At a dance or first day of school

[bud_2005]

I will be going to a school dance tomorrow night but j/w is it wrong to ask a girl out at a dance. Also school starts Monday for me would it also be wrong to ask a girl out on the first day of school.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

if your a fressman yes!!! flirt the first day. But unless you've know the girl befor just flirt and get a number. If the dance is a mixer. Don't ask anyone. Mix wit people. Enjoy yourself. If you are a fressmna don't go out in a long term relationship. Your longest relationship should be a moth and a half MAX. Don't settle. Be nomadic

 

[Smooth as Anything]

^^

Aren't you the guy here to sell poems or something?



Asking a girl out at a dance is sort of tacky...

My best advice is to dance with her, pickup how she responds, and afterwards ask her out (not immediately afterwards, after the dance ends).

I don't know... I need to sleep... but uhh...

I don't think asking a chick out at a dance is a good idea... Makes it sound like you needed a reason to ask her out or something almost...

I'll respond to this again when I'm awake man.

Best wishes.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

I don't sell poems I write them for free. u suck. Don't ask a chick out on a date. If you really need to ask her just hint. See what everyone esle is doing. Anyone else bringing a date? Sencond Just hint. call or talk to her. When she or you bring it up be like

"So your going to that dance thing"
"yeah sure"
"Who you going with?"
"Me? No one really(or a few girlfriends which ever)."
"Well that can't be fun. We always have fun together. Why don't U go with me"

or something like that.
Don't straight ask her out.
Talk her into it casually.
Make her think that what she's doing right nows not gonna be boring so she needs to go with you.
Make her feel like without you she's gonna have a horrible time at this dance. Get the point.

Overall if its like a mixer just mix. You don't need a date.If you still want one. Don't have a direct You Me Going out date. Have a casual date. So you can always ditch her if a really hot girl comes around. Or if she's really boring or smells bad. Ect. U get the point

 

[dbot]

"Well that can't be fun. We always have fun together. Why don't U go with me"

I wouldn't word it like a question, because then it gives her a chance to say no. I find it best to speak in a matter-of-fact sort of way...

"You should go with me"
"It would be best if we went together"
"Come with me, it'll be fun"
"Screw your friends, you're going with me"

Okay I was kidding about the last one, but you get the idea.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Originally posted by DarkfalconIV

Talk her into it casually.

Any Chick that you have to talk anything into isn't worth it. She should be enthusiastic in the first place.



Love Poems Suck.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

When I said that I ment more of...

Don't say "umm... Hey Betty you wanna go to the dance with me."
While your voice cracks

I ment indirectly make sure she's not going with anyone else before you ask so you don't mek a fool of your self. And then ask her out. Whatever do as yee will, harm none