hurts himself, he looks to you for your reaction before he decides whether to cry or just carry on. Same concept here, had the OP responded with a smooth comeback or comforted her a bit, they would've proceeded to make out heavily and likely hook up later.

Remember one of the most basic lessons and principles you can learn is to:


NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, WATCH WHAT SHE DOES



That is the truth serum and will kill over-analyzing and losing out.









PIMP

I respect your input. But saying this is a bad advice is unjust only because it goes against your input. I'm fine with that.

It is NOT an act of insecurity or being overly protective. It depends on how hard you really want something. I guess you always stick to the rules when we know every rule has an exemption. You can't always stick by the book. You got to trust your manly instinct.
It's not an act of being needy or desperate. It's being a man of character.

May i ask you, have you tried this approach? because i already have a lot of times and i always bring home the bacon.

Since it wasn't a big deal for you guys me included for not giving a damn if she lost interest or just plainy act a b1tch towards us since we can next her easily, then i suggest try having this attitude next time. It's not about theories but rather an experience in real life.

We might disagree on something but we all came here for pu$$y in the first place and that's all i want for all of us. Peace.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I respect your input. But saying this is a bad advice is unjust only because it goes against your input. I'm fine with that.

I should've been more clear; it wasn't bad advice. It wasn't accurate advice in this specific situation on how to get the girl in my opinion.

It is NOT an act of insecurity or being overly protective. It depends on how hard you really want something.

I see where your coming from and understand that women can be highly turned on by a man being the dominant male in the room, but again context in this particular situation. He was being aloof and following the rules himself because he had an underlying fear of being rejected.

I'm not saying this approach couldn't work; I'm saying it would not have worked for the OP at that point.

I guess you always stick to the rules when we know every rule has an exemption. You can't always stick by the book. You got to trust your manly instinct.

LOL…. I don't follow rules bro.

May i ask you, have you tried this approach? because i already have a lot of times and i always bring home the bacon.

Yes, and it has worked. But again its all about using it in the appropriate situation to work in your benefit; this was not the case.

Since it wasn't a big deal for you guys me included for not giving a damn if she lost interest or just plaint act a b1tch towards us since we can next her easily, then i suggest try having this attitude next time. It's not about theories but rather an experience in real life.

Exactly, but you have to realize congruency is the key with selling anything you do with any girl. Being aloof and hot and cold; then suddenly claiming that the girl is with you when the first guy approaches, is not going to work out well 9/10.

I'm all about direct game, but again the OP set this one up incorrectly because he had an underlying fear of being rejected.

In reality I think our approach is likely fairly similar, I just disagree with you on this particular point in this situation.

We might disagree on something but we all came here for pu$$y in the first place and that's all i want for all of us. Peace.

Absolutely; every peace of advice that I give are things I have tried and tested over and over again.

However, what works for me, might not work for the next guy.

I know you mean well and I see where your coming from; I just don't think it was the right advice for the OP to get what he wanted that night.










PIMP

 

[MillionBillionaire]

This is bad advice; it had nothing to do with that at all.

Doing what you suggested would've made him look insecure and overly protective. I understand where you were going with your thoughts here, but its simply not the case.

Her line on "I don't want another bar hook-up" was pure last minute resistance. Similar to when a kid falls and hurts himself, he looks to you for your reaction before he decides whether to cry or just carry on. Same concept here, had the OP responded with a smooth comeback or comforted her a bit, they would've proceeded to make out heavily and likely hook up later.

Remember one of the most basic lessons and principles you can learn is to:


NEVER PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT A GIRL SAYS, WATCH WHAT SHE DOES



That is the truth serum and will kill over-analyzing and losing out.









PIMP

Quoted for truth. I finally understand lmr.

And I like the part about having "direct game." Wish you could explain what that is.